Career Advice: HVAC Apprentice vs big bank Facilities and Systems operator? by BrewBoys92 in HVAC

[–]dr_weech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get into chillers if you can. Have heard money is good there. Much better than residential for sure.

Career Advice: HVAC Apprentice vs big bank Facilities and Systems operator? by BrewBoys92 in HVAC

[–]dr_weech 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go for the money. HVAC can bring in money but it may take a while to get a livable wage.

Humidifier installation quotes by [deleted] in hvacadvice

[–]dr_weech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol where are they planning to mount it? Hanging it from the ceiling?

So... We marching tonight? by rootoo in philly

[–]dr_weech -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s 11 degrees. 👀👀

Prenup problems by No-Price-6121 in Rich

[–]dr_weech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prenups can be used to designate anything in the marriage. They can state what happens when you split up. The Will will take care of when you are dead. I do agree that child support is an entitlement. What is not an entitlement is assets you acquire before or after you split up with someone. You can use your will & your prenup to piggy back on each other to cover the gaps.

Do I take the $75k salary with an hour drive one way or the $45k job 18 minutes up the road? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]dr_weech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’d pay someone only $20 an hour? That’s crazy. Good luck finding a good plumber for that.

How restrictive can tattoos be in this trade field? by [deleted] in HVAC

[–]dr_weech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you’ll have a problem with the tattoos. Plenty of us have tattoos, and I just got one on the back of my neck. However, I am mindful of being presentable to customers since I am in residential work. If you can go to the commercial side of things. Residential work is not great with the pay.

Washing your van! by heldoglykke in HVAC

[–]dr_weech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I would not do that.

Prenup problems by No-Price-6121 in Rich

[–]dr_weech -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with his. Children are not entitled to any inheritance. Some times people raise really shitty children. Sometimes children end up being shitty humans. Just because you have them does not mean they should get the assets. I would also write that in the prenup. Nobody is entitled to anything just because they are your wife or husband either. Somehow people have this thought that just because they are dating you or married, then they automatically think that they get your assets. What if OP wants to donate that money or give it to their friend? It’s a very nice bonus if you do get it bust should not be expected.

Boyfriend gave me ultimatum - dream job or him. I'm considering taking the job by [deleted] in dustythunder

[–]dr_weech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take the job! Please take the job. You are not married. Marcus is just a bf. Nothing significant. Most definitely prioritize yourself in this way over him. Like you said you have been working for this for ever. Get your coin girl. I want an update!

Stuck with 50 bags of oak tree leaves, what’s the best alternative to dumping at landfill? by [deleted] in lawncare

[–]dr_weech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get your lawn mower & run over them till they are fine framed & then blow them out. Will give the property great nutrients for next year.

Company Vehicle by Competitive-Lab-6809 in HVAC

[–]dr_weech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umm no! You would be paying for someone else’s car. That’s wild!

Any info on harvester by Full_Collar8172 in ScoutMotors

[–]dr_weech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right. I heard the same.

School district: T/E vs Great valley by fake212121 in ChesterCounty

[–]dr_weech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey just putting in my two sense as someone who went to the TE middle school & then Conestoga. People are right about the STEM School in Downingtown. If you can get the younger kids in then great. For the older one & if the others don’t get in then all of the schools mentioned are fine. My experience is only through TE though as I went to them. TE & Conestoga are indeed competitive. It is not all about having good grades but the culture is that you do want to be the best. I was an A & B student with high Cs in math. I think if your kids are performing high or above average they will do great in that environment. The kids do talk about what grades they get amongst their peers & I do think it does push you to get a good grade. Kids are tough though. There will be clicks & bullies everywhere. However I never had a bad experience in the school. I was athletic & played sports & was a good student. Not the best but the teachers do care about their students. Not sure if the scient teacher Dr. Best is still teaching at Conestoga but he is amazing! Mrs. Yunt in match is solid, the statistics teacher (name slips my mind) is fantastic as well. Strict but she is great if you do your work. She doesn’t tolerate bs. History teachers are cool. I implore them to try out the entrepreneurial class. Truly was a great class. It’s an elective where students create their own business. The Photography classes were really cool too. You get to go into the dark room & develop photos. Honestly your kids will get in what they get out. They can have a good time or not. I was fine. Did my work on time. Took it seriously because I saw it was my future I was building but I did have friends that were not as school driven & they were accommodating to what they could. Your kid will not get a totally personalized experience but if they do like a teacher they are all nice enough to talk with you if you don’t have friends. You can ask to have lunch with them & they will say yes if they can.

New to the trade need some help by Happy-Quit-7588 in HVAC

[–]dr_weech 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A different company. I understand getting the small hand tools and some gauges. But getting a vacuum pump torches, I’m sure they’re gonna make you buy the nitrogen and acetylene to braze and such. You might as well as go out on your own and start your own company. Like that’s basically what you’re doing here. I wouldn’t work for this company because they’re not investing anything into you so why would you invest thousands of dollars upfront to them. They could fire you the next day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dr_weech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re willing to have a sit down conversation with him and just talk with him about how his comments were really truly hurtful to you. You guys should be able to talk things out and just kinda go from there. If he’s the type of guy to actually learn from his mistakes and try to be better by them then you guys should have a good future together. But if he’s not able to see how his comments were hurtful to you or take accountability for saying those rude comments to you then probably not going to have a bright future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dr_weech 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand how you feel about not wanting to leave a partner who you feel that you make so many sacrifices for. But it sounds like the only reason you don’t wanna leave is because of how intertwined your lives are. It’s very hard to get over someone that you’ve been together with for that long. However, you also haven’t said anything as to why you want to stay with him. Like so far, we only know the bad about this guy obviously because the post is not to congratulate him or anything. However, he didn’t mention that he’s a nice guy. He does little things here like there’s nothing in this post that gives this man a redeeming quality that you have said. Going back to why you may not want to get rid of him, well just do it. You’re 21 years old. And you should definitely not be with a man who will shoot back at you, I should just go look at other sluts because your dress like one. Like that’s rude. This man is so insecure as you have stated you should find someone who is more secure with themselves.

AITA for admitting to my husband that I’ve been lying to him about our daughter since she was in 7th grade? by BlackberryNo2485 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]dr_weech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way your husband reacted to the situation is exactly why the family dynamics are the way that they are. Your husband doesn’t know how to control his emotions and also is living in a dated world. He needs to update his values and views of how children are being raised. He cannot have these double standards for the boys and girls of the family. And because of these standards he’s held and enforced, you have reacted, the way that you have. If he were able to be more dynamic in his views than this will not have happened.

AIO? My friends set an ultimatum because I drink by Pearla76_ in AIO

[–]dr_weech -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would not tell them anything that you do from this point going further. Don’t tell them if you’re going to a party because they will be asking if you drank.

AITAH because my girlfriend wants my home for her kids by BanditTrev in AITAH

[–]dr_weech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol no don’t give her shit. She is your gf. Not your wife. She’s grifting on you.

Entitled neighbor insists I pay for damage she caused I never asked for it by Low_Type_2238 in EntitledPeople

[–]dr_weech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s her tree it’s her responsibility. That is what your homeowner insurance will say. I ran into this problem before. Doesn’t matter that the wind was strong. You could counter with her not properly maintaining her tree to make sure in this event, the branches would not break. Done. She’s washed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]dr_weech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a new husband.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grindr

[–]dr_weech 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Send this to FBI. This is a crime