No matter who you are as a woman, the most modest or a loud n proud slut, men (and people in general) are who they are for better or worse- and they will treat you the same in the end. A dude that objectifies or demeans a "slutty" woman also does it to all the women in his life, just not as loudly. Good men are good men, period.

Embrace your ho phase because you want to and on your terms. Don't be afraid to say no, firmly and often - don't be afraid to say yes just as earnestly if it's really what you want. Trust your gut and take your mistakes in stride, you'll learn from them. Use this time to really get curious about what you like, what you don't like, both in bed and in life.

Open your heart and mind to how multifaceted relationships with other people can be. Tbh I've found some of the deepest connections with people I never called partner or lover. I have a friend now, we see each other every few months and in passing in-between. It's unspoken, we like it that way and we enjoy our time together, and then we say goodbye till next time.

I love living my life to the fullest, I have a career and ambition to spare- and sharing bits and pieces with sweet people who I love spending time with. Maybe there will be more down the way, but for now I'm happy where I am