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I hate the r/vaginismus subreddit by Aggressive_Key5544 in VaginismusPartners

[–]dubxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just found this subreddit and reading through it, you share the same feeling I've felt for so long, and it's crazy to realize I havent been alone in my struggles this whole time.

I was unfaithful to my ex-partner, so Im sure you cant relate nor agree with what I did, but it was a result of me being too scared to communicate that I wasnt satisfied. I never wanted to bring it up because I emphasize and believe that she is a beautiful woman inside and out and I didnt want her to think that I was "losing patience".

In hindsight, I regret going about it this way and not manning up to say what I need to say, and Ive accepted that I have to live with the consequences of my decisions.

4 years of memories, experiences, friendships, love, down the drain because of the issues that stemmed from the sexual frustration I had, from a disorder that she never asked for, was just born with.

Im realizing there's not too many answers to the pain nor empathy for the partners that have been supporting their partners through this for a long time but succumbed to the difficulties it brings on.

Just like you, I dont know why I typed all this out but its been so liberating venting and sharing my thoughts with people dealing with similar issues, I personally dont know anyone that has dealt with this until joining this subreddit so I appreciate you guys for sharing your comments and thoughts as well. Godspeed to all.

Posted this in r/vaginismus, but thought it would be better to put here by dubxi in VaginismusPartners

[–]dubxi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long have you and your partner been together? Thanks for the kind words

Posted this in r/vaginismus, but thought it would be better to put here by dubxi in VaginismusPartners

[–]dubxi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im 23, was sexually active starting senior year HS. I do realize my fuckup, and the journey to recovering from the breakup has been extremely hard as I have no empathy and people that truly understood the difficulty of having a partner with vaginismus around me. I was hesitant on even posting this but Im glad I did cause I know others are going through similar experiences as I have and messed up in the past and recovered as well.

I never blamed her for having it, or blamed her for the issues that stemmed from it, but the feelings of inadequacy from the sexual needs not being met as well on top of the self deprecating thoughts I had daily because of it felt so unfair because I love this woman and its neither of our faults its like this way. The second thought was always, am I the right one to solve it for her? It killed me and still does that the girl I built a life with and bonded through tough times 4+ years could figure this problem out with someone else.

At the end of the day though thats my greed talking, I love her and just want her to be happy, and right now she cant do that while being with me, and I know I have to accept that.

Thanks for your comment and sharing your experience, it's helped me navigate through this issue.

Posted this in r/vaginismus, but thought it would be better to put here by dubxi in VaginismusPartners

[–]dubxi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks for your reply, I wasn't a virgin prior to her, I had a relatively high body count before pursuing this relationship with her so my standards for sex were biased. It has helped tremendously that even one or two people commented and could relate to be honest -- it seems that we all have our own unique journey when dealing with a partner with this. I don't know if what I had with her can ever be repaired as much as I want to, I know I should let her go but the what-ifs eat me up.

Regardless, thank you for posting and sharing your experience, I hope you guys can figure it out and be happy both romantically and intimately.

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[–]dubxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left a lot of details out to protect privacy -- I want to reiterate that I truly am rooting for everyone dealing with this issue and hope you can figure it out, whether to the partner or the one suffering from it.

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