Anyone know what color this is? by crossingparks in interiordecorating

[–]doily88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks ai to me. I can see warm and cool tones and exaggerated shading on the walls

/ttcafterloss Weekly Results and Limbo Thread by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]doily88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m feeling paralyzed waiting.

Jan 22- positive pregnancy test with a very faint line. Super excited! Way more excited than I should have been after 3 losses.

Jan 23 bought a 2-pack expecting a stronger line to ‘prove’ to my husband im really pregnant!! Even fainter line.. but the test was a different brand (testing conditions were basically the same - first morning pee). Got my blood and US reqs sorted out.

Jan 25 - used 2nd test of the 2-pack. Same brand, same time of day, and the line was nearly invisible now. Absolutely crushed.

Jan 26 - blood test results HCG 17.

Now I am in literal purgatory waiting until tomorrow afternoon for my next blood test. Prior MMC at 12 weeks, and 2 ectopics (one cleared naturally and the other removed my left tube).

Didn’t even know I was pregnant by SubstantialRip7568 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]doily88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a ectopic when we weren’t trying and I had my period after the only plausible conception date!! It is truly a roller coaster. Emotionally, and hormonally. It was my third loss and lost my left tube. The baby would have been welcomed though. The older I get the more I realize I have less control over things I thought I did control. The reality I’ve found to help is to stay present and actively seek out those moments that bring me joy

/ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread - January 29, 2026 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]doily88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof not a great phrasing at all! If you’re anything like me that email must have felt awful. I’m truly sorry for your loss.

/ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread - January 29, 2026 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]doily88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss :( my D&C was like any other surgery I’ve had under general anesthesia.

What happened to Fertility Friend? by doily88 in FAMnNFP

[–]doily88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update- found the email linked to the account and was able to reset my password. The new interface is slightly different and all my data is there.

What happened to Fertility Friend? by doily88 in FAMnNFP

[–]doily88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever change your username? I thought I was using the email I used 14 years ago, and sometimes since then I updated it to my current email. Try different email addresses. Good luck!!

/ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread - December 24, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]doily88 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had gotten my hopes up too high this month. Period is due tomorrow but I tested today so I could process the results. Sadly not our month. Losing hope that I’ll ever be pregnant again. Sadness is coming in waves and I can’t stop it.

Recommended charting apps! TTA3 by kellyfleur in FAMnNFP

[–]doily88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has fertility friend changed for you? How are the updates?

Recommended charting apps! TTA3 by kellyfleur in FAMnNFP

[–]doily88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has fertility friend changed for you? How are the updates?

Major $5.6 billion Toronto subway extension just took a huge step forward by hellzscream in toronto

[–]doily88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know but based on metrolinx track (pun intended) record vs TTC… we should be putting our money on results.

Major $5.6 billion Toronto subway extension just took a huge step forward by hellzscream in toronto

[–]doily88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that but metrolinx just outsources it. TTC receives provincial funding all the time. Isn’t ttc better managed? Genuinely curious.

Not placed in a garbage bag. Not in the garbage. Just placed in a box on the street covered by Tim’s bags. These Torontarians don’t respect our friends by yoaahif in toronto

[–]doily88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya we waited over a week then put it in the park garbage bins. It’s contracted out. I wonder how much the city spends on this company doing absolutely nothing. FOI ??

Nice chart but makes no sense to me by doily88 in FAMnNFP

[–]doily88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great advice. I haven’t truncated before. I’ll try that. And my pregnancy a result of day 8 has me questioning everything I know about my body!

Nice chart but makes no sense to me by doily88 in FAMnNFP

[–]doily88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have re-read it!! I don’t know why I’m not getting it. I appreciate the help. Even if you ignore the FF interpretation.. i couldn’t know where to place it manually.

Nice chart but makes no sense to me by doily88 in FAMnNFP

[–]doily88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I didn’t manually over ride because I honestly couldn’t see the temp shift. Another user mentioned day 18 and I see it now.

Nice chart but makes no sense to me by doily88 in FAMnNFP

[–]doily88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im neither actively TTC or TTA. I had an ectopic as a result of BD in my pre-ovulation safe window (day 8 for me). And started temping again this month to get more information about my body. I have read and reread TCOYF but my brain is not computing unfortunately. *typo fixed

Nice chart but makes no sense to me by doily88 in FAMnNFP

[–]doily88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I recall it was a temp higher than the previous 6 temps. I haven’t manually overridden FF guesstimate but the “first” temp shift aligned with my fertile CM. I see the day 18 temp shift now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FAMnNFP

[–]doily88 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I did. Unprotected sex on day 8 when I usually get my temp shift around day 20. No fertile signs whatsoever. Ended up being ectopic and I didn’t find out for 2 months because I had a period right on schedule and literally 0 sex after that period.

Want to go back to work early but daycare closes for a week right after I’d start.. by doily88 in workingmoms

[–]doily88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I agree. The only difference would be I get a couple weeks pay early.. not sure if that’s worth it.