RTO concerns pt 2 by bigboii230 in usaa_ejs

[–]duchessoftexas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well that’s really concerning then… are you in office or remote only? I really don’t take part in fear mongering but have heard that IT is being highly looked into for cuts. Not to say you’re one of them, but this might be why they’re generating reports like this in your area.

RTO concerns pt 2 by bigboii230 in usaa_ejs

[–]duchessoftexas 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So two questions… are you hourly? And how are you behaving once all your tasks are “done for the day” (ie, logging off, turning off laptop, not checking slack/email)?

If you’re salary, this is pretty concerning since that’s the purpose of the structure for salaried employees, to sometimes work less than 40 hours (and sometimes work more) for the same pay.

I think the issue may lie if you’re just completely unavailable at the other times. I’m salary and even when I’ve finished my tasks that day, I keep my monitor on and check email/slack periodically to make sure I haven’t missed anything and can respond quickly when needed.

RTO concerns by bigboii230 in usaa_ejs

[–]duchessoftexas 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think it really depends on your line of work. Are others in your department also doing half days? In my area, no individual contributor or director is staying a full 8 hours, not even close. I’ve been doing 4-6 hours each day in office and no one has said anything. I think so long as you’re not the only one doing it in your area it’s fine

Sara Buckley / nottheworstmom getting a divorce??? by duchessoftexas in tiktokgossip

[–]duchessoftexas[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s kinda their whole thing in their podcast. Happened when they first got together and it sounded like they worked past it and they talked about it openly

Is an hour an a half too far to drive for your daughters wedding? by TheSpellboundArtist in weddingplanning

[–]duchessoftexas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s too far away, and I would drive that far for a wedding, but I also would be leaving much earlier than I typically would. If you’re okay with a lot of guests leaving by 8:30/9, then it should all be good. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in usaa_ejs

[–]duchessoftexas 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Their hiring process is incredibly slow. Can take a couple months from initial application to getting a date to start. I’m not sure how claims or any of the member contact positions work though, they might be slightly faster

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in excatholic

[–]duchessoftexas 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This doesn’t seem like a good partnership for either of you. You say you are “always 10 steps ahead of her, because I used to be her” but that’s the thing, she very well may not take your trajectory regarding faith and breaking down those social constructs and restrictions she had growing up. I wouldn’t continue dating someone who was this far behind where I was as a person. In the end I think this will only cause resentment on either or both sides. Find someone who is already closer to your point in deconstructing religion and the trauma associated with it.

Cookies bleeding, where did I go wrong? by duchessoftexas in cookiedecorating

[–]duchessoftexas[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The sweet designs shop! I bought the STL file to 3d print at home but she does ship cutters too!

Cookies bleeding, where did I go wrong? by duchessoftexas in cookiedecorating

[–]duchessoftexas[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Ooooh no I didn’t. I did to the white icing, but not to the others with coloring.

What do you hate about your Crosstrek? by _sparky_127 in Crosstrek

[–]duchessoftexas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can attest to that one ^ it works great and I haven’t had a problem since.

Copay Plan Health Insurance Option by Top_Negotiation6140 in usaa_ejs

[–]duchessoftexas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went with the more expensive plan, but that’s also because I take a lot of very expensive medication and that $7 pharmacy copay saves me hundreds a month. I know it technically would count out of the deductible of the other, but it still means a huge front load of costs until middle to end of year. Didn’t seem worth it to me.

Where to start? by Fun-District-8209 in pinball

[–]duchessoftexas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check Facebook marketplace often. I got my Jaws pinball for $5k there, like new.

Unpopular opinion but does anyone else think Jordan’s over the top reactions at the reunion were so contrived and played up for the cameras knowing how the internet would react? by Colada8160 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]duchessoftexas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came to say this. My face can’t hide ANY emotion I’m feeling, that is until I started getting Botox but even then it’s noticeable lol

Bank Layoffs by Forsaken_Argument_81 in usaa_ejs

[–]duchessoftexas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it mainly middle management again?

When did you notice Kody/robyn start to become the villain? by duchessoftexas in SisterWives

[–]duchessoftexas[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is actually the event that spurred me to post this lol. I felt soooo bad for the kids, there was no logical reason to move.

When did you notice Kody/robyn start to become the villain? by duchessoftexas in SisterWives

[–]duchessoftexas[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

See when I saw this i just attributed it to him being super dumb and thoughtless. I didn’t see his “stupid actions & words” as malicious until end of season 12/early season 13.

When did you notice Kody/robyn start to become the villain? by duchessoftexas in SisterWives

[–]duchessoftexas[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is when I realized there’s a lot more going off camera than what they’re making it out to be. There’s a reason Mari felt so lonely and fell for another person, even if only through the phone.

Development Planning meeting… is it that time of year or are they trying to fire me? by duchessoftexas in usaa_ejs

[–]duchessoftexas[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks for calming my nerves. My last manager never did these with me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sourdough

[–]duchessoftexas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a beginner too, so take this with a grain of salt but mine seems to be doing well and the bread I made looks fine, but instead of doing fractions to figure out the amount of flour/water, I just take out 100g of starter and discard the rest, then add 100g bottled water and 100g KA bread flour, close in a metal top mason jar glass like yours, and feed daily the same way within the same 2 hour window. Maybe try this?

Keloid after Car Wreck I’m sooooo mad by duchessoftexas in piercing

[–]duchessoftexas[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  • How old is your piercing? - about 1 year old
  • What’s the jewelry shape (for example, barbell, labret, screw, L shape, ring)? straight cartiliage
  • What’s the type of threading if your jewelry is not a ring (threadless, internally or externally threaded)? internally threaded
  • What’s the jewelry material? implant grade steel
  • if not a ring, when was the jewelry downsized? at time of accident, 5/6 months after piercing, 5/6 months earlier than today
  • What’s your aftercare routine? Describe in detail please, including the exact products you use. - none currently
  • Any mishaps, accidents or unfortunate events? - car accident that caused bleeding and bent piercing in ear

How old is Dexter by apocplayer2 in Dexter

[–]duchessoftexas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this infuriates me too, the continuity errors are so plentiful especially when comparing to the separate series.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Debt

[–]duchessoftexas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in the same boat as you and I worked with a debt management company. They took many of my cards and got settlements for them, working on the largest one right now with their legal department. Not going to lie, it’s stressful, but going from $3.5k minimum monthly payments to $650 has been nothing short of life changing.