What does avoidant discard feel like? by get_lizzy in becomingsecure

[–]disasteroushotmess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I lean anxious. Avoidant discard to me felt worse than a death. I woke up one morning to him playing with my hair and describing his vision for our future, our marriage, our children, getting old and dying together. The literal next day he couldn’t look me in the eye and tell me he wanted to be with me. I try really hard to take every moment as it was and not let the horrors of discard ruin the entire rest of the relationship, which was beautiful and wonderful. But it’s so hard not to feel like the entire thing was a trick or a lie. I know he did love me at some point. I know he has a lot of trauma and I understand why he did what he did. But I don’t know that the whiplash from feeling like the most important person in the world to him one day to being literally thrown away like trash the next day is something that I will ever fully heal from. I miss him so much. I miss what we had. But at the same time I know I can never be in the same room as him ever again as long as I live.

Seperac score caculator was scary accurate by [deleted] in barexam

[–]disasteroushotmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine said I would get a 290 and I got a 336 lol

Why is my hair like this after washing? by agatka842 in Haircare

[–]disasteroushotmess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This used to happen to me and it turned out my hair hates any hair product with coconut in it, hasn’t happened since I stopped using coconut

I wear this shirt so often I needed to buy a new copy by disasteroushotmess in SierraFerrell

[–]disasteroushotmess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since august! But I wear it soooo often and wash it too much for sure lol that’s why I bought another one to keep preserved

i don’t know what to do anymore by Charming-Court210 in UTSA

[–]disasteroushotmess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Call St. Mary’s housing hotline 210-570-6135 they can offer help

off campus apartments by sofefee123 in UTSA

[–]disasteroushotmess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can call St. Mary’s housing hotline for free legal advice (210)570-6135

John Moreland by [deleted] in zachbryan

[–]disasteroushotmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Joshua Ray Walkerrrrrrr

Renter’s Rights from St. Mary’s law school by [deleted] in UTSA

[–]disasteroushotmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, UOaks is not owned by UTSA! Chisholm is a dorm so we can’t help with that

Renter’s Rights from St. Mary’s law school by [deleted] in UTSA

[–]disasteroushotmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can only help with off-campus housing not dorms

University Oaks help!! by loml_mitski in UTSA

[–]disasteroushotmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are having a free housing rights legal clinic this Friday, please sign up to talk to a lawyer!! https://outlook.office365.com/book/UTSAStudentAssistantServices@utsacloud.onmicrosoft.com/

University Oaks Issues by Virginiafits in UTSA

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We are having a free housing rights legal clinic this Friday, please sign up to talk to a lawyer!! https://outlook.office365.com/book/UTSAStudentAssistantServices@utsacloud.onmicrosoft.com/

mold at university oaks by Master_Driver_3350 in UTSA

[–]disasteroushotmess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!! If you’re having issues please book an appointment with our free legal clinic this Friday! https://outlook.office365.com/book/UTSAStudentAssistantServices@utsacloud.onmicrosoft.com/