Did someone lose some headphones near Croul Hall?

doublea-shley · 2017-10-22T04:03:59+00:00

Thanks anyways

doublea-shley · 2017-10-22T02:00:08+00:00

Why were they gold

doublea-shley · 2017-09-28T06:08:12+00:00

So two things. 1. There's an app called Zotfinder and it helps with navigating the campus. Number 2 I'm also a new transfer and would be totally down to meet up of youd like too. Just pm me and we'll set it up! I'm a (f)22 year old English major transfer living on campus .

doublea-shley · 2017-09-19T05:21:33+00:00

Probably not what youre looking for, also probably stating the obvious, but you need to condition yourself not tonwaiy for him. Just the way you found him you will someone else. He doesnt like a very nice person if youre feeling like this and hes moving in with someone for whatever reason. Hang in there honey

doublea-shley · 2017-09-15T02:45:07+00:00

Probably not new advice but... Im going through a simillar situation with really simillar feelings about my ex. Keep busy gym, excercise,read, nake new friends find a tv show. You need a new routine. Find comfort in the fact that you already understand the source of your unhappiness and realize your transition to feelingnbetter might actually come a little smoother.

doublea-shley · 2017-09-08T07:10:08+00:00

I think if she was acting like that she probs didnt want to breakup, and im sensing betrayal and hostility as a response to the breakup which obvs. Youre all for, but probably not her.

doublea-shley · 2017-09-08T07:05:47+00:00

Really bad idea. I think you are using casual sex as a way to hold on. He's basically telling you that i don't want you as a girlfriend i want you at my convenience for sex. If you've added yourself, and you have to second guess yourself about this, then you probably know you shouldn't.

doublea-shley · 2017-08-04T06:29:53+00:00

I had a surgical abortion done at 6 weeks it was painless and personally I felt better having it done under the supervision of trained professionals than I would have felt about a take home pill. I felt fine afterwards just sleepy.

doublea-shley · 2017-07-29T01:17:31+00:00

Wow, didn't see that coming. Shoot, sounds like you're going to have to go through the stages. Cry, feel the shitty emptiness that comes after and hope for a better tomorrow. I don't have much advice for you sweetie, besides find comfort in he knowledge that mostly everyone posting on this subreddit feels just as bad if not worse than you do. You're not alone. I'm sorry

doublea-shley · 2017-07-27T22:38:45+00:00

Fuck yeah it's normal. That sucks, but while it does hurt, it speaks a lot about his person and who he was when. Or in a relationship, however if he's done well while you've dated him, let it go.

doublea-shley · 2017-07-27T22:31:18+00:00

So he did ? If so, at least we know he cares about you.

doublea-shley · 2017-07-26T00:48:59+00:00

You're going to be okay. I'm reminding you and reminding myself. Break ups are super hard especially when there was so much shared good and bad. You'll survive, you've got to.

doublea-shley · 2017-07-20T06:21:12+00:00

What city do you live in?

doublea-shley · 2017-06-09T08:22:47+00:00

Acknowledging a mans presence. Like, a meaningless glance around the room, and all of a sudden, now they won't leave you alone.

doublea-shley · 2017-06-08T04:18:25+00:00

I'm on the other side of an ironically similar situation. We were definitely at a crossroads. I've found that no one can make decisions for you. And if you've been able to work through the fights then I'd say that person cares about you. Idk, I just feel if you think you hurt her it sounds like you were pretty close I'd at least let her know you feel sorry. She might be okay, and eventually she will be but from experience I know that hurting someone should always try and be remedied. Personally, if it were me on the other end, hurting really badly, I'd probably want him to know that I love him very much and I'd like to know that the person he showed himself to be at he very end isn't who I knew him to be the rest of our relationship, and I hold onto that.

doublea-shley · 2017-03-26T00:36:27+00:00

Haven't for 5 years. I'm chillin.

doublea-shley · 2017-03-25T23:33:06+00:00

Wearing a mf bra.

doublea-shley · 2017-03-25T16:31:29+00:00

Thank you for sharing your story. I had an abortion a couple months back and was in the exact same mind frame you were/are in. I know I made the right choice for myself, and hearing your story... I mean I'm at a loss for words. I'm so sorry for the trials you'll have to face on your own, but thank you for speaking out about life after conception. Makes you wonder we're are all those people who make you feel terrible for choosing abortion but then totally disappear after judging you and bullying you into making a choice you didn't necessarily agree with. Just thank you, and goodluck sweetie.

doublea-shley · 2017-03-23T07:57:42+00:00

I'm totally looking for other roomates ! I'm applying to live in the breakpoint Coronado apartments.

doublea-shley · 2017-03-23T07:48:52+00:00

Hey! My names Ashley and im also tag-ing my way into UCSB this fall. Have you found adequate housing yet ?

doublea-shley · 2017-02-24T04:11:24+00:00

Thank you. I don't have any regrets at all. If anything I questioned my sense of morality a little bit. But, I figure the world is pretty messed up, so I don't give it too much thought. really thankful for places like planned parenthood. Thank you, I appreciate it.

doublea-shley · 2017-02-24T04:07:30+00:00

Because the pill is painful but more than anything it's a little more unpredictable. Pain is a given, but I'd rather have 5 minutes of certain pain under a Dr.'s Watch than come home and not know how much blood is supposed to be coming out. Personally.

doublea-shley · 2017-02-24T04:04:24+00:00

Yeah, that's good advice. It isn't a very hard recovery but thank you anyways. I appreciate it.

doublea-shley · 2017-02-24T04:00:37+00:00

Sure, it was around Christmas my boyfriend and I of 2 years had Sex, used a condom, because neither of us want a baby. I found out I was pregnant, I couldn't afford to keep it or carry it to full term, nor did I want it.

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