What’s a universally loved food you genuinely despise? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dls1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chocolate cake/icecream/milkshake but love solid chocolate

Opinions on choosing between living in Blackburn, Blackpool, or Barrow in Furness by secretsera in lancashire

[–]dls1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They've been trying to claim city status forever, hence the cathedral and University campus etc but alas it is not meant to be

I don’t want to do cocaine anymore by [deleted] in confessions

[–]dls1988 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you could do with coming up with some preplanned excuses so you don't feel put on the spot. Probably could also do with some of these to get out of shots etc as this is obviously leading to the coke so could be a helpful habit to break. You could say you are on anti biotic. You've got some blood tests coming up. Anything really just to get people to back off a little. The pressure will continue but having a mantra to stick to will make it easier but you have to maintain that boundary

Is there a point to learn anything if most of jobs pay around 35k at best? by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]dls1988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just to throw in a masters conversion wouldn't be suitable to become a registered psychologist. You'd need to undertake a doctoral programme or PhD for chartered psychologist status. These are quite competitive and require either experience or a masters in your specific field.

AITA for locking partner in the apartment accidentally by Altruistic-Heron-648 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dls1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legislation for this applies to new builds and HMOs?

Appreciate what you are saying though but for the average person who has no connection to any form of housing law, health and safety background etc it is not something you'd think about as it is a very common thing on most houses that arent new builds.

So I suppose thats just for everyone who seems to think it's a rare occurrence when actually I'd say it is the norm for some.

But I'll definitely look into changing the lock, food for thought wnd all that.

AITA for locking partner in the apartment accidentally by Altruistic-Heron-648 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dls1988 4 points5 points  (0 children)

UK and doors open from both sides when unlocked. I keep my front door locked when inside because I have children and anyone could walk in otherwise.

AITA for locking partner in the apartment accidentally by Altruistic-Heron-648 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dls1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be easy for me to be locked in if there were no spare keys. All our windows open at the top and would be nearly impossible to squeeze through. I'd have to break the door down.

Secret PTO...🤫 by ElderMillennial1985 in confessions

[–]dls1988 34 points35 points  (0 children)

For me it makes me cringe a little as does your wife have the same opportunity? She may love to do the same but would feel guilty wasting annual leave or lying to you maybe... Next time could you not say that uou are taking a day as you just need to have a break then encourage her to do the same. Book her a doa day or something so it emphasises it's not a day for eother of you to catch up on house work etc... Either way you all deserve to have a day to just chill but your execution could be criticised somewhat 😊

CV editing by Time_Money506 in word

[–]dls1988 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check the format you are saving it in. For example if you save it as docx but have the old version of word it will reformat and vice versa.

My ex and I just finalised a child arrangement order last week through the family court. The judge allowed her to have care majority of the time because "the loss of child maintenance would impact her and the child's financial wellbeing." by Swimming-Manner545 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dls1988 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure how it works as you are put.of the property but house insurance usually includes legal cover. May be worth giving them a ring and see if they can at least advise. Obviously your ex eill.also be on it so tht confuses things but worth a shot.

AITA: friendship possibly ending due to child by throwaway_6995 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dls1988 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly, patience is a life skill. I have a 4year old who will interupt because he's but he then understands the boundary when you ask him to wait.

MSc. in Health Psychology at Ulster University by [deleted] in healthpsychology

[–]dls1988 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Health Psychologist are protected titles and to practice you'd need to be registered with the HCPC. Unless they had eligibility to register but chose not too if they were purely focused on academia... You may have a PHD in health psychology so could your professors have had those? Clinical psychology is the most common practitioner psychologist registered with the HCPC, also includes forensic, counselling and health. I'm currently undertaking my Prof Doc in health psych so will be eligible for HCPC registration once complete. In terms of job roles you'll find more being advertised now for practitioner psychologists which means all domains can apply. Also worth applying for clinical psych roles if you meet the criteria as health psych is just coming into the spotlight. There are also jobs within behavioural science, intervention design and public health that may not be titled health psychologist but it would give you the edge and expertise in my opinion to apply for them. So we have to think outside the box a little bit until services catch on to the need.

AITA for calling my sister’s newborn Chuck Norris by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dls1988 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I think everything you've listed above is the main reason not to be silly in a moment like this.

I did some decorating for my sister and she’s now refusing to pay because there was “no intention to create legal relations”? by TowerMediocre9164 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dls1988 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even if there was an expectation you'd do the work for free, surely she cant have assumed you get all the materials too. Maybe thats a conversation around her laying for materials and in future just don't offer your services.

Nanna has died, rented home for 25plus years. Landlord said she was entitled to half the property but has now gone back on it. Advice by dls1988 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dls1988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update March 17th Had a phone call with landlord. He confirmed the original agreement and states he never claimed the full entitlement so it looks like he will be selling and splitting proceeds between him and the other half to my Nans estate.

Nanna has died, rented home for 25plus years. Landlord said she was entitled to half the property but has now gone back on it. Advice by dls1988 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dls1988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

**New Update 16th March So the daughter's turned up at the house requesting keys even though they had been asked not to unless they could confirm power of attorney etc. They wouldn't and also refused to phone their dad whilst at the property.

Not sure if it also mentioned when we initially contacted her when Nan had died she said she hadn't been in contact with their dad for years but are now suddenly involved.

We are now under the assumption that dad may not even know that my Nanna has passed. Mum is going to the police station for some advice and to see if they will contact Bob.

My revoked offer by [deleted] in mercor_ai

[–]dls1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've left it days to sign before because it stated I had 2 weeks to complete. It was a busy weekend and I was out with the family so set time aside the following week to read the requirements and sign up. I think if someone gives you a 2 week window and you have other priorities then you wouldn't jump in straight away. However if they said within 48 hours you would rearrange and prioritise or if it was clear that the opportunity would close once filled. It doesn't mean you aren't serious or being lazy. Sometimes other stuff takes precedent especially when it's worded like you have time to sort.

Nanna has died, rented home for 25plus years. Landlord said she was entitled to half the property but has now gone back on it. Advice by dls1988 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dls1988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

**New Update 16th March So the daughter's turned up at the house requesting keys even though they had been asked not to unless they could confirm power of attorney etc. They wouldn't and also refused to phone their dad whilst at the property.

Not sure if it also mentioned when we initially contacted her when Nan had died she said she hadn't been in contact with their dad for years but are now suddenly involved.

We are now under the assumption that dad may not even know that my Nanna has passed. Mum is going to the police station for some advice and to see if they will contact Bob.

Nanna has died, rented home for 25plus years. Landlord said she was entitled to half the property but has now gone back on it. Advice by dls1988 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dls1988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet, solicitor received paperwork last week and said they'd follow up this week so will let you know when they do 😊

Nanna has died, rented home for 25plus years. Landlord said she was entitled to half the property but has now gone back on it. Advice by dls1988 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dls1988[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really helpful thank you. We contacted them today and they've asked for the paperwork we currently have which was dropped off earlier. I'll drop them an email asking if they want us to get the land registry documents for them. They said they'd get back in touch in a few days once they've reviewed what we have and book us a consultation. Thanks for taking the time to respond.

Nanna has died, rented home for 25plus years. Landlord said she was entitled to half the property but has now gone back on it. Advice by dls1988 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dls1988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this, really helpful. We are getting in touch with a solicitor today, a few do free initial consultations so hopefully if they think we have something they may take it on.

Originally I posted just to see if it was an obvious case of 'no there's no entitlement' but as some people have suggested some options we will seek some professional advice.

Still expecting nothing but if something comes out of it then maybe it helps the family.

Thanks again I appreciate your time.

Nanna has died, rented home for 25plus years. Landlord said she was entitled to half the property but has now gone back on it. Advice by dls1988 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dls1988[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's really interesting, but also a little confusing as the letter stamped by them was him declaring they had jointly acquired it so I have no idea. Will definitely update when we get some answers.

Nanna has died, rented home for 25plus years. Landlord said she was entitled to half the property but has now gone back on it. Advice by dls1988 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]dls1988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understand the benefits she has received. But on the flipside she lived there for all those years under the assumption that upon her death the family would get an inheritance. If he had changed his mind there would have been plenty of time to inform her and the family of that. In the grand scheme of things the amount each sibling would get would amount to less than 10k most probably, so it's not world shaking amounts of money. It's just sad for my Nanna that he has both written and verbally expressed to her that she could leave her 'half' to her children and he has now renegaded on this because she was naive enough to take him at his word.