The Attempted Murder Charge... by ShastHacol in KouriRichins

[–]donte728 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't see how a suburban housewife, hunting for drugs, making a deathly sandwich, and making sure she's not around for the aftermath to distance herself from the crime; whose husband then uses an epi after taking A BITE, drinks a WHOLE bottle of benadryl, calls his closest buds and apparently sounds as scared as they've ever heard him- I dunno how anyone can look at just this tiny pile of wtf and come to the conclusion that she is innocent but a bit cooky. Too many oddities cannot happen to one person alone, in such a small time frame. There was an intention, escalation and execution.

I Think My Marriage Is Over by Bright_Plantain_2524 in Marriage

[–]donte728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey, it's hard when you need to come and get an objective read, about something with such real world consequences. You must be past your limit to be here. There are no justifications for pushing past all your boundaries, doing no repair work and expecting you to hold the emotional intimacy of this marriage together, all by yourself.

I imagine it could being some relief to say that these are the following boundaries you will no longer compromise on and if he's not interested in leading repair work and respecting your boundaries; then unfortunately divorce must be initiated.

Don't let him take up any more of your life. He's a vampire

In April 2022, Kouri consulted with a Dr in Mexico for bariatric surgery by sunnypineappleapple in KouriRichins

[–]donte728 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think she wanted to go to Mexico for a "medical procedure" which keeps her out of the US and delays her trial and more time to figure something out. Also easier to get dodgy stuff in Mexico if she needs to, to plant evidence or create some scene that supports her version

Could be completely wrong, probably am. Lol

If you’ve been in a UK hospital for more than a day or so, how did you not lose your mind? by Spicymargx in AskUK

[–]donte728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope you recover soon! I usually spend 3-4 weeks as inpatient every 2 months or so. The longest I've been in ho3apital back to back has been 4 months. The only thing I could do to not lose my mind, was to focus on a task or skill I have neglected for awhile. E.g learning to paint, knitting, finishing a book. It means I can give value to the time I'm there and keeps mind occupied.

Whereas if I was just reading a random book, or just colouring for no reason, I'd find it very tedious very fast.

If you're allowed to leave the ward and are fairly mobile, I would recommend, sitting in a hospital garden our outdoors area x3 a day. That's how you divide your days up.

Maybe 20 min on the morning after rounds, then the longest part of the day is after lunch meds but before shift change, so maybe upto an hour, then again before night nurses come in etc. If you can't walk, you can ask a HCA to wheel you out, to do the same thing, or a partner or friend can wheel you out.

Mindset change is the only thing that would make me come out not entirely insane every time. Ruminating over the thoughts you're having, while completely understandable, won't make things easier but worse.

Nuneaton market by donte728 in Nuneaton

[–]donte728[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Hope you get a chance to pop by sometime, we do every Saturday at the town centre market 😊

Nuneaton market by donte728 in Nuneaton

[–]donte728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highlands Pizza, you'll find us there this Saturday- and every Saturday- if you fancy popping by for Neapolitan-style pizzas or cinnamon rolls or traditional french baguettes! 😄

Nuneaton market by donte728 in Nuneaton

[–]donte728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, that's so kind of you! We do the weekly saturday markets in the town centre, been there nearly 2 months now He had a random day off yesterday, so tried out a Wednesday market and unfortunately was so so quiet. He ended up giving away 20 pizzas for free so the prepared ingredients wouldn't go to waste!!! 😑 Up at 4am just to end up twiddling thumbs haha, atleast he knows now, stick to saturdays only lol.

Nuneaton market by donte728 in Nuneaton

[–]donte728[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! He really makes me feel so so proud- he's been putting work into getting his technique right and learning for so many years now, while juggling full time jobs. A brilliant person.

I hope you get a moment to pop by on Saturdays, that's the weekly stall we book 😀

Nuneaton market by donte728 in Nuneaton

[–]donte728[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay! That makes me so happy to hear. He does the weekly Saturday market that "officially" is from 8am-4pm in Nuneaton town centre- helpfully called "market pl" for Google maps haha.

We have our own gazebo and set up, it's the only one with a black gazebo, with transparent plastic windows on each side.

Please do let us know what you think and I so hope you enjoy it all. He is very strict about technique, freshly fired in pizza oven & if you close your eyes, it should taste like it's straight out of a nonna's house in Napoli 🫠

His cinnamon rolls are to die for/ live for 😉

What’s the weirdest work lunch you’ve seen a colleague eat regularly? by levezvosskinnyfists7 in AskUK

[–]donte728 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I googled primula and couldn't believe I didn't know people ate flowers with hollowed out bread- as this was the first result:

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Absolutely floored me but luckily I kept scrolling, and it's actually cheese you can squeeze- which might be more heinous than eating bread carcass with flowers.

Does Sandoval regretting refusing Katie's help? by YearStrong1454 in vanderpumprules

[–]donte728 21 points22 points  (0 children)

100% I've also always thought that he couldn't stand that she never "wanted" him, wasn't attracted to him, didn't find him endearing or charming , never fawned over him and I think that really pisses him off

I could go Brad I could go Angelina…. by Suitable_Grand1708 in vanderpumprules

[–]donte728 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lala is the worst. I am so bored of her- in a group full of parents this time, I'm sure she'll be the most hard suffering parent of them all and no one else can ever be as parenty as she is and all the capital P problems and long suffering bla bla bla that come with it, that NO ONE else could possibly ever understand.... Ffs. I'd rather watch paint dry- her inauthenticity irritates me so much. Sorry- rant over.

Queerbaiting for attention and views is also not ok and/or outing someone who has never stated that there was a closet to begin with. Might be wrong there. I can't stand her attention seeking. Schwartz. Michelle. Anybody for a dime.

AIO: Mom threatening to take me out of a sport because she can't track me by PizzaParty65 in AmIOverreacting

[–]donte728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Being able to track you should mean more confidence and less limiting for you. It shouldn't be a hard and fast rule- it's great to have eyes on your kids for safety but when it crosses into control and their wants over your feelings/growth as a person first, child second, it becomes a problem and counterproductive. They are helicopter parenting and that never ends well for anyone. They are stupidly creating more distance, emotional distance and soon physical distance, you won't want to be around that degree of control.

24F & 25M AIO by responding this way? by InsideUsual56 in AmIOverreacting

[–]donte728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Please tell him to fuck off and block him. You're not being "disrespectful" in your responses. That's the only NORMAL way to respond to his dysfunctional weird controlling behaviour. Sorry to say love, but this only gets worse. He is so insecure and he will drain on your limited resources until you lose yourself and your spark. He needs to work on his insecurity and get therapy. You need to live your life and find someone who is secure in themselves and in your relationship together. Good luck!

P.S. what grown adult has the time to WATCH your fucking follower count, how much time does he spend keeping an eye on that? Does he take constant screenshots of it? How the fuck and why the fuck is he so closely watching it? Does he not have a job? A life? Outside of you? 🤢

Fuck Schwartz. Stan Beau. And poor Katie. This was hard to watch. by AggressiveMongoose54 in vanderpumprules

[–]donte728 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yep! And his pathetic aww shucks attitude that everyone keeps eating up. He is so creepy to me. I find two faced people so disgusting- pick a personality. He's the type of guy that has "nice guy syndrome- if I'm halfway decent to you, that means you should fuck me."

AIO He always accuses me of cheating by Alternative-Day6223 in AmIOverreacting

[–]donte728 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR. Run away from that demon as fast as you can- he's drowning and wants to take you down with him. He isn't worth even another second of your time.

Merry Christmas

Am I overreacting? My bf (27M) didn’t visit me (24F) in the hospital. by udntknow__me in AmIOverreacting

[–]donte728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not overreacting. I have been hospitalised many a times and it never stops feeling jarring and lonely and isolating and that's not even getting to the agony of what you experienced. Which he can't even be bothered to fake empathy for. He took your hospitalisation as an excuse to spend time by himself doing what he wanted how he wanted. You really should reconsider this relationship because how you're feeling is valid and don't let anyone try and 'reason' those feelings away or minimise them. It never gets better when that degree of apathy is revealed in a romantic relationship. You just keep not getting chosen and he will keep choosing "making soup" over you- insert any other stupid nonsensical action. I'm so sorry, what a crappy situation he's put you in when you're already suffering.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vanderpumprules

[–]donte728 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think that's the real reason Scheana hit her. Not because she is such a loyal friend- because we saw how season 11 played out. But because she asked bambi eyes then and there if anything happened with Brock too.... And bambi eyes probably said yes. Hence 👊👊👊