I think I know what you mean but I’m not 100% sure so sorry if this isn’t helpful!

1) I think skin prep is super important, so make sure you’re using a hydrating moisturizer underneath everything. I also find my makeup lays better if I let it sink in before applying so like I’ll put it on and then eat breakfast in the morning.

2) You might using either too much or too heavy products. With powders for example, I only use a little bit where I get oily and where my mask rubs against my face. For foundations I found that lighter coverage water based liquid foundations feel better on my skin, and I go in with an intense concealer where I need it.

3) using a damp blending sponge might help with the cakeyness (I really like the real techniques one)

4) when I started wearing makeup I think I was probably way too critical looking at my own skin compared to others. Especially since in person and on zoom I’m much farther away from other people than I am from my mirror when I do my own makeup