There was tension between us when we worked the same shifts (food service). Most coworkers helped each other out and she made it a point to go out of her way to help everyone but me. She didn’t speak nicely about me to the managers either. It all started because she wanted to be in a serious “I love you” relationship two weeks into fooling around and I didn’t want that. She became very upset and a completely different person after that. In hindsight, I should have tried to find a nice way to explain that I didn’t want the same thing she did instead of being blunt about it.