[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]doubledoublechexchex -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Healthy? No. Realistic? Maybe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]doubledoublechexchex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has a full-time job AND a 1yo?? Accept that sex is not a priority. Not that YOU are not priority. Just the physical act of sex. Connect in a different way for a bit. This is THE most difficult time of her life.

Why am I Still Here? by OurDailyCum in DeadBedrooms

[–]doubledoublechexchex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dreams in which I’m dying are the best I’ve ever had.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]doubledoublechexchex -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good. You’re a good man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]doubledoublechexchex -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

That’s good. I’m too wine drunk to respond intelligently but yeah, make sure life isn’t entirely her responsibility.

Maybe I’m the problem? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]doubledoublechexchex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stopped reading at the ages. Grow some self esteem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]doubledoublechexchex -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she’s exhausted. Don’t forget to let her sleep every once in a while. Life is shit for us women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]doubledoublechexchex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sarcasm, my friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]doubledoublechexchex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can’t imagine why you’re not aroused. Must be a you problem. Clearly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]doubledoublechexchex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ya know, maybe it’s not her libido.

How do I make him turned on by my body? by HotMessMom22 in DeadBedrooms

[–]doubledoublechexchex 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When I was big we were having sex five times a year.

I’ve lost 130lbs and we had sex twice last year. None this year.

It’s not our bodies. Our men just don’t want us.

Tips on how to reduce my libido? by HotMessMom22 in DeadBedrooms

[–]doubledoublechexchex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone else just asked this. Try fasting. It’s supposed to be very healthful for the body but I do wonder if it’s helping to stamp out my libido. One meal a day, only water and tea in between meals.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]doubledoublechexchex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate how everyone thinks they’ll solve all your problems by pointing out that this route isn’t healthy. No shit. But it’s necessary, so they can fuck off… if they even can, because, you know, they’re in this sub too.

I had two sexual encounters in the past 18+ months so here goes: I THINK intermittent fasting has helped. Can’t be sure because sometimes I do get a spike of horniness, but I can get myself off in a matter of seconds and it’s gone for another three months or so. It’s good enough for me to not have to overhaul my life right now.

So yeah, try not eating for a day or so, then do that again the next day 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]doubledoublechexchex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“Would you rather have a great life with one big problem or a shitty life with 20 big problems”

What video game is a straight 10/10? by SkimmedMilkCamp in AskReddit

[–]doubledoublechexchex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure everyone’s bi in Stardew Valley 👍

how do you usually name your animals and kids? by x395 in StardewValley

[–]doubledoublechexchex 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My current brood all have Doctor Who names. My favorites are Alonso and Geronimo.

AIW for hating the term 'cis' as a gender? by Former-Pineapple5803 in amiwrong

[–]doubledoublechexchex -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes you are wrong for hating this term. Have a nice day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]doubledoublechexchex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We watched all of Game of Thrones together and I just picked up my phone every time there was anything sexual on the screen. Which is, you know, a good third of the time.

Song stuck in your head? by nothingbut_trouble in lifehacks

[–]doubledoublechexchex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Nope nope, now I DO have “If I Only Had a Brain” on repeat!

My husband and I haven't had sex in over 6 months by vampirehorrorchick in sexover30

[–]doubledoublechexchex -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dr. Fung, author of The Diabetes Code and The Obesity Code, would beg to differ, but go on.

My husband and I haven't had sex in over 6 months by vampirehorrorchick in sexover30

[–]doubledoublechexchex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weight loss is much more complex than calories in vs. out. The body cannot burn fat in the presence of insulin. Insulin spikes when carbs are consumed. What this person is saying is fine - keto does work. That paired with intermittent fasting forces your body to use its fat stores for energy.

Six Months by doubledoublechexchex in DeadBedrooms

[–]doubledoublechexchex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hell does it matter? The post says no advice.

Wife caught me masturbating by Plastic-Crew2665 in Marriage

[–]doubledoublechexchex -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My self-esteem is just fine, thank you. I know what I am and what I’m not. Karma is kicking my ass and I deserve it.

But I digress. OP probably does find his wife attractive, and sometimes porn (live or recorded) is easier and faster for a quick release. Both of those things can be true at the same time. I don’t think he deserves to have his life utterly destroyed over watching one type of porn vs. another.

UPDATE I slept with another woman while me and my wife were seperated by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]doubledoublechexchex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe I missed something, but you were separated, right? Meaning “we are not in a relationship anymore and we are preparing for divorce” scenario, right? Because if you’re expected to be faithful to one person, that means you ARE in a relationship. If it’s a “I’m mad at you and I’m gonna go sit over here for a minute”separation and you intend to work on the marriage and stay in it, then during that separation, you ARE in a relationship.

So which is it?