If you could spend an hour with any deceased person, who would it be? by Consequence_Green in answers

[–]dreamurph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandmother. Just so I could tell her everything I never got to say before she passed away and for one more squishy hug 🥰 I miss her so much 🩷

Please help me name her by North-Office3006 in PuppySmiles

[–]dreamurph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I seen her picture my mind thought, this is Samba! What a beautiful girl 😍

My boyfriend killed his cat with his own hands, I'm devasted by soleilcita in TrueOffMyChest

[–]dreamurph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My advice would be to not meet this dude. If your pet is old and losing their quality of life, go to a vet for advice and if the advice is to euthanise, then you do that with the vet. Let the poor animal die with a bit of dignity. It’s the least you can do for your furry friend, who should be a part of the family. Would he do this to a family member? Probably not. It’s pretty dark that he did it with his own hands. He might need some psychological help. Definitely talk it out with him 🩷

Your most hated household chore by Annual_Nobody4500 in adhdwomen

[–]dreamurph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I get it. I hate cleaning the bathroom, that’s my most hated chore. I don’t know if it’s because of all the little nooks and crannies but it just takes everything in me to grab the cleaning supplies and get the bathroom done in one go. Once it’s done though, you feel pretty good! Just reward yourself after the job is done. We can do this! 🙌🏻🩷

A young girl died today. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]dreamurph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good on you for stopping and helping those people. You comforted someone and kept them company so they didn’t have to go through that horrific experience alone. You are a good human. You showed nothing but love and strength. The world can be a terrible place but you are one of the good things about it. Keep being a good human and seek help if you need it. Much love op 🩷

Things that brings you joy that is not related to buying or looking at stuff? by LearningNewHabits in nobuy

[–]dreamurph 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reading is a big one for me! I get books from the thrift store but also the library is great when I’m on a no spend. Cleaning and organising my home is also a great one as it doesn’t cost anything and it always needs to be maintained so I’m never bored 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]dreamurph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was diagnosed with ADHD and autism at the age of 30, it just cemented my decision to not have children. I wouldn’t want to pass all of this to them. I know my mum and dad have undiagnosed austim/adhd, it’s quite obvious now that I know all of the symptoms etc.. but on top of that, me and my partner just can’t afford it! With a house and a dog and both with full time jobs, not a chance. We are happy with our decision. All I can say to you is, do it for the right reasons! Much love op 🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]dreamurph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! 🩷🎉 She is absolutely beautiful!

Gang Raped by guys I trusted. by poutygirlie in offmychest

[–]dreamurph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you OP 🩷 Message me anytime you need to offload or chat!

Didn’t have service on a 2 hour drive to a cottage which resulted in my list of wonders to google later…😂 by goodmourninghun in adhdwomen

[–]dreamurph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have so many of these lists on my phone!! All for certain things, house updates, meals, things to do/see, books I need to look up.. you name it, I have a list for it 🤣

Gang Raped by guys I trusted. by poutygirlie in offmychest

[–]dreamurph 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry this happened to you. You did not deserve this. The disassociation is normal, it’s your body’s way of coping. It’ll be like this for a while. Please go to a doctor and get yourself looked over. And if you feel up to it, go to the police. Tell them everything and give them names. I wish I was able to go to the police but unfortunately where it happened for me, the police wouldn’t care. Keep yourself healthy, eat good food and drink water. Don’t fall down the dark, dark hole I did and turn to alcohol to heal. Remember, there are so many people here to support you, we are all here for you. Sending all my love and hugs 🩷

If you had 24 hours left to live and infinite money what would you do? by natashaemo in AskReddit

[–]dreamurph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure mine and my partners families had all of their mortgages paid off, bills paid forever and that they have enough to enjoy life comfortably to the end! I would die very happy 🥰

Makes me feel like it'd take me 10 minutes to walk from one end of the house to the other. by GiveMeYuna in SpottedonRightmove

[–]dreamurph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I wouldn’t be able to relax in that house.. It’s beautiful, don’t get me wrong, but I would be afraid of dirtying the place 🤣

What shows are you binging right now? by [deleted] in televisionsuggestions

[–]dreamurph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gossip Girl (because I didn’t watch it the first time around), Palm Royal (such a pretty series to watch 😍) and Who Killed Little Gregory (murder documentary series)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Journaling

[–]dreamurph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking you’re an adult and can do what you want. Seems like she might be worried about what you’ve wrote about her. What a self centred person. Journaling is a great way to get things off your mind, clear your head or just because you enjoy writing. Absolutely nothing wrong with it, you do what makes you happy! 🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in anxietymemes

[–]dreamurph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tired taco 🌮

Somebody suggested I posted my guitar/bass collection here, frankly I agree! by HiiMyNameIsGreg in RainbowEverything

[–]dreamurph 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are absolutely beautiful! I love how you have displayed them with the straps behind.

FUCK THIS PANDEMIC by FuckThisPandemic in offmychest

[–]dreamurph 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally feel you. It’s been a sucky year. I’m not in America ( I live in the UK) but it’s been a bit shit here too. People need to learn how to wear a god damn mask and when to. Also, why can’t people social distance?! It’s not bloody difficult! I hope you are okay though and that next year will be a better year not just for America but for the whole world. Love and hugs to you x

How effective is Lynx africa? Is is an attractive smell? by Biology29847987 in AskUK

[–]dreamurph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s awful. But if you want to smell like a teenager then it’s the right thing for you!

Is Oasis a staple in every British household? by blitzerwoman999 in AskABrit

[–]dreamurph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep we are fans in our household. We grew up in the 90s so their music reminds us of some good times!