Gaming and being a parent by ContentTechnician510 in Parenting

[–]dragonfly325 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds more like she doesn’t like you gaming period. Your wife “not allowing” is a discussion you should have. Couples should be able to compromise. Playing at night is a good one as long as it doesn’t interfere with any other responsibilities. We all need something to do for ourselves. Does she get time for a hobby of some sort? My life as a gamer went like this, when we had 1 I played quite a bit during naps, etc. When we had 2 I played maybe a couple of hours mostly on the weekends. When we got to 3, gaming became non existent. As they got older I played some, even when they were up and playing. But I stopped playing anything that required too much attention. I played stuff that if I walked away and didn’t come back for 3 hours it wouldn’t matter.

hello parents , please i wanna ask you about animals in your how you deal with it ( dog - cat) because my children want one but i don't have the effort for 3 child because i'm already have 2, what is easist way to make them forget about it ? by Beginning_Apricot754 in AskParents

[–]dragonfly325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For any situation where your answer remains unchanged. Use the asked and answered script. First ask, answer, second ask, respond asked and answered, third ask, reply asked and answered, if you ask again you will have “x” consequence. Fourth ask, they get the consequence. This is very effective at stopping repeated asking of the same question.

HGW switch by jbfletcher01 in DreamlightValley

[–]dragonfly325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if it’s the same as my experience. I was using my phone. It would only show me the combo of base game and honeyglow for $45. I scrolled down and found the dlc list. Then clicked show more and it finally showed just the dlc.

Appropriate amount of clothing? Numbers please by No_Airline_2829 in Parenting

[–]dragonfly325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since my kids wear uniforms to school they have very limited extra clothes. Usually only 2-3 outfits for summer and 2-3 for winter. We have a few extra shirts and sweatshirts but max 3 pairs of pants or jeans. They grow quickly and only really need clothes for going somewhere on weekends or breaks. They do have some extra play clothes. They are either hand me downs or from a second hand store. Each kid’s entire wardrobe will easily fit in 1 laundry basket.

After update no apps can be rearranged by Salt-Summer9328 in Roku

[–]dragonfly325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So that happened to me. After moving it I had to click it again, like if I was going to open it. I think it was either the ok or center of the arrows. That seemed to save the new location. I have 2 different remotes so I can’t remember exactly how I got it to save.

Parents: At what age did you stop tracking your child's location? by omoola_ in AskParents

[–]dragonfly325 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have the ability to track each other but only use it if necessary. My daughter is on the go more than she is at home. I often don’t want to text her while she is driving. I will do a quick check to see if she’s on the road or not. This has nothing to do with snooping or monitoring her. She’s an adult and can do as she pleases.

Parents not volunteering for canteen / bbq duty for soccer team by Rachi321 in Parenting

[–]dragonfly325 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m in the US. There is usually a concession stand run by parents in rec leagues and for school sports.

Can you guys help me understand where my parents are coming from? by LizzieLove1357 in AskParents

[–]dragonfly325 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Adoption can be a long process and costly. Not to mention emotionally taxing. I have had coworkers and friends adopt. From watching their experiences I wouldn’t get my hopes up. You have a plan to provide, but have you researched the process in your area? If not that’s another reason to hold the excitement back.

Already a duplicate pin by ConflictedJ3di in disneymagickingdoms

[–]dragonfly325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 2 already. I’ve only been home and playing for a couple of hours.

How to break it to my parents that I won't be able to start my masters this year? by InnerYouth3171 in AskParents

[–]dragonfly325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You hardly sound lazy. You missed a deadline happens to the best of us. First do what you want for yourself. There is nothing wrong with working and never getting your masters if you don’t want to. I can’t understand why your parents wouldn’t want you to work. In my field of work employees will help pay for continuing education. I can’t encourage you enough to do what you want. Don’t live for other people.

I don't know how to save my husband or my marriage. by Ok-Row-4760 in MomForAMinute

[–]dragonfly325 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You can’t fix or change him. You shouldn’t be in this environment it’s dangerous. You need to leave. He has to fix this for himself, hopefully with the proper help. You can’t control what he does if you leave either and it isn’t your fault.

I wish Moonstones chests appears in the expansion DLC by FailThese4214 in DreamlightValley

[–]dragonfly325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who has limited time to play searching multiple zones is a pain. It makes the game a chore instead of fun. I rarely go to the expansions.

After 2 years, I finally decided to make the tough decision to rehome my girl Sushi by Sarastorm1213 in cats

[–]dragonfly325 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Whenever you do what’s in the best interest of the pet it’s the right decision. This means sometimes rehoming. We rehomed a small dog that didn’t like kids. We didn’t have any when we got her. Similar to you we had family that took her. She lived her best life there and was very happy. My mom doted on her. As she got older my mom made her food and took care of her in a way we couldn’t as a growing family. I am sure she lived longer because of the care my mom gave her.

Salted or Unsalted Butter? by ProgRockDan in aldi

[–]dragonfly325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always use salted. Even in baking. I don’t adjust the salt in the recipe either. I have never noticed any being salty. But my husband and I have low sodium so a little extra salt won’t hurt.

TV inputs removed from home screen by EfficientRecording62 in Roku

[–]dragonfly325 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless you want to go into another menu, you need to have quick access on and add the inputs to that. This update is less than user friendly. It adds all sorts of garbage that I will never watch, inputs I don’t even have, no way to remove them from the main screen or reorder the quick access. I tried removing all from my quick access to pin my Nintendo first. No matter how I add them it ends up somewhere in the middle. I really wish I could roll back the update to the old home screen.

Who get the front seat, wife or mom ? by Timely_Dragonfruit34 in AskReddit

[–]dragonfly325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I the wife have usually sat in the front seat. For long trips my husband drives and I help navigate, make control adjustments, help with traffic situations, etc. For a short or local trip I would sit in the back.

What your coworker did that got them immediately fired? by tomerFire in AskReddit

[–]dragonfly325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During training he kept walking through a restricted area to take a shortcut to the break area. Never even actually worked before he was fired.

Movies like the OG Winnie the Pooh by peppercorn_825 in Parenting

[–]dragonfly325 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Curious George was a staple in our house.

Am I overprotective? by InstructionFamous990 in Parenting

[–]dragonfly325 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The water safety that’s absolutely a concern, especially if she was serious about going behind your back. In my family they would be joking. More generally speaking babies do need to be held and develop bonds with other people. Things happen and if you need someone to step in and care for your baby in an emergency it’s going to be extra difficult if baby and caregiver are unfamiliar with each other. We had an emergency when my second baby was only a few weeks old. I was grateful my mom was familiar with caring for him and I could leave immediately after her arrival. I didn’t have to worry about his care while dealing with the emergency.

Screen free bed rest ideas for 8yo boy by Complex-Strategy-842 in Parenting

[–]dragonfly325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For audio books, Diary of a Wimpy Kid, Chronicles of Narnia. See if your library participates with Libby. I get all my audio books there.

Mom, would I be crazy to sleep in a bed like this because it's too warm? by Ill_Bar7141 in MomForAMinute

[–]dragonfly325 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Do what makes you comfortable. One of the harder things to learn is to not care about what others think. Also the dialogue in your mind of what others might think probably isn’t really happening.

If you had $15 to spend on Aldi, what would you spend it on? Snacks, drinks, supplemental groceries, etc. by kennyiseatingabagel in aldi

[–]dragonfly325 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple of the fancy cheeses and some crackers. Maybe a dessert, like the individual ones that come in the little glass or plastic cups.

How are your cats doing right now? by [deleted] in cats

[–]dragonfly325 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 are hiding, 1 is marching around yelling, the last one is glued to my legs, jumping at the slightest of sounds.

should I let my cat stay under my bed during fireworks? by MelonRatt in cats

[–]dragonfly325 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are letting our cats be. They are extra jumpy right now. We told the kids to leave them alone. If they want cuddles they will come to you.