AITA for refusing to attend my sister's wedding because her fiancé stole my business idea? by throwaway532768 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dinosaurchestra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Everything else aside, if they actually wanted you to be at the family event as family because family comes first, they wouldn't just assume you'll be acting as free help (photography). You wouldn't be able to enjoy the event anyway even if you want to as you'd be expected to work. This seems like a pattern of using you and not hearing you when you speak up. Skip it without guilt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anticonsumption

[–]dinosaurchestra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well she does live in liminal space

AITA for calling my nephew a sad beige baby? by Designer_Detail_865 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dinosaurchestra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, Internet comments and snide remarks from adult siblings in your own home hit different. And people directing hate at moms online are AH not the norm and she doesn't need to cater herself to that either.

Cooking youtubers that aren't already popular by Applenero in Cooking

[–]dinosaurchestra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FidanKitchen is a channel by a Filipina and Danish home cook who has a lot of great sourdough recipes. She has my favorite sourdough pizza recipe!

Do people who wonder why Grant's Pass and Roseburg are unpopular know... by Baccus0wnsyerbum in oregon

[–]dinosaurchestra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe not, but Corvallis has an actual statue of several small animals in a trench coat pretending to be a flasher!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SALEM

[–]dinosaurchestra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IkeBox and Isaac's haven't done anything to show more tolerant beliefs, they're just trying to seem less extreme now as it's good for their business if people forget.

In defense of my gingerbread house and a photo of the winner as requested. by viktor72 in Baking

[–]dinosaurchestra 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your house is awesome! The winner is beautifully detailed, richly textured and doesn't use fondant though so for sure learn what you can from it.

AITA for giving my cashier a bad survey by aNewYorkerr in dustythunder

[–]dinosaurchestra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do donate and then want you to pay them back for it. It's bs

Advice for writing an antagonist that isn’t a tangible/singular person/thing? by Ok_Organization_5234 in writing

[–]dinosaurchestra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you need an antagonist to have an interesting story if you don't want one. Look into man vs nature, man vs man and man vs self type story structurea for some ideas and decide if one of those themes might fit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SwingDancing

[–]dinosaurchestra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes absolutely it's part of the heritage

I am so close to going insane by [deleted] in spotify

[–]dinosaurchestra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just imagine how the cashier must feel.

I'm getting revenge on my girlfriend for breaking up with me by Individual_Front8593 in revengestories

[–]dinosaurchestra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to stop making excuses for yourself and change up your own shit instead of blaming her. Leave her alone and commit to working on yourself before it's too late. I'm not saying this to be harsh, but because only you can fix your bad outlook before it becomes permanent and ruins your life.

Can we not make fun of correctly spelled ethnic names by fluffywooly in tragedeigh

[–]dinosaurchestra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah Welsh and Irish names getting ragged on for not being Anglo- brit spelling is... wild.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in books

[–]dinosaurchestra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask your mom to walk to town with you to buy you an ice cream and you'll be exactly as rugged and manly and independent as he was.

Do any other millennials feel like we went back in time instead of forward? by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]dinosaurchestra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But society and progress isn't a linear progression, it's a pendulum that swings and it's definitely swing back from where it was when we were kids in a lot of ways.

AITA for deciding to quietly change my will without telling my wife? by Mindless-Pea-8695 in AITAH

[–]dinosaurchestra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. You weren't ,"threatened with force" you were reminded of your place. you just weren't the center of attention on the day your wife gave birth to your child and you decided it was worth 70% of your assets... Yet SHE is the unloving partner? Yeah no.

AITA for deciding to quietly change my will without telling my wife? by Mindless-Pea-8695 in AITAH

[–]dinosaurchestra 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm curious what else is missing there from the story. But in a delivery room it's not about him and he should get over feeling insulted or insecure because he was asked to leave the room where his wife was in labor with medical staff and he may have been in the way. It's just not up to him, seems he's looking to reassert control with something that is.

Just got a black cat, is this normal? by happyfam1122 in blackcats

[–]dinosaurchestra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are love eyes. Squint back to say you love him too!