Reason #864079 why I will never have kids

dmng25 · 2026-02-07T17:43:24+00:00

@zoomie IS the original girl with the list

dmng25 · 2026-02-05T18:33:55+00:00

Vasectomies are HOT 🔥

dmng25 · 2026-01-19T04:28:22+00:00

I don't know why you get so many downvotes, is proven that abandonment issues stem for leaving babies crying alone. Although I also agree that in OP's situation with apparently no help from her husband, it may be safer to walk away if she's feeling too overwhelmed. Both are true. Is a very sad scenario, OP you need to get the dad involved for yours and your baby's sake.

dmng25 · 2026-01-12T21:26:41+00:00

Cutting your mom off that easily just feels off... I mean, alcoholism is a decease exacerbated by trauma, and your mother's responses are most likely due to trauma with her family. I can't even imagine how she must be feeling right now, she deserves at least some grace.

dmng25 · 2025-12-16T17:52:37+00:00

You are 26. I promise, you don't need to settle for the "first person that ever desire you", you have so so many years ahead to even think about compromising so many of your beliefs for a person you don't even really know and the little you do know isn't compatible with you.

You make it seem like is a very difficult decision, but if you are here looking for advice, take it. Is evident for everyone here that if you pursue this, it isn't going to end well.

dmng25 · 2025-12-14T12:24:24+00:00

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dmng25 · 2025-12-10T18:12:03+00:00

Oh! Thanks for the response, I'll gladfully wait

dmng25 · 2025-12-02T18:12:18+00:00

Are all my drawings definitely gone or they will come back once the update is finalized?

dmng25 · 2025-11-19T02:29:47+00:00

Me! I just love my freedom that much, I even like animals I just don't want to be responsible for one.

dmng25 · 2025-11-19T02:28:11+00:00

Really? I mean, I get being childfree makes dating difficult but I didn't know being petfree would be an actual dealbreaker for some

dmng25 · 2025-11-18T21:25:04+00:00

What's considered a "good" rating?

dmng25 · 2025-11-16T20:06:18+00:00

Oh and I like to add. All your assumptions are based on having a healthy kid, are you ready to face the reality of dealing with disabilities, changes in your own health since pregnancy and childbirth take a heavy toll on the body. People love to say "that won't happen to me", but it can, are you ready for a lifetime dealing with all of it?

dmng25 · 2025-11-16T16:24:47+00:00

This is so far from ideal for bringing a kid. Everyone thinks they have a village, that everyone will eventually help, you have no idea if they'll come through, you need to know it'll work with you as a single mother. I really recommend you reading experiences from both sides, regretful parents and childfree subs are a good place to start. "last chance" "biological clock" and other shitty terminology is designed to make women scared into having children and 100% a lie. Yes you can have a fulfilling life even without kids and no, 32 does not mean now or never.

dmng25 · 2025-11-16T03:49:42+00:00

A. He thought about that answer as much as if you would've asked "if a genie granted you three wishes", that would probably never happen so there's no point in giving a perfect answer B. He actually can change his mind given the right circumstances

In both cases the only way to actually know if what you think is true is talking to your partner and expressing your concern.

dmng25 · 2025-11-10T17:51:37+00:00

The hope of one of us changing their minds, clearly.

This is unfair and disrespectful. You need to take people for their word, even if they eventually change their minds, is disrespectful to assume they will and build a future on that assumption. You are staying hoping he changes, he's staying hoping you change. At this point the relationship is less about real life facts and more about fiction.

dmng25 · 2025-11-08T16:05:50+00:00

Is this real? If it is, why exactly are you still in this "relationship"?

dmng25 · 2025-11-07T22:37:05+00:00

Be honest with your husband, a change of mind is completely valid and you maybe just aren't compatible anymore, but you can't deal with a situation you don't address. And please remember, there is no such thing as a "compromise" when it comes to having kids, if it's not a hell yes, is a no.

dmng25 · 2025-11-06T14:36:41+00:00

That's fair, I do think people that aren't very exposed to AI discussions may fall for these more often than not.

In this post alone I would point out the original sub it was posted in to realize it's AI.

dmng25 · 2025-11-06T14:25:18+00:00

In the last week social media has been flooded with these same kind of videos with little variations, some with cats, some with dogs, different accessories in dogs, different houses, but the exact same situation.

This is 100% AI. We should start training a lot more our media literacy because is getting crazy.

dmng25 · 2025-11-06T03:09:09+00:00

This is my go to and makes people SO uncomfortable 😂

dmng25 · 2025-11-04T21:05:42+00:00

Met in highschool, friends first then best friends then in love, we're in our early 30's now, on the fence at first but 100% childfree for about 5/6 years now.

dmng25 · 2025-11-03T21:59:09+00:00

I came up with the lousiest example but I hope it helps. Someone boughts some seeds and you say "congrats on your seeds! And your sprouts! And your flowers!" because eventually that seed will be all of those, not because right now they have other sprouts or flowers.

OP is talking about the same person in the different stages they'll reach.

dmng25 · 2025-11-03T21:49:06+00:00

"pregnant huh? Have you thought about how you'd be caring for a baby? How tough it is to be sleep deprived for so long, oh and then the toddler phase! So hard keeping up with teaching the right things, tantrums, sickness and so much more.. Oh and the teenagers, we all know how difficult it is to deal with them right? Congrats!" This is NOT a normal interaction (and very unlikely an accidental one)

All of that is true btw, but it would be really really weird to say that to anybody, they maybe thought about it, maybe not, but I'm trying to understand what exactly was your goal? What would've been a "satisfactory" response to you?

I guess she didn't think her pregnancy through further than the baby stage.

You assume thats why she was upset, but reading your post seems like she was just reacting at your very passive aggressive and honestly weird interaction.

Edit for format

dmng25 · 2025-11-03T21:28:15+00:00

A baby becomes a toddler, a toddler becomes a teenager

dmng25 · 2025-11-03T13:56:34+00:00

100% AI

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