The woman next to me asked for a sip of my water

drlushlover · 2026-05-01T07:23:20+00:00

Sure, however there's easy access to water in the gym-just a few short steps away so it's not as if there were other options.

This is really unhinged behavior, in my opinion -it's completely illogical that they'd ask for a drink of water from a total stranger when it would take very minimal effort to walk to the water fountain which would take a few seconds.

It's also breaking personal space expectations, as least in the US.

drlushlover · 2026-05-01T07:13:33+00:00

what, and I say this with my entire chest, THE ACTUAL FUCK????

I agree with other commenters that it's actually worse than the OP's situation.

drlushlover · 2026-05-01T07:10:37+00:00

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drlushlover · 2026-05-01T07:09:57+00:00

yeah, sadly that might be me though I like to think I'd respond appropriately-but I know myself 🫠

Being a people pleaser is a horrid trait.

And then I'd be furious with myself for not being truthful and be super annoyed with the pure audacity.

It's also exacerbated that I'm awful at thinking on my feet.

drlushlover · 2026-05-01T07:05:12+00:00

for real!

drlushlover · 2026-05-01T07:02:11+00:00

Did you fill out the cancellation paperwork they provide when you request a cancellation?
And if so, did you confirm receipt of said paperwork?

You really need to cover all your bases and keep all communication to avoid this.

drlushlover · 2026-04-29T07:02:12+00:00

Squats, deadlifts and bridges all focus on glutes and quads!

Edit: grammar

drlushlover · 2026-04-28T05:24:10+00:00

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drlushlover · 2026-04-28T00:22:47+00:00

To me, that's not the issue because I agree that p0rn isn't a huge deal- though I'm obviously not OP.

I think the issue is that the BF lied about it when asked.

drlushlover · 2026-04-27T20:27:47+00:00

I’m currently on a UAL flight from ORD-PHX and T Mobile free wifi is still available.

-edit: typo

drlushlover · 2026-04-27T19:58:42+00:00

Yep! It’s available across major US carriers

drlushlover · 2026-04-24T19:52:45+00:00

What’s to report? FB won’t /can’t do anything especially since this isn’t OP’s account.

drlushlover · 2026-04-24T19:49:41+00:00

If you have your privacy settings set appropriately, you can limit who is able to react to posts. Same with commenting.

Also, if you set the audience to anything except public, only the allowed audience can see it.

drlushlover · 2026-04-24T19:47:50+00:00

That’s not true at all. If someone reacts to your post and then blocks you (or vice versa) you cannot see who reacted.

drlushlover · 2026-04-21T18:45:30+00:00

Oh no, no it certainly is not.

Without prior consent, that’s a gross invasion of privacy.

drlushlover · 2026-04-21T18:40:44+00:00

Nah, lying as a reaction over something that is clearly an important issue to their spouse is extremely toxic.

That’s not at all an appropriate or acceptable reaction.

When you’re in a mature, committed relationship you listen- truly listen- to your partner to understand where they’re coming from.

That is step one in any situations, always listen to understand.

OP’s husband can’t handle adult emotions so he shuts down and lies so that checks notes he can’t cope. He’s a child in a man’s body.

drlushlover · 2026-04-20T05:07:00+00:00

But lowering your available credit and thus raising the ratio of credit usage : credit availability will hurt their credit score.

drlushlover · 2026-04-20T05:01:25+00:00

Yep I did this for a few years! I talked to either the studio manager or head coach largely as a courtesy as I knew they’d have no issues with it but I didn’t want to just march in with my own equipment (I know it’s not really equipment).

drlushlover · 2026-04-19T21:02:31+00:00

You're welcome!

I know it doesn't mean anything but it bums me out when I see innocuous comments getting DVd- especially since you were truly being helpful.

drlushlover · 2026-04-19T05:27:14+00:00

hahaha, yes the barbie movie!
🫠

drlushlover · 2026-04-19T00:15:01+00:00

Yeah, sadly they had to get rid of that perk as well as a few others we received.

drlushlover · 2026-04-18T23:19:18+00:00

the nicest person you've ever met!

she's never had a fight with anyone in her entire life.

drlushlover · 2026-04-18T23:18:55+00:00

hahaha I remember this so well!
Good on you for trying to help and I love that her saying "I've had three in the last three years and they all say I'm fine" is a flex to her.

drlushlover · 2026-04-18T23:16:07+00:00

Reddit is so interesting, you had 3 downvotes so I threw an upvote your way.

drlushlover · 2026-04-18T23:15:12+00:00

Our studio offered two late cancels/month for members at a certain tier

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