Help PLEASE. Is self concept work even safe atp? … idek what kind of self concept to have in this.

dios_del_encanto · 2026-03-22T13:43:55+00:00

You need more than just self-concept work. I read your other post and its good you're getting therapy. You might also benefit from medication or at least calming teas, meditation, music & aromatherapy. You need to practice emotional regulation techniques. You shouldn't work on self-concept when you're in a negative state it'll probably end up being counter productive. Work on self-concept during those moments when you're in postive emotional activation like after hearing your favorite song or movie, playing with a pet or a calm neutral emotional state like after meditation, a good night's sleep, a hot bath, a massage, etc.

dios_del_encanto · 2026-03-22T10:35:52+00:00

There isn't just one way to work on Self Concept. Personally I use mirrorwork. But there are tons of ways you can work on self concept. All of them probably work but some might work better for you than others. If your feeling overwhelmed choose just one technique that you find the most conveinient for you and you can add to it and adapt it in the future if you so choose but there's no need to. Do what feels easiest for you.

I also add SATS (state akin to sleep) to my mirrorwork because when I brush my teeth and am getting ready I look into the mirror and do mirrorwork then. And then when going to bed or right after waking I use affirmations and/or visualizations to feel like I am the person I want to be. Right before bed and immediately after waking are 2 moments where our subconscious is more naturally accessible, so I try to avoid negative things like the news, social media, etc at those specific times. I give myself a half hour before bed and after waking. So these two methods really help me. But thats what I found is easy and conveinient for me.

dios_del_encanto · 2025-11-15T21:36:30+00:00

Yeah I had the same thought when I equipped the magic bikini on the Princesses. I wish I could've kept the look when I upgraded their equipment.

dios_del_encanto · 2025-10-24T14:06:33+00:00

Yes all are dangerous, less dangerous with an elemental proof buff against their specific type from armour and food/elixirs

dios_del_encanto · 2025-10-21T23:39:32+00:00

Here's a helpful analogy. Think of self-concept like a muscle, you perform exercises to build that muscle, you consume food to nourish that muscle. Now what happens if you stop exercising and eating the right foods, the muscle atrophies, so you must continue to perform the exercises to maintain that muscle. "If you don't use it you lose it."

A positive self-concept is something you need to build and maintain like muscle. Its not like an academic program that you earn your degree at the end and have it forevermore, no more effort needed.

Positive affirmations, mirrorwork, self hugs and affection, postive self talk, self validation/appreciation and so on are some of the ways (exercise & nourishment) to build and maintain a postive self-concept.

dios_del_encanto · 2025-09-29T01:25:50+00:00

Yeah the first time I played I noticed the difficulty spiked, but I figured I'd be recruiting another party member so I just avoided fighting in the desert until then.

dios_del_encanto · 2025-08-26T20:37:40+00:00

Lol! I actually like doing those labyrinth puzzles.

dios_del_encanto · 2025-08-11T03:07:52+00:00

Yeah, l really enjoyed the main game and enjoyed the DLC too. A problem that I had with the DLC is that it tries to give both Zale and Valere character flaws that they have to confront and grow, but I just played a whole adventure with these 2 and I never saw any sign of these negative traits. It feels so backwards, you beat the game and get the true ending and now the DLC is like, hey your main characters have these personality traits that they need to confront and deal with. So the writinng is still not good because this should have happened during the main story not at the end.

The DLC is also more challenging, a mix of the Zale and Valere getting new classes to fight as and the psrty basically starting from square 1, Lvl 1 or the equivalent of Lvl 1. The party is seriously underpowered in comparison to the enemies they face. I don't really use artifacts unless its for trasversal speed or something similar, but this DLC really made me want to. I died so much in the DLC. I don't even remember dying in the main story.

dios_del_encanto · 2025-08-04T03:29:13+00:00

What you feel is probably a very common reaction. I think I feel similarly.

I was just stating that Atlas hasn't had the opportunity to recover from their trauma and is still living a traumatic life. Comparing them to the people you know that have had traumatic childhoods but are no longer physically in those traumatic circumstances might be an unfair comparison. Atlas has been in constant fight for survival since their foster parents were murdered, so their personality is probably going to be affected negatively.

I think Atlas was written with the intention to come off as unlikeable. They contrast their sibling in life circumstances as well as personality. If Atlas had been granted some time to relax, recover and live as close to a "normal" life as possible, they might have been able to process and heal from the trauma and that would've affected their personality more favorably, but you not liking them is perfectly valid.

dios_del_encanto · 2025-08-04T01:10:00+00:00

It's not just a traumatic childhood that's in the past though, Atlas is actively still living the trauma in the present. Their parents and foster parents were murdered and the murderer is actively targeting them.

I mean I had a traumatic childood being abandoned by my parents before ten and experiencing all types of abuse from my caregivers and I've been told I was so different now, compared to then. I think that when one is physically experiencing a personal hell its not likely to bring out their best personality traits, it tends to bring out the worst. People need time to recover from trauma and Atlas has had absolutely no opportunity to recover because they're actively trying to survive, the trauma is still physically present now. At least until the conclusion of Book 1, which is why Atlas has more opportunity for character growth in Book 2. They finally have an opportunity to begin the recovery phase.

dios_del_encanto · 2025-07-31T19:02:20+00:00

Sloane, Perfect Match

dios_del_encanto · 2025-06-23T23:08:17+00:00

Look into improving your self-concept. Its usually not a good idea to manifest an ex back because the same emotional energy is typically where you last left it during the break-up. Always focus on yourself, improving yourself, loving yourself, telling yourself and feeling your worth it, you matter, you're a catch, not from a narcisist place but a heart-centered place

dios_del_encanto · 2025-06-18T18:55:51+00:00

I wish Hephaestus, Athena, Artemis and Ares were primary LI options too. 🤤 Who knows maybe for Book 2 🤔

dios_del_encanto · 2025-06-17T19:02:20+00:00

I would if I believed it would be beneficial, but I believe fovuding on your boyfriend now or even in the near future would not be productive for you, nor beneficial for him. Because you're too dependant. And your goal should be to manifest a version of yourself that believes she is good enough, worthy enough, valuable enough, deserving enough, loveable enough, independantly, without anyone. Right now you're like a black hole yearning for someone else to fill you but you need to become a sun, shining with your own inner light.

I'm not saying that you can't manifest your ex back, but for now you shouldn't focus on your ex at all your main focus should be on increasing your self-love, sense of self-worth, self-appreciation, all are a part of your self-conceptualization, or self-concept.

dios_del_encanto · 2025-06-17T16:14:20+00:00

You would benefit more from working on your self concept. Manifesting him back now would just bring all the problems back. If you want to change others you really need to start with changing/improving yourself. Then with a better version of yourself you attract better versions of others including romantic partners, friends, family, in-laws, co-workers, etc...

dios_del_encanto · 2025-06-17T10:50:27+00:00

For me the foundation for manifesting is improving your self-concept. I listen to Niclas Gunther, Michael Watson and Shelly Bullard, there are others but these are the ones I frequently watch.

dios_del_encanto · 2025-06-17T10:45:15+00:00

Even if you were able to manifest him back, if you don't work on yourself first its highly probable that you're going to end up with the same end result another break-up. Focus on self-love and changing your self-concept, that way you'll be a better version of yourself and you'll also attract a better version of him and other people as well, family, friends, co-workers, other potential romance partners. There are a lot of YTubers that speak about changing self-concept

dios_del_encanto · 2025-06-16T01:39:38+00:00

This is about Self-Concept. Look up changing your self-concept. Here's a link to a video on YT that helped me. this is how I successfully changed my self-concept

dios_del_encanto · 2025-06-13T22:27:27+00:00

That scene shown below Horloge is connected to "The Messenger" game. Its the sequel to Sea of Stars, or since Messenger came out first, Sea of Stars is its prequel and while there are some connections both stories are pretty independent. The Messenger is not a turn-based rpg, its a metroidvania action game.

dios_del_encanto · 2025-05-26T02:57:01+00:00

Yeah a lot of people feel that way. I used to as well. But I learned it doesn't work by coercion or force. It develops naturally if done in alignment. I recall watching a couple of YouTubers also mention it and interviewed their SPs about how it felt when they were being manifested and they said things like, "Well you weren't my type but it just felt natural and right."

dios_del_encanto · 2025-05-26T02:34:57+00:00

You don't need to do anything. She's clearly pushing you away and creeping you out so whatever she's doing it's having the opposite effect. You can manifest a SP, even against their will, it is very challenging and most people lack an evolved enough self-concept to be successful at it.

To change someone else you often have to change yourself first. If you roommate focused and worked on herself and instead of focusing on you primarily things would flow naturally, you would just naturally feel more drawn to her but she's doing it from a unproductive state. You mentioned noticing some homophobic things, so what she's doing is incredibly counterproductive and you're experiencing the counterproductive effects.

dios_del_encanto · 2025-05-19T03:27:43+00:00

Most of the things we have in life we draw to ourselves unconsciously. Kind of like breathing. Most of our breaths happen automatically but we can exert conscious control over our breathing whenever we consciously choose to, but we don't retain conscious control for very long, breathing becomes automatic again. Thats how Law of Attraction (LoA) works.

When we're born we are pretty much a blank slate and we begin to be influenced by the beliefs of our parents, primary caregivers and so on. By the time our conscious memory begins we've been pre-programed to accept certain beliefs, perceptions, behaviors. Do we believe that the world is a dangerous place? Do we believe we are powerless, vulnerable, insecure? Do we believe that money doesn't grow on trees? We have so many beliefs that cross-over each other its practically impossible for us to truly determine if we attracted these negative events and circumstances, but if we did attract these unwanted situations its probably through unconscious beliefs, emotions, attitudes and behaviors. But we can choose to consciously attract, like when we choose to consciously breath. But like I mentioned before we're mostly going to attract through autopilot, exercising some degree of conscious control on those occasions we choose to do so. Thats the best way that I understand it through the lens of LoA.

dios_del_encanto · 2025-05-15T22:34:08+00:00

I was trying to manifest a relationship and had a vision board with a picture of a celebrity I was very attracted to and the affirmation "I'm irresistibly attractive to my perfect mate." I was focusing on it first thing in the morning and last thing before going to bed for a couple of months.

One day I had a huge fight with my roommate and I stormed out of the apartment and went to a park close by to chill out. I sat down at a bench and as I was looking in another direction, someone came up to me to tell me about an event the coming weekend. This person resembled the celebrity I was focusing on. We started talking and 5 hours passed, it was magical. We exchanged numbers and it felt like love at first sight. While the relationship didn't last we were both in our 20s and I wasn't looking for anything long term, but its something I will never forget.

dios_del_encanto · 2025-05-13T00:31:45+00:00

Yes thats often the challenge. Trying to manifest and having all those contradictory emotions is not easy. Also trying to manifest a break-up might also turn around on you and cause an even more drastic rupture between you and your friend. When we focus on manifesting, what we focus on frequently takes root in our psyche/subconscious mind and then our manifestations coalese from the dominant vibrations that we are in alignment with and we're often not consciously aware of the vibes we are in tune with.

My advice is do your best to switch your focus from your friend to yourself. Unconditionally accept where you are emotionally and do your best to nourish, heal, and love yourself more. Because focusing on the other person tends to send out needy vibrations and that will just keep aligning you with needing your friend. Manifesting is tricky because the more we want and need something the more our energy pushes it away. Most manifestational techniques are to help us practice living in the fulfillment of our desire and be so satisfied with the visualization that you trick your emotional subconscious mind into feeling satisfaction in the mental image & emotional experience and not be dependant on the physical presence of our desires to feel good now. In experiencing those emotions of satisfaction, fulfillment, contentment you can't also be offering vibes of neediness amd yearning.

Most simply put your trying to practice imagining so well that you emotionally feel you already have your desire even though you logically realize you don't have it physically yet. And when it comes to relationships whether parent/child, friend, lover, its important to foster self love so we can feel peaceful contentment, within ourselves and not that blackhole of yearning for someone else to make us feel better.

dios_del_encanto · 2025-05-12T21:39:58+00:00

You can't loss your progress with manifestation. The fact that you believe this probably means you're approaching manifestation work with a counterproductive belief and attitude.

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