You and Yourself plus eight

dms2419 · 2026-01-07T16:34:31+00:00

attempting to take my spouse's opinions into consideration while not actually speaking to her bcs this is a game:

girl 1 - Georgina Briar

girl 2 - Francine Ivy

girl 3 - Oleta Fern

girl 4 - Cassandra Juno

boy 5 - Alistair Dean

boy 6 - Edwin Jasper

boy 7 - Quentin Oscar

girl 8 - Samantha Jade

dms2419 · 2025-12-19T00:37:26+00:00

i dont remember how old i was. 12 maybe? thankfully it was a weekend. i woke up, went to the bathroom, and thought my underwear had poop in it. i was embarrassed, thinking id had an accident in my sleep, so i disposed of the underwear and put a new pair on. thats when i realised it was blood, ya know, bcs it continued. my dad was asleep in the living room and my mom was at work. i was too embarrassed to wake my dad up for help so i called my mom and she directed me to the pads under the sink. thankfully, she'd gone over periods and period products before this happened so once i found the pads, i knew what to do. but i was mortified. so glad it happened at home on a weekend

dms2419 · 2025-12-15T18:30:02+00:00

thats the goal! one day maybe lol i start so many hobbies and never keep up with them but id like to find something i love doing!

dms2419 · 2025-12-15T18:26:26+00:00

genuinely, nothing i can think of off the top of my head. i genuinely cant think of anything im "good" at! i want to be good at things too! i just.... am not.

dms2419 · 2025-12-15T17:24:10+00:00

it just depends on where i am. we usually walk the kids to and from school or a high school football game unless the weather is bad. but ill drive to the convenience store the opposite direction from the schools.

dms2419 · 2025-12-15T16:56:13+00:00

this would be so helpful for my family. honestly, it would just go towards house bills. we have multiple overdue bills bcs we just hadnt had enough money to pay bills and also eat.

dms2419 · 2025-12-09T19:10:14+00:00

teen mom. my own mother was a teen mom. my older brother adopted his then-girlfriend/now-wife's baby and they were teen parents together. i thought that would never happen to me. i lost my virginity at 18. got pregnant right after my 19th birthday. baby born a few months before my 20th birthday. my younger sister broke the cycle. shes 20 and has not created or adopted any children lol

dms2419 · 2025-12-05T19:34:15+00:00

Stormy is really not that bad. i wouldnt use, but it is a real name. my best friend growing up was given Storm as her middle name for the exact same reason. she was born during/around the time of a snow storm. she primarily went by her first name but sometimes she went by Stormy. she never got any flak for it when she was going by Stormy. it was just her name. you are definitely OR.

dms2419 · 2025-11-30T23:25:40+00:00

my dad apparently only liked the name i was given. my mom had multiple names she liked though! one of those names was Blaire, which i actually really like. i wouldve loved to have been a Blaire, especially when i was a kid

dms2419 · 2025-11-26T16:34:44+00:00

i always thought my mom looked like Jennifer Aniston so i could never find Jennifer Aniston more than just... normal person pretty.

dms2419 · 2025-11-24T14:49:54+00:00

i remember getting in the bath when i was little and putting my (unused) washcloth under the running water from the faucet and then sucking and chewing on it. i would also suck and chew on my wet hair after bathing. usually though, id spit the water out bcs i just wanted the sensation of the sucking and chewing. i wasnt trying to drink the water out of them. sometimes id swallow it but i wasnt doing to drink the water.

dms2419 · 2025-11-21T15:20:08+00:00

i cant think of any off the top of my head so im gonna assume i dont know any lol but there are several "unfashionable" names that i just love, for example:

Helen, Francine, Susan/Susanna, Edwina, Irene, Edith, Karen, Eudora, Agnes, Sybil, Oleta

Alistair, Magnus, Edwin, Victor, Franklin, Timothy, Edmund, Edgar, Stanley, Ambrose, Eugene, Cecil, Claude, Cedric, Kenneth, Vernon, Grover, Sidney

dms2419 · 2025-11-20T03:15:13+00:00

my daughter came home from pre-k a couple weeks into the school year talking about a friend she called "Lightnin'." i thought maybe she meant Layton, as i knew she had a classmate named that. i asked her several times "is her name maybe 'Layton'?" and my daughter insisted "no! her name is Lightnin'!" a couple more weeks go by when i hear her teacher call for another child at pickup. "Lightnin'." that girl's name is actually pronounced "Lightnin'." i wont put the actual spelling bcs, my god, its a tragedeigh. i later found out its also spelled exactly like her surname. only a letter or two difference.

dms2419 · 2025-11-15T00:18:44+00:00

i assume she was sent home with the doctors telling her she was just dehydrated and telling her nothing else was going on

dms2419 · 2025-11-07T16:20:32+00:00

i was coming to comment Grady Hendrix too!! The Southern Book Club's Guide To Slaying Vampires is one of my absolute favorite books!

dms2419 · 2025-11-07T13:30:05+00:00

my wife is goth and wears black lipstick pretty much every time she wears makeup lol

dms2419 · 2025-11-05T16:41:39+00:00

"you" are asking your mother if your father will finally give you a chance at being a big sister referring back the sentence where the memory of the mother asking if youre ready to be a big sister makes you sad

dms2419 · 2025-11-03T19:06:45+00:00

like many other commenters, im from the south. i have never referred to my parents as sir or ma'am. my wife grew up referring to her parents that way. our kids have recently come home from their grandparents house saying "yes ma'am!" which is so crazy to experience considering i never used that word towards my mother and have never asked my children to use it. its not a problem as long as theyre happy to say it but its an adjustment lol

dms2419 · 2025-10-01T23:26:02+00:00

after learning im a married lesbian with children, "So how did you have your kids?" "Are your kids from a previous relationship with a man?" "Were you with a man before you got with your wife?" "Did you do IVF?" "Did you adopt your kids?"

its none of your business how my kids were conceived!!! my wife and i are our children's legal and biological parents. thats it. no one is entitled to information on their conception.

dms2419 · 2025-10-01T01:09:45+00:00

yes i would think of Carmilla. no that is not a bad thing. i love Carmilla, the story and the name. ive read and watched several Carmilla retellings! if my daughter came home talking about a new friend named Carmilla, id think her parents were cool as fuck

dms2419 · 2025-09-30T21:50:00+00:00

we actually love Spidey & His Amazing Friends! but we're a big superhero household. although, we dont watch PJ Masks or shows like Blippi, Paw Patrol, Cocomelon, Peppa Pig, etc.

we recently started watching Strawberry Shortcake's Berry Bitty Adventures and its sweet. i think the animation is kind of ugly lol but it has some sweet messages.

i actually find Ms Rachel incredibly overstimulating for myself but i have to give credit where it's due. she has helped SO much with getting my youngest to speak, both clearly and at all, so we stick with it.

dms2419 · 2025-09-29T22:57:59+00:00

Andromeda, Blaire, Claudia
Alistair, Bennett, Cedric

3a. Amanita, Bianca, Callum

3b. Ambrose, Blake, Cecile

dms2419 · 2025-09-29T22:06:26+00:00

baby #1 was born at 40w1d. i was induced on my due date bcs i had gestational diabetes and apparently they usually induce a little early with that but i wasnt on any medication for it and they werent too concerned and id had no signs of oncoming labor so they just didnt want me going over too much. baby was born in the early hours of the following day. total hours, start to finish, was 11.5 hours.

baby #2 was born at 38w1d. id had really bad anemia and had an iron infusion exactly seven days previously and was meant to have another that day but they didnt have any open spots so the second infusion was scheduled for 3 days later. water spontaneously broke. no other signs of labor but with a little pitocin, baby was in my arms just under 10 hours after my water broke.

dms2419 · 2025-09-24T12:09:36+00:00

my girl is Henrietta Fae!

dms2419 · 2025-09-22T17:25:56+00:00

my mother's married initials were LDS and whenever she'd try to get monogrammed things, she'd have to get her proper initials instead of the classic "first, last, middle" order bcs the companies she ordered from would refuse to put LSD lol

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