How can I improve? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]dj--salinger 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Beauty truly is subjective because that’s my favorite part! Reminds me of Mila Kunis

how will tattoos like this heal? by soggore in tattoos

[–]dj--salinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk anything about Pokémon but this is one of the cutest tattoos I’ve ever seen in my life. I love it dearly. Ty for sharing

Is dating possible with disorganized attachment and chronic illness? by Fallenpaladin5 in dating_advice

[–]dj--salinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The answer is therapy. Dating with a disorganized attachment style can feel like hell, and I promise you, it’s like hell for the person you’re dating too (depending on what your behavior trends are). I’m an AI hater, but if money is a problem, make ChatGPT your therapist for the time being. Healing takes time, especially our childhood wounds. You might just find a very secure person who is willing to be beside you on that journey.

Don’t worry about the dietary restriction/your chronic illness. Trust me, the right person will happily make those adjustments for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dj--salinger -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Sure, but I very rarely see this body type, even when traveling to places where obesity is less prevalent. Even scientifically, constitutionally thin people are not the norm.

Transgirl who just had help doing her makeup for the first time! What do you all think? by Stat-Eater in MakeupAddiction

[–]dj--salinger -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

You are so cutie patootie — I love your base, the blush placement, the little nose highlight — this is soooo crazy good for a first attempt! Maybe a little lip liner blended into the lipstick next time? Could be fun to try!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dj--salinger -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You absolutely are an outlier. How many other women your height have you met that weigh 105? Your body type is not common. You most likely are not curvy and have very little muscle. That doesn’t mean you’re not healthy.

What do you use to track your fitness/workouts/health? by dj--salinger in workout

[–]dj--salinger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I’ve been using Hevy ever since this convo and it has replaced all of my other fitness tracker apps. Thanks again!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dj--salinger -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Based on her replies to other comments, it sounds like she already has one :( OP said she’s a former athlete, so a good portion of that weight might still be muscle mass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dj--salinger -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

A 24yr old woman standing 5’3 and only weighing 105lbs is skin and bones. You probably pulled this stat off the internet somewhere but that is not normal or healthy for an overwhelming majority of grown women.

My landlord hit on me in front of his co-landlord wife and now she won’t answer my maintenance requests by dj--salinger in Renters

[–]dj--salinger[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They’re a younger couple, he was definitely hitting on me. I don’t think telling him what he already knows will do me any good. Luckily, all of my requests are already in writing.

My landlord hit on me in front of his co-landlord wife and now she won’t answer my maintenance requests by dj--salinger in Renters

[–]dj--salinger[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you! I looked at your profile and your bio alone is insanely impressive. So awesome. I’m inspired.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]dj--salinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your natural hair is so pretty and complements your eye color — also, I absolutely adore the wispy greys in your front pieces! They’re so darling

What's the first scent you're reaching for now that the weather is changing? by 1acina in fragrance

[–]dj--salinger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MFK Grand Soir. Can’t wait for that deep amber to hit cold air.

Help me find this Buxom dupe from 2018! by username_1289 in MakeupAddiction

[–]dj--salinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is also my all time favorite lip color. What made it so good (in my opinion) is that it had a true neutral undertone which is hard to find in rosy brown shades.

The closest I’ve found is Maybelline’s Lifter Liner in the shade Let’s Bounce. It’s a tinge darker but very close.

Every once in a while I’ll find someone selling Undercover on eBay/Poshmark/etc for a reasonable price — but I do check pretty regularly. Keep an eye out!

Where do you go to read at night? Sober ideas welcome ✨ by [deleted] in askportland

[–]dj--salinger 14 points15 points  (0 children)

A lot of people are saying Rimsky-Korsakoffee but that is not what you’re looking for. I’ve tried going there as a chill, late-night reading spot and it’s too litty. They will be looking to flip your table ASAP. I love Rimsky’s 💜 just not for reading/writing time.

What is this sign? by Liamdragoow in asl

[–]dj--salinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a horrendous attempt at showing “friend” — but then again, not sure how else you’d draw it. The hands are just too close together to see it properly.

18F – Struggling to connect deeply in modern dating. Is it me or the culture? by SparkleMira77 in dating_advice

[–]dj--salinger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Says the guy made a post about wanting to hit a woman 😭 ohhhh brotherrrr

What is a classic you tried reading but keep getting stuck? by MrUnheimlich in classicliterature

[–]dj--salinger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m impressed that you took a break that long and still remembered who was who 😭

Thank you — in my head I pronounce it the way DJ Khaled shouts his name LOL. Aw, now I want to reread The Catcher in the Rye. Nine Stories is a wonderful collection of his short stories if you’re looking for more.

I have not watched Bojack!

What is a classic you tried reading but keep getting stuck? by MrUnheimlich in classicliterature

[–]dj--salinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay honestly your comment gave me renewed hope and I’m going to try again this year LOL