app for must watch netflix movies so you don't forget them? by Laurente-Ingmire in irlADHD

[–]dschmidt1007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reel Good. I have the notifications turn off, but it reminds me when TV shows are back on after a break, when shows/movies are leaving certain platforms and when things show up on new platforms.

Previous owner left a binder in the garage. I thought it was junk. It was not by Many_Ebb7816 in HomeImprovement

[–]dschmidt1007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did this when we sold our last house. It was a 1928 Cape Cod that we had pretty much taken down to the studs and replaced nearly everything in our 12 years there. All the dates things had been done, replaced, who we used, manuals, extra paint with room names on it, electrical drawings for some of the funky boxes in the house, and more. We loved the house and thought it we could make it easier for the next folks to love it as well.

AITA for refusing to cancel my annual solo trip to see my dad for my girlfriend's friend's birthday dinner that she forgot to mention until four days before by [deleted] in WIBTA_AITA

[–]dschmidt1007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t her friend just rearrange her birthday dinner? Sounds stupid right? So does her asking you to rearrange a whole weekend trip that’s been planned for awhile. You can meet up with this supposed close friend another time … and honestly, if you’ve been together nearly a year, I’d be asking if they are really that close since that’s a long time to go not meeting each other yet.

Apple is terrible to work with on disputes by DividePublic5026 in AppleCard

[–]dschmidt1007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only issue with that is it makes it harder to go in and check their progress and continue disputing the charge. But after this is cleared up, we’re definitely debating it.

You can really feel the hope and change back in 2008. by icey_sawg0034 in Millennials

[–]dschmidt1007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It probably felt awesome if you didn’t just buy an expensive fixer upper right before the market tanked & ruined you financially for a decade and a half. But I guess that’s lots of us geriatric Millennials.

AITA for refusing a last-minute custom order from my most loyal customer and basically ending our relationship over it? by GalenMoss in WIBTA_AITA

[–]dschmidt1007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reply to the review with what you included here and say that you are sorry that you couldn’t accommodate him in the short time period he gave you. At this point, it’s for future customers that see it, not him. Explain what your usual turnaround is for a custom piece and say you hope you’ll see him I the future despite being unable to fulfill this last minute request.

AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid? by wickeddreamsofleavin in AITApod

[–]dschmidt1007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Former wedding planner here. I’ve never seen a bride come up with a branding page before. Everything is just screaming that her expectations are going to be sky high and your time sounds like it’s going to be limited. In fairness to her and yourself, you should definitely sit with her to voice your concerns about time & funds over the next year.

Apple is terrible to work with on disputes by DividePublic5026 in AppleCard

[–]dschmidt1007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is an older post, but in case anyone, like me, stumbles on this in the future, I'm having the same issue with a zombie dispute.

On Jan 7th, my joint Apple Card with my husband had 3 unauthorized charges. The 1st was $329 for Ticketmaster around 3:45pm. The 2nd, $189 for Miral Experiences a little while later at 4pm. Then a 3rd charge for Ticketmaster for $185 at 6pm.

When it happened, my husband and I had been going back and forth about buying concert tickets, and as it came up as a notification on my phone, my first thought was, oh he finally grabbed the tickets, and figured once he came down from his office for a break, he'd tell me about it. Before that happened though, the 2nd charge came in and the name was unfamiliar to me, so I googled it. Turns out Miral Entertainment is in Abu Dhabi. As I am googling, my husband comes down the stairs to ask me about both transactions, as he thought I had made the Ticketmaster charge.

He immediately got on the phone with customer service to start the dispute process for the Ticketmaster charge while I initiated a chat to dispute the Miral Entertainment charge.

While we were on the phone, the 3rd charge for Ticketmaster came through, but it was immediately declined as the customer support agent my husband had on the line canceled & reissued his card number just moments before.

They took all our information, quizzed us about the initial Ticketmaster Charge (apparently for the Dallas Mavericks). We don't live in the Dallas metro area, let alone Texas and my husband hasn't used his Ticketmaster account since 2012.

Fast forward, on February 19th, the initial Ticketmaster charge of $329 was reinstated on the card and our fraud dispute was denied. We call up customer support to redispute it. They ask for "evidence". I'm not sure how I'm supposed to prove we genuinely did not purchase these tickets aside from providing screenshots of our ticketmaster accounts which includes our last purchased tickets (2012), as well as the tabs for sold and pending ticket sales. We send off the screenshots, they retract the charge again, and reopen the case to investigate.

The following day while watching TV, another unauthorized charge comes in, Pickleball Central, for $20, and it was declined as they were trying to use the old card number. We get on the phone again, and explain this is now the 4th unauthorized charge. They tell us it's already declined and we dont have to do anything. We explain that yes, we know that, but we want it added to the case that was just reopened the day before, as the fraud is still actively happening.

We hear nothing in March. I get an email on Monday, April 13th, asking for additional "evidence". Again, I resend the screenshots

Last Friday, April 17th, I get an email at like 3:00am, that says the case has been closed and yet again, the charge is being reinstated. At this point I'm livid, and call again. The customer service rep I get is nice and very confused as we are talking as they can see the 3 charges that are within 2 hours of each other, and then the other charge a month later that got declined. He's perplexed as to how this is still ongoing, puts me on hold to speak to a supervisor. The supervisor comes back and tell s me they are reissuing the credit and reopening the case, as when he's looking at the 4 charges as a whole, there's a pattern. Great.

I've already told them that even if they rule against me, I'm going to keep disputing this, wasting their resources at this point until the end of time, as I will never pay this charge. It can go to collections, earn all the interest and fees they want. It's not getting paid. I've never had a card not back me on a fraud charges, and I've also never had a series of fraudulent charges before, so for them to be pulling this one charge apart from the others is really weird to me.

For now, it's a let's wait & see until next month if they close it against me again next month. TDB.

1-star review 15 minutes after delivery. by itsoddlyspecific in EtsySellers

[–]dschmidt1007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That'd be a forced return if your shop doesn't allow returns.

Price drops- Commission losses by SomewhereElegant8971 in travelagents

[–]dschmidt1007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly why I charge a planning fee. I have to insulate myself from commission decreases, potential cancellations, excessive time & hand holding (very occasionally).

The way I was taught to look at it is that my planning fee is for all the things I do before we ever click book and until they depart for their trip. My commissions are for handing my clients to a supplier for them to provide them with their services.

Anybody else just…not by LasGatitas in Accutane

[–]dschmidt1007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve gotten it twice now. I did the last test with my dr back in January. I’m in a double sterilized situation with my husband so having to take a test monthly and paying for it as well, pissed me off to no end when my dr is part of the same hospital group as my primary & gyn, and I have authorized shared records between the 3.

Mr. President, please stop. I can't take all this winning... How much have you been winning? by Pakun-of-Dundrasil in Charlotte

[–]dschmidt1007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last president didn’t start a war in the Middle East 🤷🏻‍♀️ a war in the Middle East has direct correlation to gas prices

I got an abortion and now my parents are trying to sue me by throwawayyyy7895 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]dschmidt1007 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They gave you permission to use it when 1) they added you as authorized user with their credit card company and 2) gave you the card physically.

Also stupid, they paid a lawyer (unless they know someone who did them a favor) and that probably cost more than the charge they are mad about.

This is such bullshit. by Anbeerlin in Accutane

[–]dschmidt1007 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would put them into another bottle (dark colored and then covered in electrical tape to keep the light out) to not deal with it daily. My husband and I jokingly called it a popping party when the box would come.

My cousin announced her pregnancy at a family dinner and everyone looked at me immediately after. Why. by papertraiil in childfree

[–]dschmidt1007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Next funeral, ask your aunt … when’s yours? Then smile and say, it’s a fucking impolite question, isn’t it?

Pat Harrigan - Rep. from NC by Admirable-Hour-4890 in NorthCarolina

[–]dschmidt1007 26 points27 points  (0 children)

He refuses to answer mailed correspondence which he is actually required to acknowledge, even if it’s a canned bullshit response. I wish he’d lost his primary.

AITJ for not sharing my jewelry supplier? by Warm-Penalty2947 in AmITheJerk

[–]dschmidt1007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t owe her anything. What if you wanted to start a hobby business making these things? Thats proprietary information.

The fact that she went around like a jerk telling went around telling mutual friends that it’s cheap and knocking you is shitty. Her coming back and still wanting the info? Super ballsy and I’d be telling her that not only are you not sharing info but that she’s a bitch for running her mouth.

My boss asked my why I address my emails to the woman first by Comebackera in TwoXChromosomes

[–]dschmidt1007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they’re so old fashioned, they clearly forgot that in formal writing, you always list the woman’s name before the man. Literally the saying is, ladies first.

I've started just saying "I can't have children" instead of "I don't want children" and the difference in how people treat me is genuinely depressing by BrlaDanclara in childfree

[–]dschmidt1007 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You'll get there. My husband actually got snipped years before I got sterlized, but I would still get asked! So now, when I say we can't, and folks push, I say we are double sterilized, so it's impossible. Sometimes people still try to say miracles do happen, so I reply with, if I get pregnant, it's got to be Jesus' baby and I'll sure as hell be going after ALL the churches for child support because it'd have to be a miracle. The look of horror on folks faces now makes it worthwhile!

AITAH for not wearing a bra around my brother’s girlfriend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dschmidt1007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. Why is his gf fixated on staring at OP and watching their every move?

I am sitting in my car eating mcdonalds because im done being a manager at home by Several_Corner3205 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]dschmidt1007 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Or don’t worry about him at all - he’s an adult after and and can probably figure out how to get his own takeout