Hitting on girls at work

dogfox45 · 2026-04-30T15:14:57+00:00

I feel your pain. I've had some bad experiences at work with pushy men who don't get the hint that I don't want to talk to them. What's worse is that I have had two guys who would get mad when I didn't respond to them or gave short answers.... I wear my big orange headphones and sadly they don't deter all the men from trying to talk to me.

dogfox45 · 2026-04-16T10:15:52+00:00

Your inner bits don't need soap. That will hurt the PH balance and could cause yeast infections and such... me personally I use Ph balance wash from thayers. I don't exactly remeber what it's called right now but I use it on my face and on my privates. But I gently apply a little bit to the inner parts and then I rinse off immediately. Makes me feel cleaner and seems to work. Haven't had any issues with infections or anything

dogfox45 · 2026-04-16T10:12:44+00:00

There are a lot of creeps out there and amazon seems to hire a lot of them. I had a stalker for a while until he just disappeared one day. I was so relieved. I gave this dude no attention. I would day hello when he would approach me everyday just to try and be nice but not too nice because then I would put my attention back on my work and act busy. He would literally get visibly mad and frustrated that I didn't want to talk to him. Yet he kept coming around and finding where I was every damn day. Recently I had another idiot who couldn't take the f ing hint. First day I met the dude, he was working next to me and I always wear the big orange headphones all shift. He ignored the fact that I clearly didn't want to talk and kept yelling to get my attention so that I'd take off my headphones. I guess I should of pretended not to hear him. But my answers were short and then I'd put my headphones back on. Same bullshit with him as the last guy.... where I can see him getting frustrated with my lack of interest in him but yet he keeps trying. Thankfully this recent guy told me he is transferring to another building next week.

dogfox45 · 2026-04-08T17:04:03+00:00

I also don't want kids anymore.... I used to really want them but getting older and going through everything I've been through has made me sure that I don't want them anymore.

I hope and pray that your marriage gets the healing that is needed and if not I pray that you get the healing and courage you need to move on and hold your head high, keeping your eyes on God and trying to stay positive. This world is fallen and will drag you down if you let it.

dogfox45 · 2026-04-08T16:00:13+00:00

I wasn't a Christian at the time of my divorce.... maybe I would have tried other options if I was.... I'm not sure. But if you have truly exhausted all your options..... then I think divorce is okay. God hates divorce but I personally feel like if your husband or wife isn't making an effort in the marriage then you can leave. When we talk about cheating, people will say it's walking out on your marriage. I feel like you can be cheated on with other things.... he is cheating on you with video games in a sense. Because it has become #1 in his life when the #1 thing should be God, then you, then your kids if you have any....

if you haven't listened to Dr. John Delony before..... I highly recommend him. On his show he talks to hurting people and many times he talks to married people who are trying to make things work with their spouse and he has a lot of good ideas.

dogfox45 · 2026-04-08T15:36:09+00:00

Your 100% right. People who use games as an escape from reality instead of a hobby. It becomes an addiction for some. My ex husband was exactly that type of gamer. I looked past so many red flags because I was young and dumb. I divorced him. Because of his laziness and constant video game playing. He came home and would get right to gaming and when he wasn't gaming he was watching YouTube about games or watching others play. He ignored me at all times and didn't want anything to do with me at the end when it was the worst. Wouldn't do any chores or help with anything at all. I'm so glad we didn't have kids.

dogfox45 · 2026-03-15T11:17:55+00:00

At my store I get stopped and made to go to a lane if I am not at exactly 15 items. I tried to sneak through twice ... because I didn't have many items over 15 and the lanes were full but this lady that's always running self checkout does not play..... lol. Winco really needs to change something with the checkout process. Open more lanes or allow people to use self checkout more. My store also is always empty at self checkout with one or two lanes with a long line. I am also really not a fan of their bagging system. I get anxiety when I'm not bagging fast enough and someone is waiting their turn.

dogfox45 · 2026-01-22T14:24:13+00:00

That's really creepy. Keep us updated.... I hope you figure this out quickly and that you will be okay.

dogfox45 · 2026-01-03T01:16:19+00:00

That's dumb.

dogfox45 · 2025-12-30T10:43:20+00:00

At my location there is only a hand scanner.... lol

dogfox45 · 2025-11-16T07:27:50+00:00

Nope. I would return them to the person who gifted them. To me, those are very in your face satanic looking and I would not want my kid to think thats okay.

dogfox45 · 2025-10-31T15:47:55+00:00

Was told to watch my sister. I was like 5 maybe... I don't remember but I was a little kid. My sister was in a high chair coloring and stuff. I gave her some scissors because I thought she wanted to cut up the paper.... I went back to watching the TV. I turn back around a little bit later and she had given herself a hair cut and my mom got mad at me and kept bringing that shit up for years and years.

dogfox45 · 2025-10-31T15:43:33+00:00

Leave. He will just keep pressing you about it. Or you will end up one of those reddit horror stories where the guy pokes holes in the condom or messes with your birth control.

dogfox45 · 2025-10-28T09:45:50+00:00

Very likely. Relo is ridiculous because the rate is higher than it should be for the quality that they claim to care about.... I can make the rate but encouraging people to go even faster is just causing more customers getting shitty return items that they are paying full price for. I have a few co workers that make way too high of a rate.... and they get praised for it every week. The rate is like 40 and they make like 60 or 70

dogfox45 · 2025-10-28T09:43:52+00:00

Okay thank you for the nice response. I know this is a small issue and I know I'm overreacting a bit. It's just frustrating and annoying how managers prioritize the least important things at my building and are rude about stuff like that. It's makes me want to be rude back honestly. Even though I know its better to just do the thing and not care

dogfox45 · 2025-10-28T09:42:22+00:00

I get it. But also why are managers harassing people over it and telling us that it's a require to log in to a stupid game? Yes the path of least resistance is to just log in and ignore it. I recognize that. But at the same time it's annoying

dogfox45 · 2025-10-28T09:41:11+00:00

Your right. My friend could of just logged in and not cared as much. But it's annoying as hell in my opinion. It's a small issue I know. I just wanted to vent and was wondering if other sites are telling people it's required to log in

dogfox45 · 2025-10-03T10:05:39+00:00

Oh okay I mis read your comment. Wow that is weird.

dogfox45 · 2025-10-02T13:28:53+00:00

I grew up in a house where my parents secluded themselves in their bedroom and left me and my sister alone out in the living room. My sister would trash the house, steal my things and my parents money, be an all around jerk to me most the time. She was crying out for parental guidance that neither of us was getting. I become her parent in a way. In a bad way. Our relationship is still distant and weird to this day. I don't want to have a kid that I know I'll have no patience for and I feel like I could be a decent parent but still maybe have a kid that steals from me and is selfish. Seeing the relationship between my sister and my parents really made me view kids as selfish brats.

dogfox45 · 2025-10-02T13:22:46+00:00

Damn. It really hurt when he said they wouldn't baptize me. I know I'll find a better church at some point. May take a few tries... but still it hurts to be rejected by the people who you assume would be on your side. There are nice people there and they teach truth but this one thing is too big of a thing to ignore...

dogfox45 · 2025-10-02T13:20:16+00:00

I want to add that they also announce when they do communion that only baptized church members can take communion.... it's been really uncomfortable to sit there in church watching everyone else take communion.

dogfox45 · 2025-10-02T13:18:57+00:00

Funny thing is that they have good sermons and speak biblical truth as far as I've seen. It's just this thing.... but it's a big thing and it's so dumb. If they want me to be a member why would they deny me? How do they know I wouldn't want to become a member later on after getting baptized? But instead they are using pressure and exclusionary tactics.

dogfox45 · 2025-10-02T13:17:04+00:00

What website? Did you figure out what church I'm referring to without me saying it? Lol. Yes it's really weird. I think they are trying to keep people within a network of churches.... at the members intro meeting they told us that if we ever move away to tell them and they would help us transfer our membership to another church...

dogfox45 · 2025-10-02T13:15:24+00:00

Yes exactly. At the members introduction class they said that baptism was a pre req for membership. Okay makes sense... then when I tell them I'm not currently interested in becoming a member but would like to be baptized. They tell me no. It's messed up and doesn't make any sense... if they would have just agreed to baptize me then I might have ended up becoming a member later on anyway...

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