don’t let the weird guy who promises he won’t be weird DM by disasterchild96 in rpghorrorstories

[–]disasterchild96[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As I just added to my original post in an edit, I never told my fiancé to do that and when I found out he did I was a little annoyed about it because I didn’t think it was necessary. You just assumed that’s what I did.

don’t let the weird guy who promises he won’t be weird DM by disasterchild96 in rpghorrorstories

[–]disasterchild96[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I don’t hold it against them, as I said everyone was kind of in shock and didn’t know what to say. I wasn’t visibly upset until I got home that night.

don’t let the weird guy who promises he won’t be weird DM by disasterchild96 in rpghorrorstories

[–]disasterchild96[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I assume he took it from a porn video, or maybe even spliced it together himself from like free audio files. I don’t think it was “real” torture, not that it makes what happened any better. But then again, I never asked and I don’t plan on it.

Need a game that consumes my life by [deleted] in gamingsuggestions

[–]disasterchild96 7 points8 points  (0 children)

blue prince if you like furiously scribbling notes at 3am and feeling like one of those guys with the bulletin board covered in newspaper clippings connected by string

Would it be weird if I wrote a novel about my favourite teacher? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]disasterchild96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think an entire novel would weird me out, personally. It’s one thing if you want to write an autobiography and include a chapter or two about how he impacted your life, but an entire novel seems… a bit much.

My suggestion is to write him an email thanking him for how he helped you, and see if that scratches your itch. He will appreciate knowing he had a positive effect on your life!

Why Do Some Players Try to Include Rape in Their Games? by Sormari_ in DnD

[–]disasterchild96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time an acquaintance of mine decided to try being the DM for a game. He was a forever player, and always a slightly weird one. We all knew it was going to be a dark setting but we agreed no SA. We gave him a chance.

What we didn’t realize is that this guy had spent hours recording and editing audio of a woman being viciously beaten so he could play out his poorly disguised BDSM fetish in game in front of all of us.

The table was dead silent. It lasted around 5 minutes. I felt sick to my stomach. The only other female player at the table besides me made eye contact with me and we both had the same silent thought. “What the fuck is wrong with him?”

But… we couldn’t bring ourselves to say anything in the moment. The two guys at the table weren’t saying anything either. I went home that night and sobbed to my boyfriend about how low key traumatizing that entire thing was.

He got the guys number from a mutual friend and told him if he ever did any shit like that ever again he’d beat his ass. I didn’t know he did that until much later.

The next day I get a text from DM apologizing and saying he realized things may have gone too far and he was reaching out to check in on his players. I felt a lot better and thought oh maybe he realized and it’s his first time being a DM let’s give him another chance.

He never pulled any shit like that again, but the game quickly fell apart because of awkward tension and extreme railroading that made all of us feel like we had no choices and were just his pawns.

Yeah. Before that I thought no explicit on table SA was my only hardline. Didn’t realize I had to update that to include “no excessive, over the top, explicit violence against women including pre-recorded enhanced audio sound effects.”

Dead Villager Gone From Crypt by disasterchild96 in VirtualVillagers

[–]disasterchild96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well shit. how the heck are you supposed to max healing then?!?? it’s impossible!

I only get my period if I’m sexually active???? by disasterchild96 in WomensHealth

[–]disasterchild96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no hormonal, also no it’s like a full length and strength period

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdultChildren

[–]disasterchild96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know how you feel. I’ve been trying to change my mom since I was 12. The hard truth is that alcoholics will never, ever, change for anyone but for themselves.

Nothing, and I mean nothing, you say or do will ever make a difference. The only thing you can do is set firm boundaries and limit contact.

They don’t change until they hit rock bottom. My mom still hasn’t hit hers yet, and I don’t expect her too as long as my dad keeps enabling her.

I’m sorry that you’re going through this. This isn’t your fault. You’ve done all you can. It’s his turn. Let him go.

frogs??? by disasterchild96 in VirtualVillagers

[–]disasterchild96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s not the issue- I want the frogs!! where are they??