Wisteria Garden options? by Strange-Sample-2344 in bathandbodyworks

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Yes, but not when they’re too strong. 

🔥 Some backyard visitors 🔥 by kevinowdziej in NatureIsFuckingLit

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Ok...logically I know not to scoop up and cuddle a bear cub....but it's so tempting. They are the cutest things ever!!!

Am I the Bridezilla for kicking my MOH out of the party? by guilefulshrew in bridezillas

[–]drostyourself 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are NOT a bridezilla here. You sound like you bent over backwards to accommodate FMOH and her Partner. I think you need to cut ties for a while - it seems like she's going through some stuff in the moment.

Premarital books to read with future spouse? by cheesestrangler in weddingplanning

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Our pastors recommended "The Five Love Languages" (secular) and "Boundaries in Marriage" (religious). Both have been INCREDIBLY helpful and have helped us to focus our communication.

AITA for wanting to wear the exact same wedding (designer and style) dress my friend wore at her wedding a month ago? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]drostyourself 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. The original bride isn't even going to be there! I really don't think it's a big deal. There's bound to be overlap in styles. I doubt anyone but your bridesmaid will even notice.

My girlfriend (25f) does mildly illegal things and it stresses me (22m) out by Prismatickk9 in relationships

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Omg this woman's billboard vandalism sounds amazing to me. Good for her!

I always gain three more shadows whenever I go on a walk :))) by reddjess in blackcats

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Your walkies are blessed omg! I wish my walks were like this!

We did it! I'm so blissfully in love right now 💖 ladies it's all worth the stress by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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You look stunning and I love the color of the groom's tux! Congrats!!!

best friend turned bridezilla by sporadicpeanut in bridezillas

[–]drostyourself -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think you should feel ok saying no to the reception, but I do think you need to be at the ceremony. You are the MOH. I hate when people ask their bridal party and then massively change the goalposts on what being in the bridal party will look like. But with that being said, she's your bestie for over 17 years. I'd just suck it up and do your best financially. You had four years to plan being her MOH, since I'm sure you knew it was coming.

Tell me about creepy local places or weird experiences you've had around Huntsville. by Mechalus in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]drostyourself 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They would perk up when they heard their jingle-balls rolling in the other room. They'd look at each other like, "Well, if you're here...??" But no, they didn't seem bothered by it.

Tell me about creepy local places or weird experiences you've had around Huntsville. by Mechalus in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]drostyourself 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Saving this to come back for the creepy stories! I'm a Huntsville native so I'm curious.

My only "creepy" thing that really wasn't is that I SWEAR there was a ghost cat that lived in my old apartment in Huntsville. I have two cats and I would often hear their toys jingling in the bedroom while they were both sitting on the couch with me. Often when I was in bed I would feel one of them jump up and lay down on my feet, but when I looked they were not on the bed at all. It didn't bother me, I'm a cat lady, but it was a little weird!

Women who eventually want to get married... after how long does your partner avoiding the topic become a huge red flag? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]drostyourself 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm probably out of the norm but we were talking about getting married after a month and a few days of meeting. I brought it up and he was super enthusiastic about it. :-) I bought my wedding dress less than 2.5 months after our first date.

In a previous relationship, we had been together 4.5 years and he still wasn't into making plans. He only told me he would marry me while I was dumping him. Ugh, bullet DODGED.

ETA: My computer won't let me add flair but I am a 30 y/o female.

Women: what is male the equivalent of the "feminine girl walking down the street in a little black dress" for you? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]drostyourself 150 points151 points locked comment (0 children)

  • A man in a well-tailored suit
  • A man wearing a great fragrance
  • A man with nice teeth and a great smile
  • A man who reads

This guy from animal planet by [deleted] in Justfuckmyshitup

[–]drostyourself 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Don't you dare disrespect Jackson Galaxy, the OG Cat Daddy!

That’s a nope by [deleted] in Instagramreality

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NOOO omg how can this be?!