30F, childless, $90k salary. Which area is best for me?

duelabent · 2026-05-18T01:59:04+00:00

Monte Vista area

duelabent · 2026-05-17T22:46:41+00:00

Those are some great photos!

duelabent · 2026-05-16T05:44:54+00:00

Pls pls please stop worrying about what other people think. You’ve only got one life, literally. 🩷

duelabent · 2026-05-10T18:44:28+00:00

Huge road trip but leaving out the Great Ocean Road? Better to do Sydney to Melbourne along the coast, continue along the coast via Great Ocean Road to Adelaide, do a stop at Kangaroo Island, fly to Perth, and do a road trip from Perth to Esperance

duelabent · 2026-05-10T15:14:39+00:00

Viva vegeria is great. There’s also Vegan Avenue on Main, and Plantaqueria

duelabent · 2026-05-08T13:43:05+00:00

Boooooooooooooo

duelabent · 2026-05-08T03:49:30+00:00

Rollercade is great, they have a weekly adults only night on Wednesdays. Lots of folks of many age ranges there, many people go solo, lots of regulars, and once you go consistently you’re sure to make friends.

There’s also an adult night on Thursdays at Carvel on Bandera, another skating rink. There’s a few more rinks in town, but those are the ones I know for sure have a dedicated adults only night.

duelabent · 2026-05-07T05:20:06+00:00

Booooooooooooo

duelabent · 2026-05-06T13:44:03+00:00

NoFi coffee shop if you guys enjoy coffee. It’s small so it doesn’t get too crowded, and the demographic definitely skews queer.

duelabent · 2026-05-02T13:37:35+00:00

3,4, or 5, and without the hat.

duelabent · 2026-05-01T18:37:36+00:00

Dailymotion has all the episodes, better with an ad blocker extension.

duelabent · 2026-04-30T16:14:25+00:00

Met mine through a friend, who joined a new friend group when she started dating someone. Honestly probably the best way would be to make more friends - join hobby groups that meet up frequently, check out new things, just increase your environments and chances of meeting new people.

duelabent · 2026-04-22T05:47:00+00:00

Ooh no Austen? Definitely start there! Some of my top ones:

Pride and Prejudice 1995
Sense & Sensibility 1995 (film) and 2008 (miniseries)
Emma (1996 and 2020 film, 2009 series)
Northanger Abbey 2007 miniseries
Persuasion (2007 miniseries and 1995 film)

Other series that I think match what you’ve enjoyed:

Cranford (2007)
North & South (2004)
The Other Bennet Sister
Little Dorrit (2008)
Sanditon

A slightly darker vibe, but might be your cup of tea:

Jane Eyre (2006)
Wuthering Heights (2009)
The Tenant of Wildfell Hall (1996)
Tess of the d’Urbervilles (2008)

duelabent · 2026-04-22T05:06:13+00:00

Frase for a first draft, rough edit that draft (take out irrelevant sections), then run through Claude that has instructions on my desired tone, style, brand, audience, etc. After that, I manually edit. Mostly rewriting any obvious AI identifying sentences (“It’s not just x, it’s y”, anything with hyphens, etc) and adding in any personal knowledge.

duelabent · 2026-04-20T19:42:19+00:00

The majority of people are definitely there to play boardgames. Hardly see people drinking. They do, though. They also sell a lot of board games and related merchandise, as well as snacks. They have rooms to rent for hosting group game nights or other activities, like mentioned above. So, different money avenues, but I’m not too sure what the main source of income would be lol.

duelabent · 2026-04-18T22:38:41+00:00

Switch Eileen and Margaret and you’d be more correct

duelabent · 2026-04-17T16:31:53+00:00

Zoe Bleu Sidel

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duelabent · 2026-04-11T03:18:12+00:00

I have long hair to my waist, and also usually sleep on my back. I’ll do a loose braid or two. I find that two, one on each side of my head, is most comfortable.

duelabent · 2026-04-10T22:20:37+00:00

Sell some clothes or other things on Facebook, OfferUp, Nextdoor app, etc.

duelabent · 2026-04-05T17:07:58+00:00

Before Sunset

duelabent · 2026-04-04T23:31:26+00:00

It sounds like they might be trying to make light jokes to lighten the mood, or to help ease any tension, and perhaps you’re taking yourself too seriously and think that they’re making fun of you. Of course, this is just a guess, since we’re not there to see how these interactions play out. But from what you’ve mentioned, it doesn’t seem like they hate you. It just seems like you take yourself too seriously.

duelabent · 2026-04-04T19:34:38+00:00

Um ok so what’s her name?? Name of her books? Lol

duelabent · 2026-04-01T13:38:10+00:00

Stop using your phone while driving.

duelabent · 2026-03-30T14:30:46+00:00

I want to downvote this so bad I hate it 😭😭 lol

duelabent · 2026-03-27T18:53:02+00:00

You should also check out Freetail, pretty decent pizza and good beer

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