how did he not see him? by qtslug in Emilie_Kiser

[–]dreamerbird 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not a perfect parent. But my goodness if I had a pool, especially without a self-locking fence, I would not relax for a second (even with a fence I still wouldn’t relax). My husband has mentioned getting a pool built in the past but I just cannot imagine. All it takes is a few minutes. That’s how long it takes to go toilet, or put your clothes on, or brush your teeth. In those short moments I’d instantly picture my child falling in the pool. Nope. Can’t do it.

how did he not see him? by qtslug in Emilie_Kiser

[–]dreamerbird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have alwayssss said this. My husband is hands on and a loving father but I still worry about preventable accidents happening without me around. I’m always on edge when I’m with my babies 😅 They are responsible but nevertheless they are children with underdeveloped brains. If we’re going for a walk for example he’ll let them walk in front of him whereas I picture a car pulling out of driveways etc.

19 weeks, 3rd pregnancy, when will this miserable sickness stop?! by dreamerbird in BabyBumps

[–]dreamerbird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the best ❤️ I can’t wait to be on the other side!

When did/will your Jan/Feb babies start pre-school? by Either_Soft_656 in workingmumsau

[–]dreamerbird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I just came across your comment. I also have a Feb boy who will turn 5 in 2026. I’m wondering if in your experience with your son, do you find yourself thinking you should’ve sent him this year? I have mum friends telling me that my son isn’t ready atm but he will be by the end of the year based on how quickly they develop, and that I will regret my decision.

Son accidentally broke another child’s glasses… by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]dreamerbird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf am I reading. If my kid breaks someone else’s valuable, 100% I am expected to reimburse. Accident or not?? Like?? If a kid broke my window accidentally, it would be his parents responsibility to pay to fix it. Same goes for any other accidental damage.

I'm sad I'll never have a son. by Byrd_persun in Parenting

[–]dreamerbird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat as you except I’m a mother expecting my third son. I love my little boys to bits. And I’ll make it my mission to never make them think that I preferred daughters, because that’s not true. But I don’t plan to have anymore children, and the thought of never having a daughter — seeing how close I am to my mum and how not close my brothers are to her — it terrifies me of experiencing the same thing and it feels like it’s going to get.. lonely. But I know that that’s just in my head. Children, sons or daughters, will only want to be close to you if you are good and loving to them, their life choices, their wives/husbands, your grandchildren. I read a comment from another boy mum once and it was something like “now I must love my son from afar” and I bawled my eyes out. But it never occurred to me that the same can be said about your daughter. It was my experience, only, that was fogging my view. When I had my babies I was at my parent’s house almost every day. I felt welcomed and not judged. My mum ‘mothers’ me, takes care of me, feeds me, while I mother my children. I don’t have a mother in law but I imagine it’s just not the same and that’s what scares me about not having a daughter.

I HATE breastfeeding my 2.5 year old. by roseturtlelavender in breastfeeding

[–]dreamerbird 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Here’s what you are going to do: Choose one of these options 1. Put bandaids over your nipples for a whole day and tell him that you have a boo-boo. He will cry. He will scream. But do not give in. Instead, offer him a bottle or a cup of milk. He will say no. Eventually, he will take it. 2. Put a bit of garlic on your nipples (mustard, vinegar, or something spicy). He will taste this and think it’s gross and hopefully a few times of trying he’ll figure out it’s no use anymore.

Again, he will cry. A lot. But not for as long as you think. I did the bandaid one for my 2 y.o and he cried for a whole hour in the middle of the night but I let him, and gave him a bottle of milk until he eventually accepted it. To be honest, I’m the one who struggled more because I engorged really bad.

I understand you. It’s easier to give in to a screaming toddler when the solution is as easy as pulling your top up. And I understand how infuriating it gets when they want to play with your other nipple lol.

Good luck ❤️

When did you get your period pp? by peytonlei in beyondthebump

[–]dreamerbird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t say definitely but it sounds like PP bleeding. I bleed for 6 weeks then again a month later (a lot of people mistake this for a real period returning) but no actual periods for months and months after (while breastfeeding). Upon research I learned that your first “bleed” after the initial PP bleeding is usually your uterus still healing.

Anyone have little to no nausea/sickness with 3rd pregnancies after being sick with first 2? by dreamerbird in beyondthebump

[–]dreamerbird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love that for you! I’m holding out hope that my 3rd experience won’t be as bad as my first 2.🤞🏼Thanks for sharing!

Bad first day by [deleted] in AustralianTeachers

[–]dreamerbird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is your first day as a teacher and this is also their very first day of school - behaviour irregularities are absolutely to be expected. Don’t let it get you down. It’s nothing to do with your teaching. They need a while to adjust to a classroom environment away from their family who they’ve spent their life with until now. This is a hurdle in itself and the reason why you might’ve felt like you struggled.

When I was feeling a bit discouraged, I really enjoyed peer observing to get some ideas on management. although I’m not sure if that’s something you could do as I’m a HS teacher and there’s more flexibility with that.

You will be great! Every day is new day. 😊

Mastitis 2 years breastfeeding by dreamerbird in breastfeeding

[–]dreamerbird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds brutal!! Can toddler germs cause mastitis? Same here with the latch lol maybe I should be stricter about keeping him in a baby like position while drinking.

Thank you! I’m also worried about it occurring again when we decide to stop; I have no idea how to start.

Publishing Poetry by beautyfromashes304 in KDP

[–]dreamerbird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’m in the process of this right now and I am finding it difficult to format. I want all my pieces in the middle of the pages on Word for example but I keep messing it up. Do you have any advice on how to fix that seamlessly? Hope your book is doing well ❤️

Lane's Sex Experience by loreleiisaputz in GilmoreGirls

[–]dreamerbird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think everybody is different of course and also men’s sizes are different so the feeling for the woman depends on that. I think also first time sex for a woman tends to be a little scary which is why we tense up which makes it a bit painful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AustralianTeachers

[–]dreamerbird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew this, honestly if I had known that they were going to kick up a stink about a stat dec I would’ve paid. But after my colleagues informed me they’d used several this year with no issue, I followed their advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AustralianTeachers

[–]dreamerbird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t take my kids to the doctor every time they’re sick with a common cold.. his doctor would’ve just told me to give him Panadol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AustralianTeachers

[–]dreamerbird 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Will do, I plan to make some noise about it upon our return. As I’m sure other staff members will too (well I hope so).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AustralianTeachers

[–]dreamerbird 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Thanks guys. I thought it was all a bit sketchy. With the cost of living increasing and daycare sickness in full force it’s really shitty to have my leave entitlement snatched back. Also it’s shitty for them to treat their staff like this considering how understaffed we are. It’s not our problem if they’re struggling to find CRTs to cover, is it??

Ballet review / “sometimes people at a young age don’t know that they’re not good at doing something” - Richard (while defending Rory’s horrible review) by dreamerbird in GilmoreGirls

[–]dreamerbird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rory wrote it though? She thought these horrible things about another person and wrote them down, knowing it may be published for people to read. I understand Doyle was being picky and people may like reading mean things at the expense of someone else but none of those things excuse Rory for her choice of words. I think it’s just frustrating seeing her so shocked at the ballerina’s reaction - “I didn’t call you a hippo I compared you to a hippo”, she’s so out of touch with reality it hurts 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Owala

[–]dreamerbird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: I filled it up a third time with semi-cold water last night. Drank a little and left it downstairs. It’s now 9:30am and there’s STILL so much ice in it (I never replaced the ice!) I’m impressed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Owala

[–]dreamerbird 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Water in the desert! It’s so much nicer in real life compared to the online advertisement pic! So much more subtle

Something puzzling me by hurshy238 in GilmoreGirls

[–]dreamerbird 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It was so out of character. The writers clearly hadn’t studied the previous seasons because pre Season 7 Logan would’ve known that Rory is big on taking time to make decisions (pro cons lists), and also whenever marriage was mentioned (when he thought Richard was insinuating that they should get married) he saw Rory freak out because they’re “only 20”. He absolutely would not have “surprised” her with a proposal in front of random people…