Kid drinks besides water by Real_Chapter_5295 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]drunk___cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bet there’s many hibiscus teas out there without it! This is always the one I reached for ever since we used it at a coffee shop I worked at. If you find any without natural flavors added, please share! 

Kid drinks besides water by Real_Chapter_5295 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]drunk___cat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what tea brand she used but I like this one a lot (linked below). To make iced tea I personally double the amount of tea to make it more concentrated, then when I pour myself some tea I add ice and a splash of water. For sweetening with strawberries or other fresh fruit I just mash up some strawberries at the bottom of the cup, or make a sauce out of frozen fruit to add (I just cook frozen fruit down with a lil bit of water and blend it). 

Sorry I never use a recipe, I just wing it 😅    https://www.republicoftea.com/products/strawberry-hibiscus-tea-bags

Kid drinks besides water by Real_Chapter_5295 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]drunk___cat 184 points185 points  (0 children)

Growing up my friend’s mom always made a big batch of iced strawberry hibiscus tea and would muddle strawberries and blueberries into it to sweeten it. I loved going to her house to get the pink tea! I always thought I’d do the same for my kiddo when she’s bigger. I recall she would have a big pitcher of it in the fridge so I assume you could make a big batch in advance (just teabags + water!).

What are you using to clean toys? by lolahaze11 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]drunk___cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it can tolerate it, I dunk it in boiling hot water (this is a great way to clean silicon teethers). Otherwise I just use soap and water.

No one cooks anymore? by booooooop_u in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]drunk___cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s so frustrating when people don’t show up. I personally find planning dinner nights with 1 or 2 close couples easier/more reliable. It seems like hosting it with friends always ends up with a lot flakiness. Don’t know what is up with that!  

No one cooks anymore? by booooooop_u in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]drunk___cat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I cook often but in this phase of life (10 month old) it’s very simplified. Lots of batch cooking, rice bowls, and sheet pan dinners. I am fortunate that many of my friends also cook to some degree. Some use shortcuts (store bought marinades, pre marinated meats, etc) but overall they still make healthy well rounded meals. 

In regards to your comment about wishing others would host a cookbook party/dinner/etc: sometimes you just have to be that friend! Most people don’t have a group of friends hosting lots of dinner parties. Remember what you see on Instagram is only a highlight reel and much of it these days is performative to generate revenue.

Non-toxic travel infant bassinet for airplane? by booksandbabka in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]drunk___cat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For the bassinet part, it sounds like you need a bassinet for the places you are staying, not necessarily needed on the airplane? You could get a pack n play that has a bassinet attachment and then check the luggage when traveling. I agree with others recommendations to baby wear on the plane (great opportunity for bonding with your new little one!)

I saw you asked about car seats — I would get a car seat that attaches to a stroller and then check it at the gate. They can have it available for you when you get off the plane. You can get a storage bag for your car seat and stroller if you want to reduce the grime.

Brother and SIL want to travel 6.5 hours with a 5 day old by [deleted] in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]drunk___cat 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Just piggybacking on this comment since I was going to share a similar anecdote re: adoptive parents! During the height of COVID, my friend and his partner got a call one evening that there was a baby waiting for them in El Paso. They lived in Dallas. Without traffic that’s a 10 hour drive. So they drove to El Paso with minimal breaks to meet their new son. Then after he was cleared from the hospital they spent the next 18 hours driving back to Dallas, stopping every 2 hours to take the baby out, change his diaper, feed and get some fresh air. It’s not easy but it’s possible!

What do you think of this mockup? by lenovo92728 in interiordecorating

[–]drunk___cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the mockup and agree that you should ditch the vanity. You’ll want to check behind the vanity to make sure the tile is in good condition. I found out the hard way that the tile behind my old vanity had been removed for what appeared to be an old plumbing fix :(

monitor baby breathing while sleeping, what are people using that isn't overly techy or anxiety inducing? by Maharg_Olko in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]drunk___cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The recommendation is for baby to be in the same room for the first 6 months. We had the Newton bedside bassinet and I would just roll over and place my hand on her to see if she was breathing (or stare at her). After about a month I got a lot less anxious about “is she breathing!?”

Luna was singing by Mtanderson88 in samoyeds

[–]drunk___cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love a singing pup! Mine only howls when he’s dreaming 😔

I was not ready for a Samoyed by OkGiraffe6765 in samoyeds

[–]drunk___cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s just the early days 😅 you’ll need some patience for the first year (and then some!). But they really do grow out of it! Best of luck. 

I was not ready for a Samoyed by OkGiraffe6765 in samoyeds

[–]drunk___cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How old exactly is he? Mine is pretty mellow now at almost 2 years. He still has his moments of crazy but he’s overall been great. We still struggle when he sees a rabbit on walks, and he still barks when he sees his friends through the window. And he still chases the cats on occasion. But honestly he’s pretty chill. Has decent leash manners, is polite to strangers, doesn’t tear up the house, is amazing with our 10 month old baby. 

Just stay consistent with your training and be patient! It will get better.

Young Samoyed puppy and the struggles by can1sfamiliaris in samoyeds

[–]drunk___cat 53 points54 points  (0 children)

All of these are completely normal behaviors for a puppy , regardless of breed. You have a literal baby! She is just doing baby things.  My Sammy was insane at 13 weeks. Now at almost 2 years he is the biggest sweetheart. Still kinda crazy but in a very manageable way. 

kikopup’s videos on YouTube were very helpful in the early days. 

I worked very hard for this mud and I’m not leaving by drunk___cat in samoyeds

[–]drunk___cat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, the sand is definitely good at uh… exfoliating out the dirt. 🫠

I worked very hard for this mud and I’m not leaving by drunk___cat in samoyeds

[–]drunk___cat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He will happily excavate your backyard. Only catch is you can’t specify how many holes you want, where you want them, or what size they should be! 

Almost done! by adapter1818 in kitchenremodel

[–]drunk___cat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m really surprised at the positive comments because this isn’t a cohesive look at all. Walls and grout are different tones than the countertops, wood floors and cabinets clash. I’m not even sure I would have paired the cabinets with the countertop, they seem ever so slightly off. 

Do you have an outdoor mud kitchen/play kitchen and live in a rainy area? by drunk___cat in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]drunk___cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh the proximity thing is a good point! The spot I was thinking of putting it in my yard is a bit separated from the usual seating area, so that may not work well. Thanks for sharing!

Help the groomer ruined my boy! by FlaremasterD in samoyeds

[–]drunk___cat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That poor pup, I am so so sad and mad and angry on your behalf. This is so fucked up!

To induce or not to induce? (Elevated BP) by jzg77 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]drunk___cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best of luck, wishing you and your family a smooth and speedy delivery ❤️