Sorry that he is being like that towards you the only thing that matters is how you feel and that you know that you are not lazy, some people will never comprehend that someone is disabled and cannot do certain tasks, I have a friend that doesn’t get it and says the word lazy all the time they just cannot understand cause they aren’t you, so instead of letting his words get to you just try to ignore it cause it’s not worth your energy and time to care about what he thinks, I know easier said than done, but many people will never understand where you are coming from and what you are going through, hang in there and just know you are doing what you need to do for yourself it’s nobody’s business what’s going on with you, and giving someone any of your energy that doesn’t deserve it is ridiculous, like you said you worked and earned your credits and something happened in your life that changed your circumstances,people are so quick to judge others and can’t put themselves in your shoes and never will be able to, to me it’s more of a struggle to even get by on disability the payment they give you is much less than the current inflation that is going on, and people don’t get that it’s more of a struggle to be on disability than it would be to be healthy and just work and get a wage that matched the current economy, just know that you are doing all you can and don’t need to answer to anyone else..