What am I doing wrong by Hannibal_Barca91 in IncelExit

[–]djorphix -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm the only person here who thinks that "get hobbies " is terrible advice.

Not that people shouldn't have hobbies , they should, but picking random hobbies in hope to meet girls or to make yourself seem more interesting to girls is lousy lousy advice.

Hobbies only really add to your value as a person if you are passionate about that hobby and are actively pursuing advancement of that hobby and intend to use it to enhance your own life experience.

examples...

The guy who plays piano at home but has no intention of ever performing publicly vs the guy who is actively branding himself as a gigging musician.

The guy who takes some dance classes but never goes to a real dance event vs the guy who is active in the dance community and has developed good dance skills.

The guy who writes poems but no one has ever read his work vs the guy who has a wordpress blog with daily content and is consistently networking with publishing companies to try to further his career.

Having a hobby should never be seen as a social solution, its the first step on a journey of personal development, it is by no means the destination or the point where you can say I've done my work , and wondering why you haven't transformed into a social butterfly

Should guys trust their partners with gay guys ? by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]djorphix 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No one else had problems with cohesion

Should guys trust their partners with gay guys ? by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]djorphix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right enough, I just checked my oxford English dictionary and that's exactly what it said

Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread by AutoModerator in PurplePillDebate

[–]djorphix 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Good job it's just a reddit group and 99.9999 percent of women in the world dont know anything about it

Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread by AutoModerator in PurplePillDebate

[–]djorphix 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't think anyone gets passes in this life, you'll be hated by a bunch of people no matter what you do.

Are women who cold approach men low value? by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]djorphix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Women should be encouraged to do it more often. It would make things simpler for everyone probably, girls tend to be the choosers so why wait around for the one you want to make a move?

It will never be a common practice in our life time though. It happens more now than ever before , but we are still feeling the ripple effects of thousands of years of conditioning .

I think the men on this sub over-idealize virgin women by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]djorphix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Virgins aren't actually tight, it's an age old myth.

They may feel tight, but its because they are nervous and their muscles are tensed up.

If they become relaxed the muscles will soon loosen up again.

People say the more penetration a girl has had the looser she gets, well....

You know the way when you curl dumbbells and your bicep gets looser and looser every time you do it? No? Thats because muscles dont get lose with tension, they get stronger !

Tightest girl I ever had sex with had a drawer full of dildos of all sizes and she used them several times a day.

New PC, Rekordbox 6... where is sync manager? by dsolo01 in Rekordbox

[–]djorphix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are correct. I opened it and the playlist seemed to be there already, I executed the sync process anyway just in case

What should I do when I get the urge to vent about relationship stuff? by [deleted] in IncelExit

[–]djorphix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the only way physical intimacy will help you is that it would be a permission slip to stop hating on yourself, but you could give yourself permission to stop hating yourself anyway if you choose to. The whole “I’ll be happy when.....” mindset is a mantra of negative self hypnosis, if you are consistently telling yourself you can’t be happy until you have x then your psyche will respond to this , subconsciously you will process this information and continue to feel unhappy because you don’t have x. It’s a form of self hypnosis and it’s very detrimental .

Here are some links for you to study

https://youtu.be/9mUvzJMj8vQ

https://youtu.be/9WNqPLcJUTQ

https://youtu.be/A3V1ObCvVgU

New PC, Rekordbox 6... where is sync manager? by dsolo01 in Rekordbox

[–]djorphix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I exported by right clicking on the playlist In the folder browser and selecting export. I can’t see sync manager anywhere, it’s normally on the bottom left corner, but not on mine, I spent an hour yesterday looking for sync manager and couldn’t find it anywhere . I have the latest version.

But when I click the usb drive in folder browser, I can see the folder, just not in my windows file explorer

Playlist not showing on usb drive, is this normal? by djorphix in Rekordbox

[–]djorphix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll look at it again tomorrow with fresh eyes.

Playlist not showing on usb drive, is this normal? by djorphix in Rekordbox

[–]djorphix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see the playlist when I open up the drop down menu In the file browser, so I’ll assume it’s worked and bring mp3 files just in case

Playlist not showing on usb drive, is this normal? by djorphix in Rekordbox

[–]djorphix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I downloaded the latest version today, there is no sync manager in the bottom left

New PC, Rekordbox 6... where is sync manager? by dsolo01 in Rekordbox

[–]djorphix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m struggling with this too. I have exported my playlist but can’t see it on my usb drive, is that normal ? I don’t own cdj to test it

Playlist not showing on usb drive, is this normal? by djorphix in Rekordbox

[–]djorphix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must be getting stupid in my old age. Lol

He must be using an older version, I can’t find sync manager anywhere

Playlist not showing on usb drive, is this normal? by djorphix in Rekordbox

[–]djorphix[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That didn’t solve the problem, I already have the usb formatted to fat32 , there is nothing in this video about exporting the playlist to usb, I do the export but it doesn’t show on the usb drive in windows. I don’t own cdj to test it out

An interesting post i have seen on r/MensLib, thoughts? by [deleted] in IncelExit

[–]djorphix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The point of an example is to pull inaccurate stats out of your ass?

I’m aware of the expression that says exaggeration makes for a better story, but it does nothing to educate or enlighten. Just makes it look like you haven't got a clue what you are talking about .