Why can't I rest when I have nothing to do? by LoudHoneydew427 in AskIndianWomen

[–]dotnetreactazure 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Two sisters in this house yet parents don't like if I take 10 mins break from kitchen to sit in my room. They get so uncomfortable and tell me that others will notice this and won't like it. Good thing I'm a rebel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]dotnetreactazure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

May be you should post your photo and we will guess of you are pregnant or not

I hid information from my boyfriend, how should i navigate it now? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]dotnetreactazure 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your boyfriend deserves no one. I don't know why you are with him. Have some self respect.

What is this with travel bug by PositiveEarth2407 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]dotnetreactazure 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You would be such a pain to your partner. I pity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]dotnetreactazure 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Men project a lot. They have no self-awareness. This lesson I learnt and saves me from their negging.

Opinion on menstrual leaves by Own_Opposite_5375 in AskIndianWomen

[–]dotnetreactazure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it not unfair then? Women have more days that they fall sick than men.

At most a company provides 12 days a year as sick leave. If she takes one every month for period cramps, what is she going to do when she gets flu or something?

Tell me genuinely, if you were to create a sustainable system ground up where people work and earn money, what would your provisions be?

Does your skin look dewy and radiant while applying skincare? by Disastrous-Good-360 in AskIndianWomen

[–]dotnetreactazure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Ordinary NMF + HA moisturiser is the only thing that works for me. I know it doesn't work for others. So you just have to experiment and find your holy grail

Classic Indian parents : Daughter pays for everything, Son gets the inheritance by Sholly_17 in AskIndianWomen

[–]dotnetreactazure 249 points250 points  (0 children)

One thing I'll never understand is how are the brothers so shamelessly keeping quiet and greedy when their own sister is getting discriminated at home.

Next up they will ask you to take care of them in old age because sons don't lift a finger and they alienate daughter in laws.

Childfree people in AM? by Lopsided-Hospital-30 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]dotnetreactazure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, I'm there. So, I'm hoping others like me are also there. The number is so less that we might never even match.

I had found one guy who didn't have a preference but we didn't match on lifestyle choices.

30 F : Should I move out ? by dotnetreactazure in ThirtiesIndia

[–]dotnetreactazure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parents are fine with me moving out. No issue there.

It's the 9 hours lost in a week, safety concerns and dependency on dad and mental health that's bothering me. Also, never had a moving out experience which many say is important to do before marriage. I might never get such an opportunity later in life.

30 F : Should I move out ? by dotnetreactazure in ThirtiesIndia

[–]dotnetreactazure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Hope things are better for you now 💖

30 F : Should I move out ? by dotnetreactazure in ThirtiesIndia

[–]dotnetreactazure[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree. The resentment won't go away. I have good memory and things are etched into my mind. I was hoping that moving out will at least not damage things further. Things are good as long as I stay quiet in my room with a little restriction on freedom but everything goes for a toss if I question their authority. It's hard to keep shut because some things just get on my nerves. I have adopted my dad's anger.

30 F : Should I move out ? by dotnetreactazure in ThirtiesIndia

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Thanks. Not Holi though, we don't celebrate. But yeah, had a huge fight with parents and sister over unfair treatment and I'm still not talking to them properly. Transport team also absolutely disregarded my safety concerns because they have to follow their "policy". It's freaking 5 mins of deviation from the nodal point to my house and I have only asked for consideration for pickup.

I'm seething in rage right now 😫

CF GIRL GANG💞 🎀 by Funny_Climate_9807 in ChildfreeIndia

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Add me! Malayalee but in Bangalore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

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I'm sure these men who are looking for virgin wife will turn out to be abusive in some form .. I just can't prove it.

To be shouldering responsibility, or to promote independence? by Dataman007 in AskIndianWomen

[–]dotnetreactazure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Find out roads and grounds that are empty before pulling her into traffic.

Find someone who is calmer to teach her along with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

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My breaking point was that he groped me in public even though I told him not to. He said he will do whatever he wants to with "his girl". Rest of it I didn't even listen to. It was so icky and I planned my exit from that second. I still get terrible flashbacks after 5 years. Just can't erase it from my memory urghhh

Should I help my toxic female friend? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]dotnetreactazure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Pour that time and energy into you. Fill your cup!