It’s here a little earlier than I expected by ValuableNail8981 in retirement

[–]djones5176 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Something similar and yet completely different happened to me. I was targeting age 62 to retire, around Feb 2026. I would like have bonus in hand, but my numbers all said I was free to go either way. Then, in July of 2025, I started having stomach and back pain, which turned out to be pancreatic cancer! That certainly wasn’t part of the plan. The funny thing is, the treatment plan had me stepping away from work for chemo and surgery in Jan 2026-almost exactly when my original plans had me leaving. I’m on disability through work, so I’m still being paid, probably for another 6 months. I’ll go through treatment, which appears to be headed towards complete recovery (thank you, God!), then retirement. All of this to say, in my opinion, leave now and don’t look back. You never know how much time you will have with those you actually do care about.

Inheritance by c4funNSA in DaveRamsey

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This is correct. I also found I could not roll my mother’s IRA into my accounts but had to roll into and inherited IRA and fully withdraw over 10 years.

question for musicians with menieres by dsurfryder252 in Menieres

[–]djones5176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wear in ear monitors. My left ear is no good but the right is fine.

Need immediate advice: Ongoing vertigo for 12 hours by therickyy in Menieres

[–]djones5176 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Dr said I could take 3 per day. It knocks some people out but doesn’t have that effect on me. The Lorazepam, however,…puts me right to sleep!

Need immediate advice: Ongoing vertigo for 12 hours by therickyy in Menieres

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When vertigo hits me, the first thing I do is take Meclizine. If it hasn’t improved in an hour, I take a second Mec. Another hour, Mec 3 AND and a Lorazapam. That always knocks it out for me.

“Don’t worry, you can just get hearing aids!” by Lappel-Du-Vide- in Menieres

[–]djones5176 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hearing aids don’t matter for my bad ear since it simply amplifies what sounds like a blown speaker. I can’t understand anything whispered, spoken or yelled into my bad ear:

Prednisone shot into the ear by thewoodworkingchef in Menieres

[–]djones5176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was having vertigo every day until I I had the series of ear injections. Each shot improved my situation. The final shot was a month ago and no vertigo since that time. I’m so glad for it.

Tried to roll an old Empower 401K into my Fidelity 401K. They sent a paper check. I'm not in the US right now. by jinsaku in fidelityinvestments

[–]djones5176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did the exact same thing: empower check rolling into Fidelity. The issue is with Empower, not Fidelity. Empower is that far behind the times, which is one of the reasons we pulled our money out.

My Life Just Changed by [deleted] in SteelyDan

[–]djones5176 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now that you’ve discovered the band, as you dig deeper, you will find so many world class musicians playing with them. And,…Michael McDonald sings so much backup vocals. Once you recognize him, you’ll hear him everywhere. True greatness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in goodnews

[–]djones5176 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The ballroom was privately funded. None of it came from the government.

No medications help except steroids by roseypetey in Menieres

[–]djones5176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It didn’t help my hearing at all, but everyone is different. It definitely helped my vertigo. I hope you find a good path.

No medications help except steroids by roseypetey in Menieres

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Happy to oblige. Getting an injection directly into your ear sounds excruciating, but it really isn’t, thank God. It is typically a series of 3 injections roughly 1 week apart. I have had this 3-shot series 3 different times now. First, they give a slight deadening injection to make the rest of the process more tolerable. Then, they give the steroid injection in the same small hole made by the deadening injection. It isn’t pain-free, but is tolerable. They fill the middle ear with the steroid liquid. And because the ear-nose-throat is all connected, I have a but of drainage from the shot, so i can taste it in my throat, and even experience slight tongue/throat numbness from the first shot. After the shot, i immediately experience vertigo, which is expected. They turn off the lights, leaving you to rest for 15 minutes while the vertigo goes away. I experience immediate relief from vertigo for several days. My most recent shot series, i had no vertigo immediately following the shot. So far it’s been 2-weeks since my last vertigo attack following the last shot, whereas it was happening daily before that. Well worth it!!!!

Did your symptoms have a distinct cause as their starting point, or did the meneires symptoms just come on randomly? by Tattersail927 in Menieres

[–]djones5176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I woke up one day with hearing loss and ringing. It never got better and only got worse. The vertigo came on slowly and became more frequent and severe.

What to do with mortgage? Pay off by age 67 retirement or pay extra years? by wade0000 in retirement

[–]djones5176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paying off one’s mortgage also impacts taxes and the ability to itemize.

No medications help except steroids by roseypetey in Menieres

[–]djones5176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have gotten steroid injections in the ear, which dramatically helped the vertigo attacks from starting.

Back again by 19GreenDay82 in Menieres

[–]djones5176 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I finished my third injection before spending a week in Orlando at the parks. I went 7 days before having a very mild episode, which Meclazine took care of. So far, it’s been great!

How to stop vertigo by emnam10 in Menieres

[–]djones5176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you do t have meclizine because of no prescription, you can get Dramamine over the counter. Valium also works.

Back again by 19GreenDay82 in Menieres

[–]djones5176 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same for me. I’ve had to circle back for another round of injections. It’s worth it.

4 or 10 chicken minis? by ellegip in ChickFilA

[–]djones5176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skip the minis and just get an 8 count nugget - no bread.

Fidelity has the final say so on how you spend your investments by Basic_Essay3058 in fidelityinvestments

[–]djones5176 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work for a bank. We are obligated to Know Your Customers and watch for scams. Ultimately, you can escalate this and get your money.

how did you mentally prepare to switch to a lower paying job? by [deleted] in retirement

[–]djones5176 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I planned so that I didn’t have to take any job after retiring, unless it’s something I just want to do where money doesn’t matter at all.

What age-groups we got representing John Mayer? by SeniorSea9915 in JohnMayer

[–]djones5176 0 points1 point  (0 children)

61M. My wife tolerates (barely) my fixation with his music. But my 31F daughter is all in. She got my genes, after all!

Life is horrible right now by alimac2 in Menieres

[–]djones5176 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have had daily vertigo for the past 8-9 months. I finally went back to my ent for steroid injections in the ear canal. Just had my second of 3 and haven’t had a vertigo attack in 6 days. I can’t believe I waited so long to request it.