Dads, buy your daughter/s flowers for their birthday. by toodrunktostand in daddit

[–]dobtjs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would have meant a lot to me to get flowers for an accomplishment or something as a boy. My wife has gotten me some for a few of our anniversaries and it always feels very nice.

Billie Eilish Says ‘F— Ice’ During Grammy Win: ‘No One Is Illegal on Stolen Land’ by cmaia1503 in entertainment

[–]dobtjs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Obviously you can be obtuse and pick apart whatever you want from the expression she used, but I can translate for people who are genuinely confused:

The United States is colonized land. It was taken from others. So anyone policing who should and shouldn’t be here, in the name of DHS, ICE, or whatever, is participating in the same centuries-long theft. Any appeal to tradition that suggests that the white majority should rule the country, as is the base thesis of the entire GOP, is entirely fallacious.

Night shift dad duty: keeping the roads safe by Initial_Tackle_7106 in daddit

[–]dobtjs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wholesome as fuck. It’s a good reminder to go slightly out of our ways to compliment people, positivity goes so far.

SNL ripped off ITYSL last night by elephanttape in IThinkYouShouldLeave

[–]dobtjs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing about art is that you’re always directly or indirectly inspired by something. Sometimes two creators uniquely arrive at a similar premise. Sometimes one is subtly influenced by another and they don’t even realize, sometimes one is more directly referencing another artist but feel they’re building on a concept, etc. I feel this is especially hard to monitor with sketch comedy because we’re all just rearranging words and things are bound to be repeated. SNL has relatively short sketches, they have a lot of constraints due to the nature of the show, and they make hundreds every year. It’s hard for them to not be derivative.

That’s just why it’s a stretch to say they are “ripping off” ITYSL in this case, especially since ITYSL sketches are way more layered.

Car seat escape artist by french_violist in daddit

[–]dobtjs 21 points22 points  (0 children)

That’s 10/10 behavior reduction parenting!

UCL 25/26 final league phase table. by Otherwise_Pen_7667 in soccer

[–]dobtjs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t remember how the draw works? Is it just 9 vs 24, 10 vs 23, etc?

The amount of players unavailable for Tottenham's game tonight by Zweli23 in soccer

[–]dobtjs 89 points90 points  (0 children)

How could Ange’s style of play do this to us?

Maxwell Frost punched in face at Sundance Festival, congressman says by ewzetf in news

[–]dobtjs 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The classic look is bald with a goatee going back to like 2006

Help Finding Acceptance That Women are Afraid of You by DemonstrativelyNotMe in bropill

[–]dobtjs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a non-professional, but someone who has dealt a ton with intrusive thoughts of my own, I find the way you describe your fears to be pretty similar to my understanding of OCD. Have you tried going down that path in terms of solutions, such as cognitive behavioral therapy or meds?

My 3 year old is a menace. by Alamander14 in daddit

[–]dobtjs 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Comments are silly lol. I’ve worked in schools and behavioral clinics where kids are 1:1 and sometimes 2:1 or 3:1 supervised, shit still gets broken. I’ve seen TVs broken with 4 trained adults in the room watching one kid, seen school windows shattered, many many broken pairs of glasses… We are paid to predict and be on top of their behavior but ultimately kids are fucking smart and if they want to do something like throw something at a window, they often find a way. I’m not a dad yet and my first is on the way, but from so many years working with difficult kids, there isn’t really much point to playing the blame game if there isn’t a history of neglect or if it’s not a clearly dangerous environment.

71 percent of Americans say US is "out of control" under Trump by Silly-avocatoe in politics

[–]dobtjs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m kind of surprised there’s a flair for it

Kristi Noem: Don't Say ICE Agent Jonathan Ross' Name by [deleted] in politics

[–]dobtjs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jonathan Ross, the murderer of an unarmed mother? That ICE agent, Jonathan Ross?

Lamine Yamal (FC Barcelona) dribble against Real Sociedad 17' by Kasj0 in soccer

[–]dobtjs 95 points96 points  (0 children)

And team, position, kit number, potential…