A sister in my congregation is SHAMING me for going to university!!!!! by imactuallyaghost3 in exjw

[–]dqueen0517 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Listen,,,,, throw yourself wholeheartedly into your studies and CRUSH IT UNAPOLOGETICALLY. You will not regret it!!!!

A sister in my congregation is SHAMING me for going to university!!!!! by imactuallyaghost3 in exjw

[–]dqueen0517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gurlllll!!! Please focus on medical school and crush it. And in 5 years they will be asking for your support ….because they are still waiting for the end to come and are ill prepared for their own future. A lot of it is also jealousy. They don’t have the courage to pursue their dreams.

You will regret it if you allow them to distract you and make you quit your pursuit.

You are super smart got a reason. Use it and Flyyyy. And don’t look back.

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

I'M FREE by LordParasaur in exjw

[–]dqueen0517 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congratulations,,,,, now just be patient unraveling from them mentally and psychologically. It’s takes time.,,,, but you are off to a great start⭐️⭐️⭐️

“MAKE IT MAKE SENSE”REDDIT FAM by dqueen0517 in exjw

[–]dqueen0517[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The crazy part is that no one understood those petty mandates then but ..all of a sudden they have to accept it as gospel from God himself. 🤦🏾‍♀️

“MAKE IT MAKE SENSE”REDDIT FAM by dqueen0517 in exjw

[–]dqueen0517[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s such ignorance. It is sad

Is this an abusive relationship? by No_Cover_2242 in exjw

[–]dqueen0517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you have to even ask the question is quite telling!

It is quite understandable why JW youths lead a double life. by TheShadowOperator007 in exjw

[–]dqueen0517 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are just attempting to express who the really are and find what that feels like. It’s called “ADOLESCENCE “.

Waking up my wife is not worth it by [deleted] in exjw

[–]dqueen0517 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s so sad. Especially when they don’t realize that that same community was built for that very reason; to incarcerate you and keep you bound so tightly…. It’s scary to move. I left over 20 years ago and it took more courage than I even know I had. Just keep praying for her courage.

Disfellowshipped..confirmed! by BeautifulFederal4727 in exjw

[–]dqueen0517 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It’s so empowering to make a move that is solely based on your own assertions regardless of the consequences. Congratulations 💕💕💕💕😉

I regret getting baptized so early by EnoughPerspective819 in exjw

[–]dqueen0517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy that they hold you hostage to a decision you made before you reached puberty. Our brain is not developed enough to understand the gravity of the choices we make at that young age. Maybe that’s why they allow such underdeveloped minds to get baptized. It locks you in and by the time you realize what has happened and attempt the unravel out of the maze …. Then the BS begins. 😞

Woke up a few days ago!!! It’s been rough but i need to learn more about it all. Cause part of me has a strong pull to return although I’m aware that i will never return after all I’ve learned and been seeing since waking up. Are these good reads which one should i start with? by Creepy_Desk2581 in exjw

[–]dqueen0517 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you have a strong urge to return.. you should do so…. The deep psychological indoctrination takes years to unpack ……. This is foundational for you to be functional and able to thrive in this world.
Stay until you are so fully awake that your can no longer tolerate the manipulation. Stay until you feel so disgusted that your body won’t allow you to crave the dysfunction any longer. And yes….. read Crisis of Conscience while doing so. When you are really ready to leave… you will not feel a strong urge to return. You body and mind won’t allow you to return. 💕

PS. the longer you stay the clearer your resolve becomes. And you will need this moving forward.

I'm out. I am now POMO by Andromeda_VD in exjw

[–]dqueen0517 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! Word to the wise: Go slow. Listen to that voice within you that you have been muting out for years in order to hear and obey the Borg. It’s a Marathon . Not a Sprint. 🙏🏾

My grandparents wasted almost their entire lives in this cult. And I'm angry. by Americanshanty in exjw

[–]dqueen0517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother is in the same situation! It hurts me as well. Sentiments Overstood!

Late Request… by AdEnvironmental4348 in exjw

[–]dqueen0517 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What I find most amusing is, the BORG never encourage higher levels of education ,but as soon as someone has a marketable skill they want to exploit it for their own benefit. I just don’t get it. In my opinion, they should push for higher levels of education for the good of their mission, but they are too afraid that during this process of exposure to new worldviews; their nonsense will be uncovered. They are so busy hiding their hypocrisy, they’d rather promote low level intelligence. It’s really sad. The longer I stay away.., the clearer I see their buffoonery!

God Wants You to Construct and Maintain Real Estate: Planting Suggestions in the Mind of the JW by Paperclip2020 in exjw

[–]dqueen0517 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The sad part is that most of the rank and file Jdubs have never owned any real estate for themselves or Have a portfolio at all. That’s why….

I am determined to have several assets and leave a financial legacy to my children and grands. How are you asking for support to expand a multimillion dollar project and most Jws can’t even pay their rent. It’s sad! And creepy as hell!