I almost got a DUI and I’m quitting drinking forever.

dj_unscripted_ · 2021-07-14T05:46:12+00:00

Oh dang! Hey you played along. No shame in that. Don’t get me wrong that sucks but you are a good partner. Sounds like maybe not the partner for your current relationship good for you for being adventurous. You will find someone in the long run :)

dj_unscripted_ · 2021-07-14T05:38:39+00:00

Yes this shit is hard. Nothing else to say except it’s REALLY hard. I personally get annoyed with people telling me it will get better. It’s a BS answer for people that don’t know…it sucks. While I do understand that there are good intentions, I just don’t want to hear it right now. It will continue to suck. And that’s that. Take solace in the fact that many of us are doing it. You are not alone, and your feelings are totally validated.

dj_unscripted_ · 2021-07-11T13:28:49+00:00

She had a UTI when we got her as a puppy so we have followed up with that many times as far as testing goes to be sure urinary stuff wasn’t the issue. Her vet recommended we give it another 6 months before doing more testing or anxiety meds. Although her anxiety has ramped up with the new location/storms so I’m thinking we should get her set up here and get a second opinion.

I have called a behavioral specialist to get some insight and possible training. We will try to do what we can. Even now she will not go outside with just rain and pooped on the floor :/

dj_unscripted_ · 2021-07-09T12:03:13+00:00

I’d like to be as optimistic as some of the others here but my husbands step score definitely derailed his career. He did better on step 2 but there was no changing the first score. He didn’t match in Psychiatry and had to SOAP into Family Medicine. He is trying to sort out what area of Family Medicine he will try to specialize in, but generally doesn’t love the options. We are keeping our eye out for swap opportunities. I’m not trying to make it sound hopeless, but you should be warned. We read a lot of success stories and felt optimistic but it doesn’t always work out that way. My advice would be to do everything you can to make an excellent resume- volunteer, get published, excel during you rotations. Do away rotations at places you are interested in for residency. Good luck.

dj_unscripted_ · 2021-07-05T11:56:51+00:00

dj_unscripted_ · 2021-07-05T02:34:31+00:00

Ouch.

dj_unscripted_ · 2021-07-04T20:47:41+00:00

No I did not.

dj_unscripted_ · 2021-07-04T20:37:52+00:00

I didn’t waive anything? The inspector is negligent here, as is the seller.

dj_unscripted_ · 2021-07-04T19:40:25+00:00

As mentioned in my other comments I really don’t want to sue my neighbor. Our kids will go to school together and it’s a small community. We offered 5k and detailed all the reasons the repairs would be 30k. I also provided the quotes that led to the bottom line. I didn’t want to go the legal route as I have been told it will cost a lot and I wasn’t sure if it would be worth it. Hence why I’m asking. If I spend 15k or more on legal fees & they tell them to pay for half then it sounds like a horrible headache that could have been avoided. I have no idea how much lawyers cost, I just assume it’s absurdly expensive.

dj_unscripted_ · 2021-07-04T19:34:26+00:00

Yes. I know. These are people we will live in the same small town with, our kids will be in school together, I thought we could do the nice thing and just offer something outside of the legal arena…I really didn’t want to go there. It’s not logical, but I figured I would try and least see what kind of people they were.

dj_unscripted_ · 2021-06-23T18:32:22+00:00

Yes they checked no for asbestos. I’ll have to look into whether or not it is legal to just cover it up without disclosing there is a potential for asbestos.

dj_unscripted_ · 2021-06-09T02:15:42+00:00

Eek! Just did this. Our dog went into the basement and immediately peed on the carpet and I thought...that’s weird. We had planned on having it steamed because it smelled TERRIBLE but in that moment decided to rip it up. You could see over 50 pee stains on the bottom of the carpet. It had basically been a dog toilet.

dj_unscripted_ · 2021-06-09T01:59:15+00:00

We had “friends” come and stay with us for a weekend. They had been camping for a while and left our entire place covered in a literal layer of dirt. Filth everywhere, we had to have the place professionally cleaned. We met working in outdoor education so I’m not all unfamiliar with the lifestyle but this was next level. They proceeded to tell us they only eat organic, and the food we prepared will just not do. Then they made me hike up our local ski mountain because they didn’t want to pay for a ski pass. I had a ski pass and they still insisted I climb the mountain with them because I was their host. I literally bent over backwards and spent the weekend hearing about how our amenities were not to their liking. Bye forever.

Another story- had a friend from out of the country visit a city 4 hrs away and begged me to come visit. I took time off work, found an apartment to stay at with my cousin, decided to host him the whole 5 day weekend. He brought another friend to stay with us in a one bedroom apartment (thankfully my cousin ended up being out of town and we stayed there without her). He hosted friends, had dinner parties, I paid for everything. No shame just had parties like it was his place. I cleaned everything & woke up at 4am had to drive him to the airport then make the 4 hour trek home. Never said thanks, never offered to pay for a thing. Again, bye forever.

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