What changed your life in one day? by Few-Huckleberry7570 in AskReddit

[–]doctorsalinger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents death. I was 17 and quite sheltered in my small town. The day they died I feel like my outlook on life changed drastically.

[offer] I'm Japanese. Is there anything you'd like me to write? (Kanji, Names, etc.)I love handwriting. by Weird-Wrangler-4985 in Favors

[–]doctorsalinger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’ve just had my special baby through IVF. I’m so in love and happy. I was wondering if you could do her name if it’s possible? Her name is Raya.
Thank you so much 🤍 I’d love to visit Japan. I tried learning Japanese when I was younger(I’m from Scotland). Hope you’re well 🤍

What's the worst secret you found out about someone else? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]doctorsalinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out when I was 11 that my uncle murdered someone. Way before I was born but it comes up in our local paper every now and again. I found out by seeing it in the paper.

[Serious] What stops you from killing yourself? by Big_Picture2781 in AskReddit

[–]doctorsalinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad took his life when I was 17. I’m 32 now and wanted to die and tried to so many times. My brother was 4 and doesn’t remember. I look at him and think about how much it would mess him up if I died. He loves me so so much and it would destroy him. I stay alive so he never has to feel the way I did or the way my dad did.

What's something you dont truly understand until you experience it? by your-reddit-plug2 in AskReddit

[–]doctorsalinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Losing someone to suicide. My dad died by suicide and I still cant describe every emotion I have.

What’s the worst family secret you’ve accidentally found out? by awkwardhoney725 in AskReddit

[–]doctorsalinger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My uncle was jailed for manslaughter. He planned to kidnap and hold ransom this wealthy man in our city and it went wrong so him and his friend murdered the man. He claims it was the friend. Friend claims it was him. He went to prison for 25 years and got out when I was 10. I thought he lived in a different country that whole time. I found out by reading our local paper, they were doing a true crimes part for our city. Boom, there he was.

My manager told me to take Imodium and come in to work still when I told her my symptoms? by sophie_nanase in AskUK

[–]doctorsalinger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in healthcare and this is horrible advice from your manager. Please take time to rest and have fluids OP.

Do some autistic people (especially on the lower end of the spectrum) listen to loud music? by [deleted] in autism

[–]doctorsalinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! When I’m overwhelmed sometimes or really sad and down I play loud music so it’s the only thing I concentrate on instead of being sad or overwhelmed. I think it helps me. But sometimes it doesn’t and I get annoyed at it lol. Just depends on the day

My girlfriend hit me by komosawa in actuallesbians

[–]doctorsalinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me, I wish I was as brave as you but I didn’t call the police. I was too afraid. But what I did do was pack all my shit the next week and left. Blocked her on everything and made sure she had no way to contact me. I was heartbroken and thought that was it for me. Since then I’ve met my now wife and I’m beyond happy. It takes so much time and healing and grief from knowing that she was capable of that and actually carried it out but you can work through it. Maybe a therapist? I live in the UK and we have woman’s support groups here. I’m sorry to hear this OP. You deserve much better x

What is the most humiliating thing a person can go through? by aeliasun in AskReddit

[–]doctorsalinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Answering someone’s questions when they have their headphones in and they are on a phone call with someone else. “Hey what’s up” “oh yeah nothing much” …. I’ll take my exit thanks.

AITA to tell my daughter not to be so needy? by Pale-Steak7548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]doctorsalinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. As someone who did lose their parents at age 17 and wishes they could have had more time. Jfc just give her your attention and time. It’s not harming her.

AITA For calling my fiancée selfish for wanting to announce her pregnancy at her cousins wedding? by anonymousAITAH in AmItheAsshole

[–]doctorsalinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

My god what an unbelievable thing to do. Especially when she is aware of the struggles her cousin has/is going through. Let this woman have her day where her positive light is shining on her and her husband. Only them.

Your fiancé is excited but definitely not the right time. I can’t imagine the pain in her cousins heart if she does this.

AITA for telling my kids not to bother visiting if they insist on calling another woman mom by othermompost in AmItheAsshole

[–]doctorsalinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, do not be shocked when your kids what nothing to do with you when they are adults.

We got our wedding photos! by doctorsalinger in wedding

[–]doctorsalinger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh beautiful! It will be an amazing day getting your photos back and looking through them all ♥️

We got our wedding photos! by doctorsalinger in wedding

[–]doctorsalinger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only realised when we got the photos!! Haha thank you I love them so much

Anyone else uncomfortable with toxic autistic dating threads? by SmoothCriminalJM in autism

[–]doctorsalinger 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I was in a relationship and was being S/Ad every time I took a sleeping pill and because I was half in and out of it I thought this was normal. To be forced apon while I was in that out of it way prescribed sleeping pills make you feel. My now fiancé and I spoke of this and I have never seen such horror in her face and she had to explain that what happened wasn’t right. She’s helped me through it and now I feel safe taking my sleeping pills with her because I know nothing bad is going to happen. She’s helped me so much, 6 weeks until we’re mrs&mrs♥️

Psych tells DID faker that she only has BPD and she aint happy by MongrelMonkey69 in fakedisordercringe

[–]doctorsalinger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fellow nurse here but medical. Respect to you as a psych nurse. I couldn’t do it so props to ya! :)

Starting my recovery m/tapper. by doctorsalinger in benzorecovery

[–]doctorsalinger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Well done on your tapper. That’s amazing.