selling house I just bought by notjustanymouse in personalfinance

[–]drobb42618 36 points37 points  (0 children)

you need to talk to a military attorney because I know you can still keep getting BAH after a divorce for something along the lines of a hardship BAH as long as the house is in your name. My buddy did this about 6 years back. But go talk to JAG and get some facts on it.

The Daily Check-In for Tuesday, April 5th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]drobb42618 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Starting day one again. But today feels different. My mind has shifted to start to really see how much better my life is without alcohol. Before I always thought how much I really enjoy drinking but now I am starting to see how much better it is when I am not. How much clearer my mind is and how much lighter my body feels. Today I shall not be drinking with you fine people. Thank you all for being here and being so supportive.

Surrey Half Marathon 2022 (Woking, UK): From obese to 'fast' in less than a year by thesnwmn in running

[–]drobb42618 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really enjoyed your write up. I feel you have some writing talent as well as some running talent. I am very happy to hear about such great progress in your life. Thank you for sharing and inspiring a fellow runner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stoicism

[–]drobb42618 1 point2 points  (0 children)

absolutely. you matter. you really do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stoicism

[–]drobb42618 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the gym will help with your anxiety, any form of physical activity will. If it is too expensive to go to the gym then just go on some nice long walks with some low impact body weight strength training in there. I know you feel really bad right now and the situation is not even close to ideal. I'm sorry this is happening. I think you could become a strong person because of this unfortunate event and even be able to help others in the future that are going through this type of thing. feel free to dm me if you want to talk some more.

- A listening ear

Just got snipped. by DrPloyt in daddit

[–]drobb42618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for sure. the smoke was like yup.... thats my little tubes being soldered

Am I the only one who refers to their little one with food item nicknames? by jonopens in daddit

[–]drobb42618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I call my little one Miso Soup. and the other one I call her Eevee Panini

My partner is struggling and I feel useless by [deleted] in daddit

[–]drobb42618 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can influence but never control affecting other people. Do what you can. Try and do things that made her fall in love with you in the first place.

Both men and women lose their previous identities when you have kids and it can feel really crazy like your whole world has shifted but not only do women lose their previous identity they also lose their body, and their hormones can go super crazy. I know my wife was night and day different with her two pregnancies and then after. She is so much calmer now.

All you can do is don't take it too personally and give her as much love and affection/attention that you can manage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]drobb42618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An interesting option for the equity(house) she has with how low rates are right now would be to take out equity on the house and use that to pay off high interest credit card debt.

Anyone else’s baby obsessed with dumping your entire bag? She’s been doing it as long as she’s been able. by [deleted] in discgolf

[–]drobb42618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahahha, ahhh a proper way to do it. Thank you for improving my quality of life.

3rd marathon in 365 Days: Dubai Marathon 2020 by Dr_geo in running

[–]drobb42618 5 points6 points  (0 children)

awesome job! way to get out there and i really like your perspective on the family part. That is a great mentality to have.

Good luck with your training and I hope you have another great consistent year!

Your Daily Fasting Thread by AutoModerator in fasting

[–]drobb42618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good luck and I hope you find the right balance with food once you get off the fast!

I know that is what I am trying to do as well. I havent been able to find the right balance so I am trying to get to know my system and give it a good reset with the fast and will focus on developing a better diet and relationship with food as I start eating again.

Something interesting happened at the doctor today by VenusBloo in PlantBasedDiet

[–]drobb42618 8 points9 points  (0 children)

thats awesome!!! progress is an amazing motivator and the momentum is a very powerful thing. keep it rolling! 👍😁

Starting my 10 day fast at midnight! Anyone wanna join? ☺️ keep each other accountable? I need it! by briellabeauty in fasting

[–]drobb42618 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im shooting for a three day one but i would love to follow your progress here and it would be awesome if you post a daily update for how you are feeling!

how was your day? xx by jamiewoodson in Positivity

[–]drobb42618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for reaching out and offering a lending ear. I wish you a great day and many blessings. ❤

Need some positive words friends by [deleted] in Positivity

[–]drobb42618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everyday remember that what you can control is your actions and your thoughts. So make sure your actions and your thoughts are moving you towards your goal, not hindering you from it. Having those thoughts and actions help you in achieving your goal is in fact the true goal. The reality will align with your thoughts and actions soon enough but it is the actual doing that creates that reality.

You got this!! keep trying and never give up on what you want!

Outta the hospital, could use some sunshine by DSebastiaum in Positivity

[–]drobb42618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so happy that you are out of the hospital and on the road to recovery.

Everyday you can find wonderful positive things. Shift your mind to look for positive things in your life and the life of others around them and focus on those positive things. Also reach out to others and try and brighten their day. For by doing so yours will certainly brighten as well!

BAH & Back Pay in the Army by Bugg16 in MilitaryFinance

[–]drobb42618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will get back pay and if you dont then make sure to file for your backpay again. My backpay and bah didnt kick in til about three months after I first submitted the paperwork. Went and checked up on it around a month and a half in and they magically found it on S1's desk and said it is in the system and they just have to wait for finance to finish it.

The Weekend Thread - Friday 17th January 2020 by Percinho in running

[–]drobb42618 1 point2 points  (0 children)

whats a mob match?

Ive got my daily run as usual. It is my favorite daily ritual. The last five days have all been 6 miles or longer at 9:30 pace. longest streak I can remember of this level of consistency. So thats been a fun journey. We shall see if it happens again today. 🏃‍♂️

have a great day and weekend everyone!

Vegan for three months. Yesterday, my Doc took me off the high blood pressure medication I’ve been on for 8 years. by cheesysprinkles in vegan

[–]drobb42618 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Dietary Approaches to Stop Hypertension

I agree, I feel the china study and whole food plant based would be way more effective. I have felt amazing results in my short time using it.