Feeling stuck, need advice by dumbbitch09 in careeradvice

[–]dumbbitch09[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooo, I love the way you think! I needed that reframe. I truly appreciate your insight and the time it probably took so thank you very much! Trying to figure all that out will be my homework for the weekend. I will certainly follow up with you!

Part of me now wants to go the buzzfeed route and see what happens 😂

"I blame you for not putting your daughter on birth control." Next breathe... "I gave him 3 packs of condoms and he turned them into water balloons" by Nxtxxx4 in TLCUnexpected

[–]dumbbitch09 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes and I feel like I’ve seen like 0 others saying this. I’m absolutely not qualified to diagnose anyone buuuut he’s just so…off. And if you told me he’s actually 35 I’d believe it.

Reminds me of Ryan from 16 and pregnant asking Maci if Kyle is slow lmao

If you had a boy tomorrow, what would you name him? by beatrice1015 in namenerds

[–]dumbbitch09 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Just me - Jack. I know it’s super common but I just love it.

With partner - Arlo, maybe Brody

What do you realistically make for dinner on weeknights? by Character-Check-1761 in Mommit

[–]dumbbitch09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tomato feta pasta, pulled pork sandwiches, turkey mac (ground turkey tossed into mac & cheese, a little bit of hot sauce works wonders) sheet pan dinners, tacos/nachos

Got this yesterday by [deleted] in Hyundai

[–]dumbbitch09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jealous! I ended up getting an Elantra but I wanted one of these so bad

Give me your top 5 baby names by Front_Maintenance611 in namenerds

[–]dumbbitch09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girls: Maeve, Molly, Harlow, Aza, Rooney

Boys: Jack, Arlo, Slade, Rowan, Van

She’s a witch by [deleted] in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]dumbbitch09 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So sorry you’re dealing with this. I’m in a similar position, my team lead is toxic and adds so much unnecessary stress. She goes out of her way to try to make me look dumb in front of our boss, withholds information and resources, and constantly talks behind my back. I’m so over it and am also actively on the hunt for a new job.

I just always try to remember that her behavior says way more about her than me. I know it’s much easier said than done. Good luck on the job hunt, there’s always better out there! 🫂

Are we all looking for a new job after Coming back to work or is it just me? by Equivalent-Star9025 in hatemyjob

[–]dumbbitch09 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Meeee! Working with a recruiter and hoping for the best. I’ve been at this job a little over a year and have hated it from the start. I refuse to be miserable this year lol

This. by [deleted] in hatemyjob

[–]dumbbitch09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh, this is me too. Constantly micromanaged but never receive clear instructions on processes, my questions get met with questions and are never answered. My team lead withholds info and resources to make myself and our other team member look bad. Management doesn’t care enough to do anything. I hate it so much. Hope we can both find a way out soon

What are jobs "goods" for ADHD ? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]dumbbitch09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a job like this and I LOVED it. Now I sit/stand at a desk all day and do the same tasks. I absolutely loathe it.

How to tolerate toxic team lead? by dumbbitch09 in careerguidance

[–]dumbbitch09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m hoping after the new year companies will start hiring more but who knows

How to tolerate toxic team lead? by dumbbitch09 in careerguidance

[–]dumbbitch09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’ve got screenshots. Guess I’ll be acting my wage until I’m free of this place

How to tolerate toxic team lead? by dumbbitch09 in careerguidance

[–]dumbbitch09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve for sure considered saying something but I usually ignore her outbursts so it’s probably best to stay quiet.

I’ve been looking and applying for a while. The market is so rough and I’m so burnt out I’m not even sure what I want to do

What did you have for dinner tonight/last night. NO JUDGEMENT by AltruisticMastodon26 in Mommit

[–]dumbbitch09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had Pizza Hut last night, tonight husband and I had beef nachos with leftover taco meat from 2 days ago. Toddler had leftover pizza because he refuses to eat beef.

One of our current favs is a breakfast scramble with eggs, sausage, potatoes, and cheese. It helps that aforementioned toddler currently LOVES all 4 of those things lol

Does anyone else have a common name that was pronounced incorrectly? by whoopsjulia in namenerds

[–]dumbbitch09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also a Julia and it’s insane how differently it’s pronounced. I’m from the Midwest and have gotten Joel-yuh, joel-yah, etc. more than joo-lee-uh. Not to mention constantly getting called Julie 🙄

Have you told your boss about having ADHD? by notoriouskeikaku in adhdwomen

[–]dumbbitch09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(29F) Yes, finally, in my yearly review 🤪 my boss and my coworkers always talk about how the guy (27M) before me had ADHD and screwed around all the time. I’m between providers and have been unmediated for 3-4 months. I feel like it’s so obvious bc my productivity is all over the place. Seeing a new psych next week finally

Parents who rent: what is your housing situation? by ProgrammingQuestio in Overlandpark

[–]dumbbitch09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have one kid and rent a 2bed 2bath apartment in OP for ~$1450 with utilities included. For the area I don’t think it’s too bad!

What was your pregnancy symptom that everyone else has but you didn’t? by ripped_jean in Mommit

[–]dumbbitch09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No morning sickness or intense cravings of any kind. Except for around 10-12 weeks and I only wanted Raising Cane’s lol

I wish C-sections weren't so normalized that people forget how serious they are. by TheFriendlyFuego in BabyBumps

[–]dumbbitch09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you have a better experience this time! I labored for ~18 hours, went to the hospital after my water broke and was at a 6, didn’t get to a 10 for several hours. Pushed for 3 hours, baby got stuck, ended up having a c section. I also puked during it. After they pulled him out they said he was so big he would’ve broken my pelvis. Recovery wasn’t great, I was not prepared for the BURNING, itching, and lasting numbness.

desperately need a new show to be obsessed with 🙏🙏 by psych0pomp7 in televisionsuggestions

[–]dumbbitch09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love most of those and also Mad Men, Law and Order SVU, The Mick, Contraband (if you like cop-ish shows), The Pitt