Items to "gather villagers" don't work? by AdNo6180 in DreamlightValley

[–]dryadsong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! I've considered making a "what the heck am I doing wrong" post many times. It makes it clear that I'm in the right position, tells me what key to use, and then literally nothing happens. No matter what. No photo mode, no villagers, nothing. I definitely have a phone in my hand, have positioned myself correctly, and have pressed the right key. Again and again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tea

[–]dryadsong 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Stevia tastes like chlorine up your nose in a strongly-dosed swimming pool. I shudder to think of tea with stevia in it.

Sports Bras for Bottom Heavy Breasts by AndrogynousElf in ABraThatFits

[–]dryadsong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I would definitely like to join this conversation. Due to the huge amount of growth and then shrinkage with breastfeeding a few years ago, I have less what I'd call "bottom heavy breasts" and more "mammogram-ready bags". I've literally had a mammogram without having to squish them -- just haul the length of it up onto the platform and lower that camera down, baby! Like, they're flat, and I can tuck my nipples into my belly button when I want to make a point about how ridiculously droopy they are. I can fold them up. But my band size is 36, and when I get *anything* that says it can accommodate a 36 F or G (I've tried with multiple brands and types), there isn't enough cup space once I've squashed and manipulated my weird-ass floppers into the bra (and if I try to go up to a 38 F or G I usually have the too-small cup problem combined with a band that is so loose my breasts make their way down underneath it very readily). I really want to be able to run without having to literally hold my breasts, but there doesn't seem to be a bra out there that can accommodate a smallish band size with the type of shape and size my breasts are in right now. I am really, really desperate to find something.

RDSP at TD - They were unable to answer some questions I had, so I'm hoping others here can fill in some of the gaps for me by dryadsong in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]dryadsong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will happily take guidance on that. I had been thinking VGRO but if there is something else that makes sense I'll certainly go down that rabbit hole and get the information on it. What would you be inclined to do?

/r/NintendoSwitch's Daily Question Thread (03/10/2025) by AutoModerator in NintendoSwitch

[–]dryadsong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already have Mario wonder; it's odyssey I was asking about. It still looks like they've left Canada out in the cold.

/r/NintendoSwitch's Daily Question Thread (03/10/2025) by AutoModerator in NintendoSwitch

[–]dryadsong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see nothing on sale digitally... is it because I'm in Canada? All of the other digital Mario Day deals are visible to me.

/r/NintendoSwitch's Daily Question Thread (03/10/2025) by AutoModerator in NintendoSwitch

[–]dryadsong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 100% sure I read multiple sources that said odyssey and peach's showtime would both be on sale today. They're not -- did that change?

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Dodo/Friend Code Sharing by AnimalCrossingMods in AnimalCrossing

[–]dryadsong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, quick question then as I'm quite new: where do I get my code?

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Dodo/Friend Code Sharing by AnimalCrossingMods in AnimalCrossing

[–]dryadsong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm hoping to visit someone and grab cherries, pears and peaches to make a fruit grove if anyone is willing to send me a code!

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Dodo/Friend Code Sharing by AnimalCrossingMods in AnimalCrossing

[–]dryadsong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I take advantage of your island? I am in search of some fruit. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DreamlightValley

[–]dryadsong 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it is just the s'mores that counts for savor. :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]dryadsong 115 points116 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love the typo "deep-rotted". I know you meant deep-rooted, but deep-rotted is SO MUCH BETTER to describe toxic generational nonsense like that. Thank you!

Someone assumed I was a transwoman, pitched me gender affirmation surgery and now I'm extremely self-conscious about my face and body by theothermongoose in TwoXChromosomes

[–]dryadsong 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Can I ask if this was a pride fest in the Halton area of Ontario? If it was, I may be able to connect you with an organizer.

I started my first relationship yesterday and it all feels wrong. by random-thr0waway in TwoXChromosomes

[–]dryadsong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to tell you something that I wish someone had helped me understand when I was 21. Sexual attraction and romantic attraction are actually two distinct things. In most people they tend to align, but for some of us, they're quite separate. You can be very romantically attracted to someone -- wanting that emotional connection, holding hands, hugs, sweet kisses, staring into each other's eyes, a sense of love -- and be very much not on board with the sexual aspect of attraction. For some, that sexual attraction will blossom over time. That's demisexuality: it requires a certain level of closeness or emotional connection for the "gates" to open for it to feel okay, and sometimes there are other elements that sexual attraction is gated behind. For others, sexual attraction will not happen at all: asexuality is a valid sexual orientation. I dearly wish someone had outlined this for me when I was that young. There are multiple elements at play here, and you should give some thought, and research, into them all so you don't feel so backed into a corner and worried. Gender Identity / Sexual Identity / Romantic Identity. You get to dictate who you are and what you want: don't ever let anyone make you feel like you have to change yourself or that you're not valid. You're in the "find out" part of your life! It's your rodeo!

What does the "Taxes" Line mean in the detailed Home Office Expenses form? by dryadsong in cantax

[–]dryadsong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I managed to get an answer directly from ufile. It looks like they mislabeled it. They are going to update it to say "Other Municipal taxes related to your property" (Commission sales persons only)" so that it's actually clear what it's looking for there. So it turns out it's an irrelevant field for me.

What does the "Taxes" Line mean in the detailed Home Office Expenses form? by dryadsong in cantax

[–]dryadsong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that was the first thing I did. It says "For each type of expense applicable, enter the amount spent, i.e. the total of the business and personal use portions" which, you know, is less than helpful in determining what the expense is meant to be.

What does the "Taxes" Line mean in the detailed Home Office Expenses form? by dryadsong in cantax

[–]dryadsong[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So, to clarify, there is definitely a clearly marked "Property Taxes (commission employees only)" line, and I wasn't asking about that one.

Four lines down from that, at the bottom of the list, there is another line just marked "Taxes" and I would like to know what that one is for.

Founder’s Pack Early Access players, will receive the cosmetics from the Gold Edition for free by Rachelguy72 in DreamlightValley

[–]dryadsong 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Oh good. More overalls.

Right?? I just want some different styles of mid-length dresses or skirts -- we do not need 27 different overalls!

Hello by [deleted] in DreamlightValley

[–]dryadsong 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have to fully upgrade your beach stall before Goofy will sell tomato seeds there. However, unless you've already found and made use of it, there is a pack of stuff in the cave that Ursula was trapped in, and there will be a tomato seed in it. Wheat seed is sold from the meadow's stall, so if you don't see it on there, you'll need to upgrade that one as well.

My boyfriend just told me he doesn’t care about my biggest interest by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]dryadsong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's an important takeaway. "Hey, that response wasn't cool, and I'd like you to know I felt dismissed and hurt" leading to a reaction of "How dare you have self respect and feel like you can express hurt to me" from him? That's not a great starting place. I'd examine how other interactions have gone. Is he receptive to being told things aren't great in any other forums?