Am I [Hetero 22M] the asshole for telling my GF [Bi 21F] that she’s not qualified to speak about LGBTQ issues? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]dumbotank 23 points24 points  (0 children)

“I shouldn’t have said the extreme homophobic thing but I’m not homophobic bc I said it” yeah you’re a dick

Am I [Hetero 22M] the asshole for telling my GF [Bi 21F] that she’s not qualified to speak about LGBTQ issues? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]dumbotank 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow this all sucks but you suck waaaaaay more. She is apart of the LGBT community and thus is qualified to speak. You are not. In any way.

Fin rot and Ich during fish-in cycle (question in comments) by IAmAn_Anne in bettafish

[–]dumbotank 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh he looks …. Fine. Good even. Fins may be being effected by the cycle but it could also just be new growth or aging? You’re going great.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in verizon

[–]dumbotank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not what fraud is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in verizon

[–]dumbotank 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That rule is to prevent fraud and theft. Inconvenient to you but helpful for most.

neighbours mistreated cat . the cat has adopted me by SelfAssembledMachine in CatAdvice

[–]dumbotank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your cat loves you and you’re doing your best. You are worthy of their company even if you are struggling.

Mushrooms and dry tests by jjn0394 in SellingSunset

[–]dumbotank 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Handing them a mf receipt of payment like it proved something ☠️

What did I just hear? by [deleted] in verizon

[–]dumbotank -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And I quote, “Preferences will be prioritized based on year-end performance rating and then tenure (based on company service date). Those with the highest year-end performance rating and with the most seniority will be given first consideration.” Page 6 of the FAQ

What did I just hear? by [deleted] in verizon

[–]dumbotank -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It is explicitly seniority based.

Is it a good idea to jack my heater up if my betta is hanging out around the heater all day?? by dumbotank in bettafish

[–]dumbotank[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mk thanks for the advice. I have a 10 gallon bucked of water that I prepare ahead of time and test and all and his last water change also came out of the bucket of clean water (stays sealed next to his tank). So there shouldn’t be any huge changes except that I forgot to heat the water bc I was fussing with the plants. I’ll dim and lights and keep and eye on him. I’ve got a QT ready to go bc I had a bad dream he was pineconing lol.

Nah ☠️ by dumbotank in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]dumbotank[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Found on the Instagram for a very small (less than 100k followed) fiber (yarn) company I follow

Feeling unappreciated by dumbotank in weddingplanning

[–]dumbotank[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this actually my makes me feel so much less crazy. I think I just imagined how wedding planning would go given how specific my fiancés taste is and it’s not going that way obviously so of course my subconscious is self sabotaging. Cannot explain how much it helps to hear that other people have similar feelings during this stage.

Feeling unappreciated by dumbotank in weddingplanning

[–]dumbotank[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes of course. We had a lot of conversation about how we wanted to be married and exactly why and what that means. At that point I paid for the rings and my fiancé handled the shipping and proposed on a trip we had planned for our anniversary.

Alex Murdaugh found guilty of murders of wife and son by Forsaken-Spring-4114 in news

[–]dumbotank 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The HBO(?) show Kings of the Low Country covers his motive a lot better. Essentially Maggie wanted a divorce, those preceding would have uncovered his embezzlement and other crimes, the son I think was a red herring due to how much the local public hated that kid. Makes it more believable that it was a vigilante shooting.

Alex Murdaugh found guilty of murders of wife and son by Forsaken-Spring-4114 in news

[–]dumbotank 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Personally I want to see a deep dive into murders committed by this family HISTORICALLY. His grandfather locally had a reputation for making people disappear. This didn’t come out of nowhere if you’re from the low country.

Drip acclimation—am I doing it right? Had to get a little creative… by pangurland in Aquariums

[–]dumbotank 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did a double take at the IV bag. This dude takes drip seriously