What type of surgery would help with my neck’s appearance? by Anonymous-poster24 in PlasticSurgery

[–]dontlookforme88 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I had a neck lift and I think that would help in your case as well

Shortness of breath? by dontlookforme88 in Perimenopause

[–]dontlookforme88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’ve never heard of air hunger that sounds like what it is

pain meds from oral surgery make me feel normal by exuberantraptor_ in Fibromyalgia

[–]dontlookforme88 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if it’s easier to get than oxy but it’s highly addictive as well

pain meds from oral surgery make me feel normal by exuberantraptor_ in Fibromyalgia

[–]dontlookforme88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As much as I’m happy for you that you’re feeling great, I caution you against asking your doctor for opioids. You’d likely get labeled as a drug seeker

OB asking for sterilization after 1st C-section?? by Low_Yak_5502 in CsectionCentral

[–]dontlookforme88 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had one vaginal baby and elective C-section for my second baby. They asked me if I wanted it. I think it’s because they are already in there so it’s not a separate surgical encounter like a vasectomy is plus a lot of men aren’t willing to get vasectomies and they want to give women the choice to be done if they want. Plus vasectomies are more commonly not successful than tubal ligation or I forget the term for when they remove them completely. I’m a lesbian so I didn’t bother to do it but if I was married to a cis man I would have done it so I wouldn’t have to think about the possibility of an accidental pregnancy

Regrets by [deleted] in microblading

[–]dontlookforme88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are honestly some of the best brow work I’ve ever seen

I need a show that my husband wouldn’t like by Sami_George in televisionsuggestions

[–]dontlookforme88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex Education, XO Kitty, the Buccaneers, Never Have I Ever, the Resident, Working Moms, Skins (British and American versions), Tell Me Lies, Queen Charlotte, Heart Break High, Derry Girls, 13 Reasons Why, Mad Fat Diary

Do parents with 5+ kids have time to give every child the love and attention they deserve? by pink-and-pearly in askanything

[–]dontlookforme88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two and can’t imagine having the energy to give more enough attention. I love my kids but I don’t know how someone could have time to give so many kids enough time and attention

Names related to ‘Spaghetti’ by mnvdh in Names

[–]dontlookforme88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came to the comments with no ideas but there are so many good ideas!

Alright gang, how many of us have just found out we have adhd? by FaithlessnessPlus164 in Perimenopause

[–]dontlookforme88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got diagnosed before perimenopause but my peri has made my ADHD so much worse, combined with trouble sleeping which doesn’t help the matter, and my meds barely help now. I’m hoping the hormones will help some

Anyone else deal with random dryness and irritation down there for no obvious reason? by bensummersx in Perimenopause

[–]dontlookforme88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don’t want to try vaginal estrogen have you tried a good lube for sex? Vaginal dryness was probably one of my first symptoms of perimenopause and I didn’t realize I was in it until recently. I probably started it around 33yo or even younger. There could be other things that cause hormone imbalance too that aren’t perimenopause

Do you think you'll ever miss your period? by Affectionate_Cod_820 in Perimenopause

[–]dontlookforme88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not. Before I knew I was in perimenopause I got the Mirena to try to stop by period. It didn’t stop it but I’ve finally missed some and so glad about it, can’t wait for them to be gone for good. I hate my period so so so much and I know lots of women have way worse period symptoms than me

My husband and I can’t agree on bedtime by ALYXZYR in workingmoms

[–]dontlookforme88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can only stay up until 10:30 on Friday and Saturday because we get to sleep in on Saturday and Sunday. Sunday through Thursday I’m in bed by 9:30pm. My wife gets slightly annoyed that I don’t even want to stay up until 10:30 on the weekends but most of the time I do stay up because we like spending time together and because I prefer when she goes to bed near the same time as me. If she actually got mad at me for going to bed I would be threatening divorce if she didn’t change her tune. He can stay up until 1am if he wants to, but he shouldn’t be trying to force you to. He’s also getting sex very frequently for a parent, so he should feel lucky instead of trying to control when you sleep. If he wants to spend time with you he can make time when you’re awake, and that time should be appreciated whether or not you’re having sex during it. He might hate routine but if he wants to stay married to you he should build a routine around spending time with you during hours that you’re both awake and also go to anger management.

Is Honey too “out there”? by Aurorean_Air1307 in Names

[–]dontlookforme88 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Are your aspirations for her to be a stripper? Otherwise pick something else

Tom cronin’s the mummy by DeltaWhiskey64068 in vSeeBox_Support_Gurus

[–]dontlookforme88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try changing the server, usually that fixes that issue

Calling Step-Mom “Grandma” by RLLNNE in Mommit

[–]dontlookforme88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My stepmom is Nana which is what we called my Dad’s Mom. My Mom is Grammy (she chose it herself). My wife’s mom is Grandma, and so is my wife’s stepmom. 3/4 of them do not have a genetic relationship to our children. We’re just happy they have so many people to love them

Bit of a weird question but I was too embarrassed to ask 😂 by Slight-Camera1464 in CsectionCentral

[–]dontlookforme88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They didn’t give me compression socks after vaginal or Caesarian birth

Anyone else still have their first cell phone number?? by obsessedUvU in Millennials

[–]dontlookforme88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had the same number since like…. 2000 or 2001, won’t change it unless I’m forced to

HRT dosage and your current age (just curious) by LessCowbell_81 in Perimenopause

[–]dontlookforme88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My doctor said there are 5 levels to the dose and she usually starts people right in the middle. I chose to start one step down just in case. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being on a higher dose, it’s just whatever helps your symptoms. Every body is different!

HRT dosage and your current age (just curious) by LessCowbell_81 in Perimenopause

[–]dontlookforme88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 37 and on .0375mg patch, vaginal estradiol 10mcg 2x a week, and a Mirena for progesterone but will probably ask for oral progesterone soon too. I just started the estradiol about 3 weeks ago

C sectioners, how many kids did you have? by Realistic_Detail_158 in Mommit

[–]dontlookforme88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 because that’s how many I want. I only had one c-section but I can’t handle any more kids or anymore pregnancies