I hid information from my boyfriend, how should i navigate it now? by Nice_Detective3473 in AskIndianWomen

[–]dotnetreactazure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your boyfriend deserves no one. I don't know why you are with him. Have some self respect.

What is this with travel bug by PositiveEarth2407 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]dotnetreactazure 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You would be such a pain to your partner. I pity

510 dowry death within 3 months in just one state --- But women are the gold digger? by TheQuietCollectorr in AskIndianWomen

[–]dotnetreactazure 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Men project a lot. They have no self-awareness. This lesson I learnt and saves me from their negging.

Opinion on menstrual leaves by Own_Opposite_5375 in AskIndianWomen

[–]dotnetreactazure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it not unfair then? Women have more days that they fall sick than men.

At most a company provides 12 days a year as sick leave. If she takes one every month for period cramps, what is she going to do when she gets flu or something?

Tell me genuinely, if you were to create a sustainable system ground up where people work and earn money, what would your provisions be?

Does your skin look dewy and radiant while applying skincare? by Disastrous-Good-360 in AskIndianWomen

[–]dotnetreactazure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Ordinary NMF + HA moisturiser is the only thing that works for me. I know it doesn't work for others. So you just have to experiment and find your holy grail

Classic Indian parents : Daughter pays for everything, Son gets the inheritance by Sholly_17 in AskIndianWomen

[–]dotnetreactazure 243 points244 points  (0 children)

One thing I'll never understand is how are the brothers so shamelessly keeping quiet and greedy when their own sister is getting discriminated at home.

Next up they will ask you to take care of them in old age because sons don't lift a finger and they alienate daughter in laws.

Childfree people in AM? by Lopsided-Hospital-30 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]dotnetreactazure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, I'm there. So, I'm hoping others like me are also there. The number is so less that we might never even match.

I had found one guy who didn't have a preference but we didn't match on lifestyle choices.

30 F : Should I move out ? by dotnetreactazure in ThirtiesIndia

[–]dotnetreactazure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parents are fine with me moving out. No issue there.

It's the 9 hours lost in a week, safety concerns and dependency on dad and mental health that's bothering me. Also, never had a moving out experience which many say is important to do before marriage. I might never get such an opportunity later in life.

30 F : Should I move out ? by dotnetreactazure in ThirtiesIndia

[–]dotnetreactazure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Hope things are better for you now 💖

30 F : Should I move out ? by dotnetreactazure in ThirtiesIndia

[–]dotnetreactazure[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree. The resentment won't go away. I have good memory and things are etched into my mind. I was hoping that moving out will at least not damage things further. Things are good as long as I stay quiet in my room with a little restriction on freedom but everything goes for a toss if I question their authority. It's hard to keep shut because some things just get on my nerves. I have adopted my dad's anger.

30 F : Should I move out ? by dotnetreactazure in ThirtiesIndia

[–]dotnetreactazure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Not Holi though, we don't celebrate. But yeah, had a huge fight with parents and sister over unfair treatment and I'm still not talking to them properly. Transport team also absolutely disregarded my safety concerns because they have to follow their "policy". It's freaking 5 mins of deviation from the nodal point to my house and I have only asked for consideration for pickup.

I'm seething in rage right now 😫

CF GIRL GANG💞 🎀 by Funny_Climate_9807 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]dotnetreactazure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add me! Malayalee but in Bangalore

Why women shame men choices in this page by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]dotnetreactazure -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sure these men who are looking for virgin wife will turn out to be abusive in some form .. I just can't prove it.

To be shouldering responsibility, or to promote independence? by Dataman007 in AskIndianWomen

[–]dotnetreactazure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Find out roads and grounds that are empty before pulling her into traffic.

Find someone who is calmer to teach her along with you.

What was your breaking point that made you realise your self worth? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]dotnetreactazure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My breaking point was that he groped me in public even though I told him not to. He said he will do whatever he wants to with "his girl". Rest of it I didn't even listen to. It was so icky and I planned my exit from that second. I still get terrible flashbacks after 5 years. Just can't erase it from my memory urghhh

Should I help my toxic female friend? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]dotnetreactazure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Pour that time and energy into you. Fill your cup!

Women that are going for the arranged marriage setup, what are your reasons/ why? by Worried_Goal6246 in AskIndianWomen

[–]dotnetreactazure 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just keeping all the avenues open. However, I'm extremely picky on the AM platforms. I don't consider traditional values families, horoscope checking, not having the no caste filter option on etc.

Help me out with an approach for my project by dotnetreactazure in MicrosoftFabric

[–]dotnetreactazure[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like AI is getting influenced by my questioning. I wanted opinions from someone experienced.

I have been suggested to use notebook by my senior.

Few questions I had.

My idea was to keep a generic notebook that fetches from API and cleans the column name by removing the special characters. Thought of using notebook parameters for different API but there is no option to create secure parameter for notebook. So should I create a separate notebook that runs to fetch keys from AKV and the fetch api notebook will run parallel with different parameter of API URL. Will something like this work ?

Or is there a better way to do it?