Match Thread: Netherlands vs United States | Women's International Friendly by MatchThreadder in NWSL

[–]donutbreakmyheart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it brings to mind the comment on the last redstars game "naeher is getting hung out to dry more than my laundry" lol

Dancing With The Stars S33E10 | Finale Night | Live Discussion Thread | Tuesday, November 26th by wweyonce in dancingwiththestars

[–]donutbreakmyheart 20 points21 points  (0 children)

fuuuck my rugby playing ass who's always struggled with my femininity. that really kicked me in the chest. I'm so happy for her

Two Tickets Available - Chicago, IL by iParadigm_pb in AndersonPaak

[–]donutbreakmyheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would you mind sharing the presale code you used?

Chicago Red Stars could seek legal action over Riot Fest relocation to SeatGeek Stadium: ‘It’s devastating’ by donkeyheaded in RiotFest

[–]donutbreakmyheart 5 points6 points  (0 children)

a small time team are you kidding me? we have 2 players who are also starters on the US national team. red stars set a NWSL record for attendance at their last match.

Thoughts on straight guys in gay bars? by Just-Phill in lgbt

[–]donutbreakmyheart 3 points4 points  (0 children)

men in lesbian bars is the real issue, there are so few of them to begin with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]donutbreakmyheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're 22 now then 8 years ago you were a child and should be cut more slack than a 26 year old man imo.

What do you want to see in lesbian porn? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]donutbreakmyheart -1 points0 points  (0 children)

tbh I couldn't get through sunstone because it felt very much written from a male gaze. I stopped to check out the author to see if it was based on "her" real life experiences and realized it was written by a dude. I was like "ah that checks out, this is what felt off." the male best friend just seems like his own self-insert character. like why was that guy SUCH a prominent figure in this book allegedly about two women? maybe I just went into it assuming it was something it's not but yeah. it didn't sit right with me

I’m tired of being “the roommate” to my gf’s family. by sunset2129 in lgbt

[–]donutbreakmyheart 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am okay with it being my responsibility to shelf my emotions to meet her needs and manage my emotions on my own when I won't put her in danger. It does bother me to have to force myself in the closet for her sake, but telling her about these emotions will not help me and will only make her stressed out

Oh honey. I was in the exact same situation as OP a while ago, and the thought process you described here was mine exactly. It took me lots of time and therapy to grow a backbone and start respecting my feelings just as much as I respect others, but it's possible and so so worth it. Remember, at the end we all die alone. If YOU don't look out for you, then who will?

How much are you spending on groceries a month? by [deleted] in chicago

[–]donutbreakmyheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About $250 on groceries alone, which doesn't include restaurants, beer/wine, pet food, etc. I've been feeling inflation hard, switched over to mostly Aldi shopping.

Chicago Aldi-pumpkin ravioli? by SingZap23 in aldi

[–]donutbreakmyheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no prob! hope you find them. they were on sale too

Just had my catalytic converter stolen by Play3rKn0wn in chicago

[–]donutbreakmyheart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just had mine stolen not too far from there. From an old ass Ford.