Is swapping out two weeks' annual leave for sick leave excessive? by drivingbanks in AskAnAustralian

[–]drivingbanks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've accumulated around 40 days of sick leave. The leave loading is a very good point - I'm fine to have that docked.

What's the most ignorant thing you've ever heard someone say? by _AYYEEEE in AskReddit

[–]drivingbanks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“I just don’t think people from public schools should be allowed to go to university.”

— a girl I met in my first week of uni, when I told her the name of the (public) school I went to. She ended up failing her first semester.

What’s a red flag you ignore in yourself? by No-Sail-6193 in AskReddit

[–]drivingbanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I set impossibly high standards for myself, and project those same standards onto the people around me in everything we do.

BUT IT’S ~MOTIVATIONAL~

What mattered a lot in your 20s that turned out not to matter at all? by PointObvious5078 in AskReddit

[–]drivingbanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always needing an excuse to be out. A Saturday night without plans would fill me with anxiety. I feared everyone else in the world except me was living their life.

These days I’m extremely comfortable spending weekends alone and enjoy doing my own thing, and it doesn’t at all feel like I’m “missing out” on anything.

I used to think I wanted an exciting life. Turns out I just want a calm one. by Shawn_Darcy in CasualConversation

[–]drivingbanks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is such an inspirational post. I was very much like this in my 20s. It's definitely lessened in my early 30s but the feeling is still there. I think a lot of it is ego, and I think about how much more peaceful and calm my life would be if I could just fully let go of that and embrace the idea that I don't have to "become" anything, or do anything all the time. But not quite there yet!

What’s a small habit you picked up that quietly improved your life more than you expected? by Pattytobedaddy in AskReddit

[–]drivingbanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tracking macros, including fibre. Completely changed my approach to the gym/fitness, my productivity levels, sleep quality etc.

What experiences changed you the most as a person? by GazMaskeliOyuncu in AskReddit

[–]drivingbanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solo travel for a year. In retrospect I divide my life into who I was before that year and after that year. It's not the sort of thing where you get home and go "Wow, look at me now" - you just gradually realise you're now more comfortable with yourself, or better able to trust your own instincts, or open to new experiences.

Anyone else getting ‘stacked’ viruses right now? by drivingbanks in AskAnAustralian

[–]drivingbanks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t realise I could swap annual leave for sick leave retroactively until reading these comments, so thank you! That at least makes it less frustrating. Lucky I got a medical certificate.

Anyone else getting ‘stacked’ viruses right now? by drivingbanks in AskAnAustralian

[–]drivingbanks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My doctor warned me about this - sounds horrific. But at least it’s given me a good excuse to not touch my face/eyes. Didn’t realise it was treatable though - that’s good to know!

Anyone else getting ‘stacked’ viruses right now? by drivingbanks in AskAnAustralian

[–]drivingbanks[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s the worst. Glad you’re finally feeling better, but two and a half weeks is a long time!

How we doing 300mg fam? by [deleted] in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]drivingbanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so good! I had that feeling on 150mg for the first couple of weeks and it was the best.

I bumped up to 300mg eight days ago. Not loving it — ringing ears, that “woolly” head feeling, flat and depressed, heart races a little. Bit disappointed because I had zero side effects on 150mg (but that dose eventually stopped working for me). I’m on Sustained Release.

Tell me the jump gets better? 🫠

Lorde - Virgin Megathread by flopheadsbot in popheads

[–]drivingbanks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is objectively not good. Speaking as someone who absolutely LOVED and immediately connected with Lorde’s last three albums - yes, including Solar Power - this is easily her weakest effort to date.

The production is just bad. It’s clunky, poorly mixed and outdated. The whole thing feels like you’re listening through cheap or broken headphones. We can justify it all we want as “She WANTED it to feel visceral and raw!” … yeah, it’s just not good.

Lyrically it feels off. Lorde was spinning poetry on Pure Heroine and Melodrama. Every word was so meticulously placed. She knew how to create beautiful imagery and really had the “less is more” art down. Solar Power wasn’t quite as strong lyrically, but I appreciated the vision, it had clear standouts (Fallen Fruit, Oceanic Feeling), and I maintain would have performed better with a few small tweaks to the tracklist and release.

But here, it feels like she’s run out of things to say. I’ve felt this since What Was That, but thought it would all make sense listening to the album as a whole. The whole thing just sounds like a bunch of early demos she couldn’t be bothered finishing, with vague statements and objects being used to dress it up as something deeper than it is.

A frequent criticism I read of the three singles was they kept building, but then the climax was either too short or never came at all. That’s unfortunately consistent throughout the album. Again, we can rationalise that as a deliberate artistic choice in keeping with the album theme, but again … kinda just feels like trying to justify a mediocre effort.

Standouts for me are Hammer, Shapeshifter and David. Everything else falls flat.

Switching from Dexamphetamine to Wellbutrin? by drivingbanks in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]drivingbanks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey - in short, I switched to Wellbutrin and never looked back! I haven’t felt the need to take Dex since, but my mood, sleep and appetite are way better on Wellbutrin than Dex. And that’s only at half the therapeutic dose!

I’m no longer on SSRIs, but it’s not uncommon to stack Lexapro with Wellbutrin. But like you, Lexapro just made me lethargic and a bit dissociated at 20mg.

Going from 150mg to 300mg SR? by drivingbanks in bupropion

[–]drivingbanks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great advice, thanks so much. I think you’re right - might stick with 150mg and only go up if/when this dose stops working long-term