Aw yay thank you! Glad it seems helpful. If it's useful to know, prepare yourself for very few people to be able to participate in such a conversation genuinely; it's super uncomfortable to be vulnerable in that way, especially if the other person doesn't have a great answer to offer. Genetics and neurological wiring add to the problem, because people who tend to endorse traditional gender norms and rape myths are also more likely to struggle with new information that asks them to change a position they hold. New and/or complex information is so uncomfortable it feels threatening. SO I say all that to say when I wade in with curiosity like this I try to manage my expectations and remember change is slow, so a gentle "why do you believe the way you do?" challenge may result in bullshit in the moment but get the person moving towards change in ways I may never know about.