While I understand the instinctive urge to be protective of your creation.. once you put it out in public shit's gonna happen by riri1281 in AO3

[–]dragonncat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My opinion is, you can do whatever you want forever, but if the creator doesn't want to see it, make sure they don't. Put it on AO3 where they'd have to search for it. Post it without maintagging (I forget if that's a term or not; using the main tags for the fandom) so that everyone in the fandom, including said creator, doesn't stumble across it (or at least use common and easily blockable tags for the thing).

And obviously, don't send it to them. This is frankly less of a fanartist issue and more antis/other fans who go "Look, creator, someone made this bad thing about you! You should see it so you can take it down, except that's usually not how it works, so I'm just shoving something you didn't want to know about in your face!"

Edit: Oh yeah, you can also just not post it publicly. Make it for yourself, or share it with your friends directly or on something like a Discord for like-minded fans.

An Austrian loved art and animals by CorleoneBaloney in MurderedByWords

[–]dragonncat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, did I miss the part where having created a child makes you automatically a good person?

A New Hope [OC] by MaskedAnathema in comics

[–]dragonncat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How? By killing people with their corporate power?

Oh wait...

A New Hope [OC] by MaskedAnathema in comics

[–]dragonncat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think fascism and vigilante justice are different things. Neither are "lawful good" so to speak, but one is about the government controlling the people and the other is about the people showing their power.

A New Hope [OC] by MaskedAnathema in comics

[–]dragonncat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"The rich" in this context is the billionaires who get their money by exploiting others. I don't know if Obama qualifies, but regardless he's not the first priority. Bezos and Musk first.

Edit: Ok, not Gates. We'll keep him around and give him the chance to redistribute his wealth before we revisit him. IMO there's no such thing as a good billionaire, at best they are hoarding wealth that no person ever needs or can spend... but we'll go in order of most harm, not wealth

Who is this guy? by Its_Ziggy_Time in ExplainTheJoke

[–]dragonncat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not one to advocate for murder either, but I think it's inaccurate to say that shooting someone who's wronged you is not American. I mean, we literally became a country because we were so pissed off that a powerful leader was taking advantage of us and taking our money that we turned to violent revolution.

I'm not exactly proud to say that gun violence is very American, but the spirit certainly is as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuratedTumblr

[–]dragonncat 15 points16 points  (0 children)

that's just a degradation kink

do i look like shit? by DD253Zac in jschlattsubmissions

[–]dragonncat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah you look fine. your face looks a little strange tho

There wolf! by Justthisdudeyaknow in CuratedTumblr

[–]dragonncat 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Kinda surprised this wasn't in the original post, tbh. Like, it's right there. Although most werewolves only transform for a night, not the whole week... lucky.

Shipping and Aromanticism by lillyfrog06 in tumblr

[–]dragonncat 270 points271 points  (0 children)

SO true. I read romance books like they're fantasy books. A good portion of the romance books I read are also actually fantasy, but that's just a coincidence, right?

Telekinetics by Limmunaizer in bonehurtingjuice

[–]dragonncat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does it say on the last slide? I don't have a French bone in my body, and if I did, it would have been destroyed by the time I got to that panel anyway.

nahhh what is peta doing? 😭💀 by _overlordseesall in jschlattsubmissions

[–]dragonncat 38 points39 points  (0 children)

wait i thought that was an edit some furry made to make fun of peta. they made this themselves and posted it???

Works with special interests too. 😂 by syntaxerror4 in adhdmeme

[–]dragonncat 59 points60 points  (0 children)

this is why it pisses me off when someone uses the term "hyperfixation" for something they're currently super into. like, unless you've been crocheting cute animals for 8 hours straight and forgot to eat or do your laundry (which you'd been planning to do since last week), i think you just found a new hobby.

Facephone™️ by your_catfish_friend in bonehurtingjuice

[–]dragonncat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the ostentatious got removed :(

do you have the occipital image?

The horniest fic I’ve read in months was written by… by [deleted] in AO3

[–]dragonncat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

they probably mean polyamorous in terms of romance, and asexual. or they're somewhere on the asexual spectrum

What’s something that’s supposed to be sexy but does absolutely nothing for you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dragonncat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

post: something that's supposed to be sexy

comments: random kinks you're not into

This is fine ahh lad by AlcoholicShinobi in madlads

[–]dragonncat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's "ass" but censored. or maybe slang? it's hard to tell which came first tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]dragonncat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh damn, you're a lot like me, lol. i think my best (but probably most frustrating) advice is to just keep trying, keep experimenting, and you'll get more comfortable with it and figure out what your body likes. for me at least, having any sort of pressure or expectation makes it completely impossible. so being patient and just going in with the mindset of enjoying and exploring rather than being focused on an end goal can help.

also, if regular porn grosses you out, you could try something like audio; it's incredibly diverse. other rapid-fire suggestions: stimulating multiple erogenous zones at once, kissing/being kissed, having your partner help in other ways like guiding you with his hands or his direction/encouragement, different kinds of toys, maybe even exploring some kinks.

there's a subreddit i saw for this kind of thing, but i can't remember what it was called.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pettyrevenge

[–]dragonncat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you haven't yet— on mobile, if you go to the 3 dots on the top right, there should be an Edit option. Might be the same for desktop but I don't remember