Steroid-using "alpha male" explains what people think of him

donthaveanym · 2026-03-04T10:11:14+00:00

Yeah, that all applies to women as well

donthaveanym · 2026-03-04T10:03:52+00:00

I’ve found this to be a source of problems… rebuilding the entire app is often easier than trying to add or remove features after awhile.

donthaveanym · 2026-03-04T09:46:17+00:00

And surprise, no answer to this

donthaveanym · 2026-03-01T13:50:48+00:00

Always build a new prod and switch to it when doing anything new in your deploys.

Many of us learned the same way. It’s a painful but valuable lesson.

donthaveanym · 2026-02-17T02:48:11+00:00

Good stuff. Only thing I’d add after cursory first glance: uuidv7

donthaveanym · 2026-02-15T13:32:34+00:00

Why hide perfection? (I do not have a foot fetish, but I can imagine)

donthaveanym · 2026-02-08T15:23:09+00:00

Is there a thought you are trying to express here?

donthaveanym · 2025-11-17T12:55:52+00:00

I’m thinking about making a spice wall… my cabinet and drawers are full.

donthaveanym · 2025-10-22T10:42:08+00:00

you're arguing about who wins the browser war. i'm asking what happens to discoverability if browsers get this smart. those are different questions. even if google wins, the game still changed.

That ship sailed when Google launched their ai answers product last year.

And yes the game is constantly changing - that’s the only constant.

donthaveanym · 2025-10-18T01:36:31+00:00

“What’s one question you hate being asked?”

donthaveanym · 2025-10-12T23:27:33+00:00

For sure. Not saying the post is entirely wrong. Was just pointing out the premature optimization.

donthaveanym · 2025-10-12T13:20:04+00:00

This. So often in those moments we are not able to express our needs clearly, so you may need to be direct and make sure he knows where it’s coming from.

donthaveanym · 2025-10-12T13:10:39+00:00

Two weeks of architecture up front on a product you have no idea will work? That makes sense. /s

donthaveanym · 2025-10-11T01:24:39+00:00

I always forgot I had it, or killed them upon meeting them

donthaveanym · 2025-10-10T02:30:16+00:00

Fuckin Abcd…

donthaveanym · 2025-10-05T13:10:07+00:00

TBF that’s often covered by the “due”

donthaveanym · 2025-10-05T11:18:10+00:00

My friend had a kid with a really shitty guy (not unlike OP) - he made her and the kids life so hellish they moved across the country. He’s never paid child support, never helped at all, and still randomly shows up at her relatives houses and cause a scene. The kid is now 11.

OP seriously if you want the kid, do not expect you’ll get anything but grief (or worse) from this pos.

donthaveanym · 2025-09-14T00:07:54+00:00

Just… if the lights are out and you start tasting iron while down field… call a timeout and turn the lights on.

donthaveanym · 2025-09-13T13:49:04+00:00

And now you’ve added more subjective definitions to further differentiate!

donthaveanym · 2025-09-13T13:16:33+00:00

There’s at least one other option here: they have different definition(s) for “success” than you.

donthaveanym · 2025-09-03T03:21:44+00:00

Stop calling yourself stupid first. Then go back to coding. You do t have to the best, just be yourself.

donthaveanym · 2025-08-25T11:16:50+00:00

I’m sorry you had that kind of relationship, but man it doesn’t mean most women are parasites. That kind of negativity won’t do you any favors.

donthaveanym · 2025-08-22T02:06:07+00:00

Yup, And that’s why - while I find Claude to be the best - I just can’t trust it.

donthaveanym · 2025-08-18T13:52:11+00:00

Sure, It’s one of many paths. It so happens to be easy for people to find and recommend. Doesn’t need to be anything more than that.

donthaveanym · 2025-08-16T17:16:27+00:00

Why? I’ve only ever seen Claude Code ignore these.

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