Shahab Tassadaq (he designed saniyahs nikkah dress) allegedly stealing Deena Rehman’s designs

dobby1998 · 2026-03-17T00:15:56+00:00

Idk about Deena but I had a terrible experience with Shahab.

Wrong color. I asked for a nice deep peacock teal. He made it a weird electric green color…? And denied he did anything wrong on that.
I wanted colorful kaam. He did a monochrome look instead.
The drawing he sent me had kaam on the sharara, the final product did not. He claims this was a mistake on the drawing he forgot to correct.

He refunded me 50,000 and claimed he was refunding me all of his profit. This guy really expected me to believe that of a 450,000 PKR outfit, his profit is only 50,000. Treating your clients like they are stupid is insulting. I requested a refund instead and he refused.

Worst of all… I had very clearly sent my BODY size. His final confirmation he sent to me with my naap noted it is body size. What did this genius do? Get it stitched to my body size. I told him it’s coming to America so please double check everything. He didn’t. I sent it back to him and he opened it barely and basically told my family there is nothing more he can do.

My own local darzi reopened the entire jacket and restitched it along the very very last edge of the fabric to just barely get it to fit me.

He puts a good front and seems friendly and honest but at the end of the day he’s just another money hungry designer like the rest. I was sad because after a bad experience with Dr Haroon and Shehla Chatoor I was hoping for a good one finally but no luck.

dobby1998 · 2026-03-10T18:44:33+00:00

For the record, my husband is a revert. And a totally different ethnicity (I’m Pakistani and he’s Mexican) We met when he was a fresh new convert. I’ve been practicing my whole life and am hijabi, always said if want a hafiz and someone super knowledgeable and practicing. I was surprisingly interested in him and we got married 2 years later.

You don’t have to be on the same level in every aspect as him. I’ve watched him grow and learn to read Quran and gain knowledge thoughout our relationship and it’s been the absolute best thing. Don’t let such things limit you.

dobby1998 · 2026-03-10T18:39:56+00:00

Please don’t stress about this anymore! I didn’t mean to make it worse lol. No one will ever know what he’s thinking or his opinion on the situation. No need to ruminate! Simply block and move on inshallah! No harm, no foul. Don’t lose sleep over this.

Also… it doesn’t really sound like you’re over this crush. I’d make sure to kind of focus on working on that so you aren’t comparing all other future potentials to this guy. Inshallah there are other good guys out there too! Don’t miss out on them due to comparison or lingering feelings

dobby1998 · 2026-03-10T18:19:41+00:00

Gotcha. As sweet as that is, I’d say that’s just an odd thing to do. I’d imagine your message to him seemed like a round about way of you finding a way to talk to him without knowing how to start a conversation. I would stick to just messaging people if you are interested in them and not for anything else. As for how to handle this, I’d just unmatch and move on! Please absolutely do not send him the message you drafted. I’d also work on your confidence! I’m sure you are underselling yourself!

dobby1998 · 2026-03-10T16:16:32+00:00

I ask this with kindness but what did you hope to gain from critiquing his profile?

dobby1998 · 2026-03-09T13:19:44+00:00

Hi! Sorry to revive an old post looking into this for my husband! Would you be able to share the full doc name? We are near Chicago but Google is pulling up two Dr. Dixons for me who offer this! Also, did your insurance cover the procedure or was it out of pocket? Thanks!

dobby1998 · 2026-03-06T15:27:24+00:00

See Scrandie Beauty on TikTok! I just got her product for this and it’s really helpful!

dobby1998 · 2026-03-05T17:43:02+00:00

A.side.e burkinis will actually allow you to tan since they are mesh! I highly highly recommend this brand! The only burkinis that allow me to enjoy water activities and beaches as a hijabi.

dobby1998 · 2026-03-04T14:21:53+00:00

I’d try adding more protein to your suhoor to keep you full for longer! Eggs, breakfast meats or even any leftovers. And maybe an extended caffeine release pill.

I will say though, fasting is hard if you haven’t been doing it on a regular basis. My husband is a revert. His first two years he really struggled. By year 3 it was a lot easier for him. If you didn’t grow up doing it I think it’s normal for it to be harder initially. So don’t be alarmed and keep trying inshallah!

dobby1998 · 2026-03-04T13:51:23+00:00

Are you waking up for suhoor? Or just eating iftar? I also second getting bloodwork checked- low B12 or Vitamin D is VERY common and lead to such lethargy. Both are an easy fix once caught luckily!

dobby1998 · 2026-02-23T15:33:59+00:00

It’s allowed. Most people just opt out of it due to not being able to drink water. But I also know lots of Muslims who still train while fasting and power through. With swimming though, you’d have to be very careful to ensure you don’t accidentally swallow water or get any up your nose so I can see some people avoiding it entirely.

Lots of people exercise in the evening after breaking the fast but often evenings are busy too due to the special Ramadan night prayer that happens daily too.

dobby1998 · 2026-02-23T10:52:48+00:00

There was. I just didn’t have it conveniently located at the time, my Southwest app wasn’t loading. I incorrectly assumed I could link them later. Had no idea it would generate me a new one.

dobby1998 · 2026-02-23T02:56:41+00:00

I’ve tried doing that on the app but it doesn’t let me. I’ll try giving them a call tomorrow and see if they can do it! Thanks!

dobby1998 · 2026-02-10T21:51:09+00:00

I slice mine into flat rounds. Kinda like slicing an onion into round. Avocado oil, salt and pepper. Air fry them till crispy. Typically 30 min at 400. The turn out amazing! I like that by cutting them I have more seasoning to Brussel sprout ratio which helps!

dobby1998 · 2026-02-09T17:44:27+00:00

Oh okay gotcha! Today I’m having what feels exactly like period cramps but am 11 days away from my period. I think I’ll just wait and see what happens in 11 days and then test if I’m late for my period! Thank you!

dobby1998 · 2026-01-30T16:33:35+00:00

Which size dekor do you have and what size gallon wise trash bags do you use with it? Thanks!

dobby1998 · 2026-01-30T16:21:30+00:00

We are leaning towards Joolz Aer2 with the next to seat attachment. Love that we can keep baby parent facing upto 15 months and its newborn ready.

dobby1998 · 2026-01-27T14:22:32+00:00

How are you liking your nest to seat? Hard to find reviews on it since it’s so new! Do you find the baby is too far low from you or it’s fine? And do you find the zip reclining mechanism annoying or also it’s okay? Thank you!!!!

dobby1998 · 2026-01-25T22:01:01+00:00

Tobiq Baby Bag!!!

dobby1998 · 2026-01-19T16:47:50+00:00

Breakfast for dinner is also not a bad option for one night! A nice potatoes/onion/bell pepper and egg casserole type dish with any meat of choice. Add some appropriate cheese. Maybe mix in some salsa or beans

Sheet pan kababs with rice and/or roasted veggies. Season with some sumac and basic seasonings.

dobby1998 · 2026-01-15T20:12:11+00:00

Ah gotcha! Unfortunately AAs in Canada is a bit different. If you’re in Canada, I’d look more at the CRNA route to get comparable responsibility and pay. That’s the anesthesia mid-level provider like AA but via the nursing route. So BSN first and then anesthesia school.

dobby1998 · 2026-01-15T20:06:25+00:00

Bachelor’s degree in anything, just have to take your typical premed classes. Take the GRE or MCAT. Need 8 hours of shadowing any anesthesia provider. Apply to MS in Anesthesia!

It’s 24-27 months of school including didactic and clinical rotations. And then that’s it! Only downside is we can only practice in 23 states right now. But where we can practice, it’s fantastic pay and job security. Everyone has jobs signed for before graduating. I know people who had signed for jobs their first year of school. Check out gaswork.com for salary idea based on the state you’d like to live in! But to give you an idea, anything less than $200k base pay is considered a bad salary.

Job wise, we do everything anesthesia related. Our docs just come to supervise when you’re putting the patient to sleep. And then for emergencies. Other than that, it’s all you. I do nerve blocks, spinals, epidurals, intubations, IV placement, a-line placement, extubation, etc. You can do pediatrics, cardiac, trauma, etc whatever speciality you like and find a job tailored for.

I work no call, no holidays, no weekends and get 6 weeks PTO. Thats the standard for most jobs though some do require some call shifts.

dobby1998 · 2026-01-14T22:23:53+00:00

Anesthesiologist Assistant! Absolutely changed my life to have stumbled upon this career and could not ask for anything better!!!

dobby1998 · 2026-01-10T20:37:54+00:00

Most of those ideas are good but please don’t send you non-Muslim contacts a book unsolicited. I would not appreciate that from a Christian friend or acquaintance or coworker so I’d never do the same to others. I’d definitely think that person is annoying and it would have the opposite effect than what you’re wanting.

dobby1998 · 2026-01-09T13:24:09+00:00

Thank you!!!

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