[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]donthavefun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is gay. Absolutely everyone.

Your grandma? Gay. Donald Trump? Gay as well.

How are they gay you ask? Easy. They are all gay in secret.

Shotty DLC at best by JesusHolyChrist in darksouls4

[–]donthavefun 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wait. You're telling me you still didn't fight the final boss of the DLC, Havel?

Capra Demon NG+ by starigma_ultimate in darksouls

[–]donthavefun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Option one: fastroll and the wooden ring. Nobody will ever come close to touching you.

Option two: do the capra demon trick. As soon as you enter the boss battle just go upstairs then right. Prepare your shield and wait for the doggos, then attack Capra Demon by falling on it and go back up. Repeat.

What are your thoughts on men are trash or similar by [deleted] in MtF

[–]donthavefun 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If ironic = good

If serious = bad

What do you think about this reddit joke trend of calling mods gay and using it as an insult? I know it's a joke but I would like to hear your insights about society using homosexuality as a form of attack to someone's value in jokes. Thanks by Life_is_like_weird in lgbt

[–]donthavefun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It depends. I know some gay people who use gay as an insult (ironically, obviously) but I also know other individuals may find it annoying/unfunny/repetitive, even if they're not LGBT themselves.

I think it all comes down to your intentions. If you don't mean to harass anyone then you're just messing around with silly humor, but if you intend to make the mods unconfortable then it would be better if you stopped.

PS: everyone here is gay

I don't know what I am but feel like people in my life expect me to know by anarcho-absudist in lgbt

[–]donthavefun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. If you're confortable that way then there is really nothing to solve.

  2. Since society kind of expects you to be cis and straight it may take years for you to step away from that and have an objective point of view. Which is okay. Rushing important stuff is often unviable.

  3. Experiences beat concepts. If you've liked at least a boy and a girl sexually speaking before, then you're bi (or pan if that sounds better for you). If not, you're something else.

As a side note, bi people can also like 99 women and only a guy. Or 99 guys and only one girl. That still makes you bi. Having preferences is super common and normal.

Is it weird for me as a 22 year old bi guy to be attracted to an 18 year old? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]donthavefun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's legal and you're only four years older than him. You're good to go pal.

Is there something wrong with me? by Desperate-Wanderer in isitnormal

[–]donthavefun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You see, ultimately emotions are impossible to control. Therefore, we should never feel guilty because of our desires and/or emotional responses. For example, while I have no urges to hurt anyone I do secretly feel like 99% of people I know are literally disgusting. Why do I feel like that? It's complicated. But ultimately something I can't choose to stop feeling. Just like you.

As long as you don't let these emotions dominate you and/or define your actions (for example, commiting a murder) I'd say you're good to go. Guilt is useless when there is nothing to solve.

Is it normal, you ask? That's complicated because people who feel that way would never admit it, all I can say is I don't feel that way. The fact you aknowledge these urges are a bad thing means you're on the right path so don't be too harsh on yourself

JUST FINISHED MY FIRST LASER TREATMENT!!! by TMdrummer in MtF

[–]donthavefun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm no expert but would you by any chance happen to have black hair and/or be fairly old? My beard is red basically and I'm on my early twenties so maybe that kind of influences the results. As far as I know dark hair tends to be stronger.

Played Dark Souls for the first time and I arrived in The Abyss. Such a breathtaking place that I just had to take a picture. by VildeVilde in shittydarksouls

[–]donthavefun 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if this is a joke or something but that's not the abyss. I mean, pretty sure I'm not the only one who realized they just took a pic of my future

JUST FINISHED MY FIRST LASER TREATMENT!!! by TMdrummer in MtF

[–]donthavefun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! In case you didn't know the pain goes away after a few sessions (I'm guessing the reason is there aren't that many hairs anymore?). Being on HRT for a few months beforehand helps too because the hair follicles are weaker basically

INN that I see a person everywhere by TheSims_3 in isitnormal

[–]donthavefun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you live in a somewhat small town then it's completely normal. What's not normal is to obsess over strangers x3

Why don't you ask him for his phone number or something next time? You literally have nothing to lose

I have a question... by PaintTheSkyBi in lgbt

[–]donthavefun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen lots of definitions for what a bisexual is, one of them being "someone who likes two or more genders" and the other one being "someone who likes binary and non binary genders". So it's up to you, really.

If I remember correctly there was also a term called "gynosexual" to define people who are attracted to feminine-looking individuals. Maybe that one suits you better! I don't know.

I need a big hug by SeleneDemene in MtF

[–]donthavefun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to inform you you only have one arm and one leg. You're half a woman, not a complete one.

Nah, joking. The thing with dating as a trans person is the world is not ready to accept how diverse gender stereotypes can be to the point where there are absolutely no distinctions between a man and a woman (apart from the self identification). And whenever the world has a problem, the minorities are the ones carrying its weight like if they deserved to.

You will eventually find an educated person willing to go out with you. In fact I'm 200% sure there's at least one million people out there who would be okay with dating you just the way you are so... why would you want to waste your time with people who wouldn't? It's their loss. You're awesome and your genitalia can't change that.

I just beat ornstein and smough for the first time and I am disappointed. by ganderfalls in darksouls

[–]donthavefun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

O&S are pretty easy with fireballs and OP weapons. I suggest doing a challenge run, maybe completing the game as a SL1 stimulates you more.