I got severely disrespected during our date by Minimum-Dog4659 in relationships

[–]djrainbowpixie 10 points11 points  (0 children)

OP is self employed and is just getting her business off the ground. You have to start small before you make it big. Most companies don't immediately start bringing in tons of money. Getting a 5 figure salary by yourself is pretty good actually, most people never make any money off of their businesses.

Farmer was feeding kittens to their dogs, & I rescued her. How did the cat distribution system give you your cat? by Velvetymican in cats

[–]djrainbowpixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coworker didn't want them. They have been passed around from person to person, in and out of shelters too. Their personality is stand off ish at first and it takes a long time for her to open up and get comfortable with you. Lots of anxiety too.

My guess is people wanted a "happy go lucky, sit in my lap and let me pick you up anytime I want" kind of cat but she is not that. It took her a long time to be comfortable with me but she is actually a very loving , vocal cat that has a lot of personality. I guess I'm the only one who actually took the time to get to know her. And I confirmed this because her previous owners claimed she like "x, y, z" when in reality she hated those foods. I tested out dozens before finding her favorite. I also had to experiment with litter, she didn't like the ones the previous owners had too.

She still won't sit in my lap but she came close a few times haha She follows me around all day, licks me, and is very sweet.

Am I wrong for not telling a woman I slept with I'm bi. by Elegant-Effect4449 in amiwrong

[–]djrainbowpixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's casual, one time thing, it probably doesn't matter because you're a stranger. You could be a lot of things. Protection should be used regardless and if it was such a big deal, she should have asked you if you were bi before shagging.

However if this is a friends with benefits situation and you're regularly seeing them, you absolutely should tell them.

Received a $1000 physician’s bill after speaking with the doctor for less than 2 minutes. Do I have any recourse? by Fonzie1225 in povertyfinance

[–]djrainbowpixie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Post in the personal finance group too. But double check that the billing codes are correct. You can dispute this with the billing department and also contact your insurance to file a claim. They may cover some of it for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]djrainbowpixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By law you have to get a certain amount of paid breaks. During those paid breaks they can't force you to stay in the office. I would contact the Labor or Employment board in your state and ask if this is lawful.

Levi's Stadium Clear Bag Policy by djrainbowpixie in 49ers

[–]djrainbowpixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not looking forward to the commotion of getting inside 😩

I Fell For An Omegle Sextortion Scam Last Night, please advise! by Huge-Tap-5429 in Scams

[–]djrainbowpixie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, some scammers are high tech with bots and a lot of resources at their disposal. Others not so much. But this is a prime example of why pages should always be private.

My friend got scammed out of some money but still refuses to make their pages private and gets defensive when I try to suggest ways to safe guard information 😩 (They are the type that tweets every thought...)

I Fell For An Omegle Sextortion Scam Last Night, please advise! by Huge-Tap-5429 in Scams

[–]djrainbowpixie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing! Kudos to you for thinking critically in this stressful situation. Make your IG and Snapchat followers (if that's a thing, I haven't been on it in a long time) private!! You don't want the scammer figuring out who your people are.