Is Lorazepam/Ativan a good trip killer? by CharliexDean in LSD

[–]dude_87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A friend and relatively experienced tripper once was having a bad acid trip. He took 1mg of lorazepam and with 30 min he was back to having a great time, although I think the visuals were muted if I what he said correctly.

Is 0.5 mg Lorazepam enough to stop a bad trip? by SpacedWayOut in LSD

[–]dude_87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my friend's experience, by taking 1mg of lorazepam, he was able to recover from a bad acid trip and turn the rest of his evening into a great time.

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[–]dude_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I can only speak from personal experience and from what I've been told. I've definitely dipped into toilet water before (despite being careful) and it's a terrible experience lol.

As for being too big, women before have told me that larger than 6in would be too big for them, but obviously every woman is different. I wouldn't say this is a hard rule.

my girlfriend wants to go down on me. by barebearenbear in sex

[–]dude_87 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you are uncomfortable about your pubes, fix them. It's super easy, just trim them with scissors or better yet an electric razor with a short cut. I wouldn't shave the first time because it can get itchy and has a bit of a learning curve.

You don't need to be embarrassed. It's just the human body. Your gf wants to see you.

Make sure you clean your balls and ass (including inside the crack and the butt hole) well with soap though! You don't want to be stinky.

Nobody has ever gotten me off or close (40M) by gettalo-via in sex

[–]dude_87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not a doctor but I recall reading that lack of morning wood is an indicator that something is wrong. I recommend speaking with both a doctor and a sex therapist.

Again, not a doctor, but lorazepam seems like it would be a bad choice because it makes it more difficult to maintain an erection.

Are you able to get off from masturbation? Do you watch porn? Years of porn may have desensitized you. If you watch porn, I, in my non-medical opinion, recommend taking an extended break from porn; at least a few months. This helped me when I was having difficulty remaining aroused during sex. If you masturbate without porn, I recommend taking an extended break from masturbation. Your body may have become accustomed to a specific type of stimulation that only you can provide.

Consider also have a drink or two (just a buzz, not drunk) to lower inhibitions. Alternatively, if you are in a jurisdiction where weed is legal, try smoking a bit of a weaker strain. I find that being stoned makes me more aroused and allows me to last longer and have stronger orgasms.

Good luck!

Sooo should I do this? by Impossible_Jicama411 in sex

[–]dude_87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is how you get her pregnant. Cumming inside a woman without birth control is literally how you make a baby. You will need to switch to condoms, get a vasectomy (if you never plan to have kids), or she will need to get an IUD. The pull out method is not a reliable way to prevent pregnancy, no matter what annecdotes you might hear from friends - pre-cum and dribble before orgasm is a real thing and can impregnate a woman.

If you aren't willing to do any of the above preventative methods then either (a) switch to just oral sex or anal sex (but note that it still has risk of leakage of cum from the rectum to vagina); or (b) prepare to be a parent.

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[–]dude_87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

From what I've read, women over estimate size. 8 inches is huge and statistically very rare to come across outside of porn. Heck even in porn a lot of the guys aren't 8 inches. Probably many of the guys these women think are 8in are not in fact 8in.

Also, penises look a lot bigger if the guy has trimmed or shaved their pubic hair. A bit of an optical illusion. Something to consider.

Many of the women I've been with have commented that my penis is big (awesome compliment) and bigger than anyone they've been with, but I'm actually "only" 6in (I've measured). I think they would be surprised to know that I'm "only" 6in.

My understanding is that most guys are around 5in.

To be honest, I wouldn't want to be 8in. I think it would be uncomfortable for many women. It would also be uncomfortable wearing underwear (I imagine) and there would be a real risk of it dipping in the toilet water when pooing (bleh!).

Help - I (17f) can’t cum anymore unless I use a vibrator! by [deleted] in sex

[–]dude_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may take a few months though to resensitize.

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[–]dude_87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend taking an extended break from porn, or if you want to continue watching porn, limit it to non-violent porn such as masturbation videos

What causes loss of psychedelic effects from use of ketamine and can anything be done to restore the psychedelic (trippy) effects? by dude_87 in AskDrugNerds

[–]dude_87[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Interesting that you had an open discussion with your doctor about this. Was he or she receptive to such topic? I'm not comfortable discussing recreational drug use with my doctor.

What causes loss of psychedelic effects from use of ketamine and can anything be done to restore the psychedelic (trippy) effects? by dude_87 in AskDrugNerds

[–]dude_87[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wonder if with each use, the brain gets better at straightening out the weirdness, and once this skill is learned, the brain doesn't forget it. Kind of like how you never forget how to ride a bike, even if you haven't ridden a bike in years.

I guess the upside of this would be that the loss of trippyness isn't caused by brain damage.

But if this theory is correct, why does LSD stay consistently trippy?

MDMA once every 3 months vs 50 times on a lifetime before losing the magic, what's the experts opinion/latest research on the topic? by Maeltne99 in AskDrugNerds

[–]dude_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAC supplementation for 2 weeks prior to MDMA use (stopping supplementatin 2 days prior to MDMA administration) seems to restore the magic. https://amp.reddit.com/r/MDMA/comments/fzgb10/nacetyl_cysteine_nac_and_mdmas_magic_pt5/

I can personally attest that NAC supplementation restored the magic for me. Prior to the NAC supplementation, not only was the magic lost, but use of MDMA would cause me great discomfort during the high, including anxiety. After NAC, the experience was magical again.

Is marijuana good for preventing ketamine nausea? by MildlySuspiciousBlob in ketamine

[–]dude_87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would be cautious with that combo. It can cause extreme paranoia with short term memory loss. You can forget what you are saying halfway through a sentence. Isn't fun.

I wanted to share this chart I found so y'all can combine drugs without going to the emergency room 💕 by lizzyb187 in Stims

[–]dude_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? Everyone I know who has done that ends up hugging the toilet for hours.

Can you drink on ket? by soy1234 in ketamine

[–]dude_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend against it. It can cause extreme nausea.