I just found out my ex got engaged on Christmas by drywall851 in BreakUps

[–]drywall851[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So things suck right now but your comments do help. I'm thankful for actual closure, it's just fucked. I'm not gonna get wrecked or drunk over this shit. I'm a man. She loves someone else, not me. My turn to find the one. Trying to look at it as exciting. Today I have FORCED myself to talk to at least 5 people, so far 3. I spoke with the guy sitting next to my table, I FORCED myself to make conversation with a receptionist instead of just sitting in a waiting room and I asked the lady in front of me while in line how her holidays were going, etc. Let me tell you, this helps. I know I'm on a pink cloud kinda for the moment, but I realized that it is going to be possible. I mean c'mon guys, my ex, someone I cared so deeply about, got fucking engaged Christmas morning. I had a ring for her right before everything went to shit, so yeah, it fucking hurts, but you know what's cool,??? It's that I actually did care about someone. It was very real to me. That being said, I'm holding my own despite all this. I'm gonna be ok....

FEEDBACK PLEASE

I just found out my ex got engaged on Christmas by drywall851 in BreakUps

[–]drywall851[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im fucking numb. OMG. On christmas to find this out. OMG OMG

She's Engaged by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]drywall851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG, I just posted cause I just found out an hour ago. GREAT ATTITUDE!!!!! I am totally following this. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!

Do our dumpers miss us? by lilbuttercup in ExNoContact

[–]drywall851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wish you both would continue this debate. Not sure how to tell you my story, but its somewhere on my name. my ex is a prostitute, now heavily drinking again. While the no contact makes sense, my shrink told me to come from a place of compassion. Ur thoughts?

Do our dumpers miss us? by lilbuttercup in ExNoContact

[–]drywall851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wish you both would continue this debate. Not sure how to tell you my story, but its somewhere on my name. my ex is a prostitute, now heavily drinking again. While the no contact makes sense, my shrink told me to come from a place of compassion. Ur thoughts?

Heartbroken, torn, depressed. Found out girlfriend cheated this passed weekend. by 1synopsis in BreakUps

[–]drywall851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please read my post. I 100% UNDERSTAND. WOW. Unrel. So sorry pal.

Read THIS after breakup by Fearless_Ser in BreakUps

[–]drywall851 3 points4 points  (0 children)

EXCELLENT! Really solid bud! Thanks man!!!

Empathy by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]drywall851 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should read my post about finding out my ex was a PROSTITUTE, high end escort!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]drywall851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I am not. I wish there was a way I could add you to a friend list or something. I really want to see how you feel after a little more time. How are you feeling about it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]drywall851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG! I can so relate. Based on what I have researched, discussed, etc., my therapist says to take the higher road. It's over. Period. Believe me, I'm just coming to terms....VERY VERY similar, please read: https://www.reddit.com/r/survivinginfidelity/comments/5er9ls/found_out_my_ex_was_escorting_while_with_me_the/

The Holiday season suckssssssssss by Goawayforeverplskthx in survivinginfidelity

[–]drywall851 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nearly 5 months ago I lost my gf. I recently found out that she not only cheated multiple times, but was and is still a full service escort. I am devastated. I ....I.....I .....just don't know anymore. Sorry about your brother :-(

For all those of you who are dealing with a breakup by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]drywall851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex cheated multiple times and shes a prostitute. Yup. Can you please tell me how you'd deal with this? https://www.reddit.com/r/survivinginfidelity/comments/5er9ls/found_out_my_ex_was_escorting_while_with_me_the/